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  1. sobe

    Edit Option?

    Waqas bro yeh edit ki option kahan gayii ??? i mean post karke agar us post ko edit karna ho to ??
  2. sobe

    Commitment With Others

    u right baat boht asan aur sada theee.. one should fulful their commitement.. its simple as tht .. aur jo nahi poora karta woh ghalta hy.. offcourse we r ignoring all the possible circumstances here tht could have lead to not fulfiling tht commitement .. kionky halat ko consider karke baat diff hojati hay par kisi bhi comitement me aik party ka dosri party pe complete control ho aesa boht kam hota hy.. ya to app America aur Afghanistan ki comitement ki baat karo aur aik party ka dominating role ho to samjh bhi ata hy.. aur yeh aik specific scenrio ban gaya in general word aam tor pe aesa nahi hota.. at the least jahan tuk menay dekha hay :)
  3. sobe

    Commitment With Others

    app commitement ko aik specific scnerio se bataogi to me kesy judge kar sakta hoon ke woh kiya hy .. menay to boht broad andaz me reply kiya tha kisi aik scenrio ko nazar me rakh ke thori.. yani aik general baat karte huay reply kiya ... aur menay aesa kiya kehdiya jis se dominating behaviour nazar ata hy.. i mean agar aik banday nay rigths fulfil karnay hain to is me kiya ghlat hy.. the reason why i said is kionky commitement pay app koi solid haq nahi jata sakty apna.. for example aik banda verbally commit karta hy tht he is gonna buy the car from me.. to me us ko boundnahi kar sakta he must buy untill it become offical through paper work .. correct.. kionky ab app ne aik cheez offcialy kar di ab woh bound hay .. jesay menay yeh examply di is tarah maybe app koi specific scenerio se judge kar rahi ho to mujy to nahi maloom na ke app kis scenrio se baat kar rahi ho.. i dnt knw the cicumstances of it .. dosri baat app ne kaha ke haququl ibaad ki baat ki hay woh apnay munshok log tuk hi kion?? thts not true.. jiska jo haq banta hy woh haq hy.. bashartia woh jaiz haq ho to woh haq hy .. is me koi khasosi log nahi ...yeh sab logon ka jo haq hy woh hay.. is me koi compliacted baat nahi hy.. again app jo baat kar rahi ho.. i cnt judge between those two party cuz i dnt knw unkay darmyan kiya commitement hay aur kiya reasoning hain etc etc.. aur app ne kaha ke commitement me dosra fard bhi hota hy to obviosuly its between two parties .. ab yahan sawal yeh utha hay ke jo commitement hui hy kiay woh offcial commitement hy jiskay wajah se dono parties ke aik dosray pe haq ajata hain.. agar aesi baat hy to phir baat commitement nahi.. haqooq tuk chli jati hy aur yahan pe koi grey area nahi rehjata .. its simple either u r fulfiling the right or u r not .. u see verbal commitement se aam tor pe koi bound nahi hota.. so i dnt knw kis kisam ki commitemnt pe app baat kar rahi ho.. haan agar verbal commitent me dono parties kisi special circumstances ki wajah se bound hojatay hain.. then this becomes a bit more complex issue.. and tht specific scenerio have to be judge differntly.. but general sense of commitent is pretty straighforward.. koi app ko aik commitemnet ya compromise me control nahi kar sakta jab tuk app usay control do yani bound karo.. aur zahir hy jab app kisi ko control dety ho to kuch control apkay pass bhi hota hy aesa to nahi hota ke app totaly bound ho aur dosra banda bound hi nahi.. again m srry agar app ko mera view is topic pe offensive and one sided laga but i only said wht i have seen and understand to the best of my knowledge and fairness agar app koi specifc scenerio se present karti ho... then i can presnt my view exclusively on tht
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    Commitment With Others

    intresitng.. well how each indivaidual fulfil their commitement is differnt and it varies frm person to person.. so there can never be one ans.. also i would like to add one more thing . their is commitment .. their is compromise and i beleive tht their are rights ... to agar is hisab se dekha jaye to rights ki value sab se ziayda hui.. i mean it simplifies in tht manner.. cuz jiska jo haq hay woh mangy bhi to us me koi ghalat nahi hy.. ab agay usko right ko manipulate karek commitement banayo ya compromise .. rights to right hoty hain they wont change.. agar commitement ko specfic scnerio me judge karna ho possible nahi hoga untill we knw the complete story from both side.. so basically in my opinion rights . or should i say haququl ibaad ki value sab se ziayda hy .. ab is ko each indivadual me nahi breakdown karoonga.. i beleive everyone knws wht they r .. so baciallyy wht m saying is on personal level.. i wouuld fulfil the rights rathern then commitement .. cuz their is no injustice in tht.. as long as we dnt alter the spefic rights to each individuals personal benefit
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    Eyes

    good sarcasm
  6. sobe

    Eyes

    lol ok :D..thts strange.. i mean app kabhi kisi se nahi mili jiski eyes black hon aur uski personlity dosri black eyes walay se diff hon.. ??
  7. sobe

