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hello!

absolutely right mansoor it's not necessary whatever we plan...it becomes as we planned n wajid we r talking about simply Expectations ur Examples..........quite suitable ;)

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hahaha bhai mai bhi to expectation ki hi baat kar raha hoon kai insan expect un se karta hai jin ko apni zimmedri ka ehsas ho aur apnay kaam ko achi tarha sar-anjaam dai sakta ho tabhi to aap ki expect par poora utar sakta hai magar aaj kal pakiez walon nai apni zimmedari ko nibhana chor dia hai aur dosaron ki khamiyan daikhtay hain jis ko kai aaj kal politics kaha jata hai ???

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Salaam u all :hi:

Heyyy cooooollll well explained :yes: even I understood the point u were making :lol:

At the end of the day what we achieve is a blessing from Allah but in order to gain success we need to put in the effort and hard work too!

Not everything is handed to us on a golden platter.. unless ur the King of Brunai :)

Sx

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Very True Shabo..!

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very right shabo.....king of brunai has 100's of ferrari's ...... Bill Gates may be the richest man on earth....but how many ferrari's bill jee?

Bill Gates = :blush:

paa jee kharcha keran waastay we jigara chaee da aye jo bill sahib kol nahin :P

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cool u have explained it well...... but expectaction of good marks is quite different from expectations