    Eyes

    hahah ok .. wesy me pooch sakta hoon ke app ne kis base pe yeh conclusion nikala ke saray black eyes log aik jesay hoty hain.. i mean unki personality :D
  8. sobe

    Eyes

    app meri baat ka matlab ghalat samjh gayi ho... ill make it even more specific for u.. mery nazdeek brown eyes and dark brown eyes and black eyes me koi farak nahi .. imean i thinks its pretty much same color.. mera kehna ka maqsad yeh the ill make it very specific.. ke even black eyes log jo hoty hian unki sabki personlaity kiya aik jesi hoti hy ??
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    Eyes

    lol never mind.. personality ya culture eyes se to thori banty hain hahah.. pehli dafa suna hy :P.. anyway u girls continue this lol.. mujy mera ans milgaya :D
  10. sobe

    Eyes

    so let me get this straight everyone with color eyes are bewafa :D.. ok... kalko inshAllah tumahray bachay hongy.. if one of them happen to be colored eyes.. he/she is alreadry bewafa haina :D.. amazing.. i see whts wrong wid this our world.. we judge ppl before they r even born :D. m not blaming u .. m blaming our parents and ancestor who came up this ridiculos theory ..
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    Eyes

    idnt u didnt understand wht i say lol.. everybody cries smile etc etc regardless of eye color.. wht m asking is how does one eye specific color define their personality ?? u could have any colro eyes and ur personality could be totaly opposite to whts written abovve ..
  12. sobe

    Eyes

    u can find diff color eyes ppl in pak too.. they live wid their families .. yeh humara culture hay .. personlaity nahi :) west has diff culture.. yahan pe brown eyes bhi apni family ke sath nahi rehty ..
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    Eyes

    i didnt say something about science thts against religion so i dnt see any reason not to belive in it.. i mean when we technically go to the dr we r beliveing in science .. right?? maybe color did play a big role.. but i dnt think it does anymore.. its not the same world as it is use to be at our parents time .. its much more complex and or maybe very simply in sense tht materlaistic things have more value.. regardless of personality or nature..
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    Eyes

    i also wanna to say there is no such things a black eye color.. its basically very dark.brown.. by the its not me who is saying it.. its science :)
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    Eyes

    lol m not talking about stranger me to apnay hi ghar walon yani family mmbr ki baat kar raha hoon and all of them has brown/dark brwon/black eyes.. like the majority of the ppl since brown is a dominnat gene.. khair mera point yeh hy.. ke eyes color ghar me sab ki same.. lakin sab ki adatain sab ki personality me to farak hota hy.. minimum 25% se lekar would se 75- 80% tuk to hota hay.. kiya saray brown eyes walay aik jesay hoty hain ?? kiya app ke gahr me sab ki aik jesi personality hay ?? me color me ki baat kar raha hoon how their eye looks like ki nahi.. cuz emotions and feelings ka affect poori body pe hota hy to its natural for it show on eyes as well..
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    Eyes

    lol me eyes ki nahi eye color ki baat kar raha tha ke eye color personality se kiya lena dena.. yes offocurse tell u a lot.. shayed mera qc clear enough nahi tha.. mera kehna yeh tha ke koi itnay speciic description kesay de sakta hy har eye color ki .. ke falanay color ka person is tarah hoga etc etc.. unless they did research on it and they came up with it.. kionky world mjority ppl ki eyes... black / brown/ dark brown hoti hay.. but personlaities me zameen asman ka farak hota hy.. to kisi ki eyes ka uskay color se to koi lena dena na hua na ??
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    Eyes

    is it just me or basically its the same thing written for each one of them in differnt words.. cuz i dnt see any difference whts so ever.. and how do they come with .. i mean how can a person eyes affect some one personality
  18. sobe

    ~Ramzan Oar Dosti~

  19. sobe

    Is Shia Kaafir?

    kiya baat ki hay app ne.. ji bilkul 6 kalmay ka app ko batyunga .. lakin sab pehlay first kalima to clear karlain..pehlay hum dono is pe to itfak karlain to phir baki ke ikhtilfat pe bhi baat kar lenagy... app ne kaha ke Rasool Allah (S.A.W) ne famraya hay to isay kalmay me kion nahin add kiya ja sakta... to kiya Rasool Allah (S.A.W) ne sirif aik yehi baat farmayi hay .. App (S.A.W) ne to aur boht kuch farmaya hay woh bhi kalmay me add kar letayhain.... app ko kis ne kaha ke Rasool Allah (S.A.W) ki baat ki koi ahmeiut nahin hay... menay to is baat se inkar hi nahin kiya me to is baa ko manta hoon ke Rasool Allah (S.A.W) ne aesa kaha tha ke Hazrat Ali (R.A) meray baad khalifa hongay... lakin is baat ko Rasool Allah (S.A.W) ne kalmay me add karnay ka kab kaha yeh bata saktain hain app... app ne apni taraf se add kiya na... yani app ne kalmay me hi apni marzi kar dali to peechay kiya reh jata hay... jab ab app Rasool Allah (S.A.W) ki baat me apni marzi kar sakte ho ... kalmay me kar sakty ho to app kisi bhi cheez me apni marzi dal saktay ho... aur islam yeh nahin hay ke app ka jahan dil karay wahan apni marzi se us baat ka mtalb nikalo aur man lo..
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    Is Shia Kaafir?

    sho in se baat karna hi fazool hay.. pehlay kalma pe to baat ho jaye.. matam to boht baad ki baat hay... islam ka kalma kiya hy .. jo Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W) ne bataya.. ab yeh mut kahiyay ga ke app (S.A.W) ne kaha ke Ali (R.A) meray khalifa hongay baad me is liyay add kardiya..
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    Is Shia Kaafir?

    omar khan .. i have qc... baki sab cheezain chorain .. app mujhy sirif itna bata dain ke jo kalma app ne upar likha hay .. yeh kalma.. Hazrat Muhammad (S.A.W) se kahan sabit hota.. cuz baki sab arguement to baad ki baat hay ... sab se important thing to kalma hay .. so pehlay to app yeh clear kar dain...ke yeh .. sunni aur shia aur sab ko side pe karke yeh bata den.. ke yeh islam se kahan sabit hota hay ... not trying to be rude so personal mut liyiaga
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    A Man Younger Than You

    wow ... quite debate going on here... well i wanted to say some more things to... first i have seen arraneg marrigae where guys is younger then girl .. and more then 2 years.. so its not love or arrange marrigae.. no body can prdeict the future so its uselss to argue the futre .. i mean u cant predict it ..sometime every things makes sense.. but it still doesnt work out... 2nd thing about family and parents.. well i would say it depends how much of a compromise u can make.. cuz if u cant put up to the compromise for ur family and ur parents.. u could eventually end up going against them.. and it will make things even more complicated.. possibly a divorce or the rest of ur life liviing unhappy and not satisfied and arguing with ur wife or husband depending on the case... zaroori nahin hay ke aesa ho.. but it could happen and then living ur rest of live blaming ... each person should knw how much they can put it up... cuz basically its like signing a contract.. and its not matter of days but for the rest of ur life.. so its not easy.. so before deciding whthere u should follow urself parents or ur own decsion .. think how much can u put up with the each situation what i see is that now days personal happiness matters a lot.. cuz now days things are too open.. i mean compare to back in our parents time.. families were extremely conservitive.. ppl mind were consrvtitive as well.. since the whole societey followed the same rule.. therefore it didnt affected them as much.. and last thing frm islam perspective.. to be honest with u islam is the best religion and teaches and guide u for ur life with most fair possible way.. its us and our own personal wishes that makes things so complicated.. its natural to have them but it really make things complicated..
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    A Man Younger Than You

    lol its only 2 year.. look at celeberities.. they can have 15 or 20 diff and its consider cool ... so u get the point now looking at it from a more serious perspective.. The first thing that matters is the girl the guy marying and then parents and then family and etc etc... both ppl should knw each other well and should be able to understand that no human is perfect and everyone has their share of flaws in them... therfore expecting perfection is injustice regardless of who expects it.... the guy or the girl.. also each couple are special for themself not for the world or parents or family.. they understand their importance and value .. for this world and family and everyone else any couple is just normal typical couple.. age is number... now days and in culture we gave too much importatnce to unnecary things and age is also one of those factors.. dnt follow the unnecsary rules of this world.. the only rule one should be be follwoing is that of islam.. and in islam there is nuthing wrong wid that.. beside its only 2 year diff.. i mean seriously 2 year cmn.. when both the guy and girl will be in 40's it would hardly matter.. if they have the understanding between them.. and if there parents are happy wid it.. then doing this would be the right and fair thing to do ...
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    Is Shia Kaafir?

    its not a question of someone belif and faith .. its about the right and wrong.. to claim something tht is right, which is absolutely wrong is also jahalat.. aur yeh boht bara zulm hay.. haq ki baat karna aur haq ke liyay baat karna bhi jihad hay... yahan pe kisi ke sath personal nahi hona.. kisi ko personaly target nahi karna.. .. kionky personaly targe karna gahalt hay.. baat right or wrong ki hay yahan.. aur jo right hay woh humesha hi right hi rahega .. chahay baat jitni marzi ghuma phira kay karlo.. yahan pe sirif shia ya suni ki baat nahin.. its about islam.. kionky shia ho ya suni ho ya brelvi ho ya wahabi ho... at the end of the day islam wohi hay jo hazarat Muhammad (S.A.W) ke waqt me tha aur wohi rahega.. chahay kkoi kitna marzi arguement kion na laye.. ya koi kuch bhi kahay.. agar hum log muslaman honay ka aur islam ko apna religion mantay hain to uska haq me baat karna ka ki jurat bhi rakhni chiyay... meri yeh post kisi aik ke liyay naihn hay na yeh shia logon ke liyay hay na na sunion ke liyay hay.. its for everyone jo apnay app ko muslamn kehnay ka dawa rakhta hay.. kionky islam ki value aik muslman ke liyay sab se ziayda hay
  25. sobe

    Members Tht Shud Be Banned

    nahi sho tum ban hi karwado .. kisi ki dili khawish aur tamana poori ho jayegi
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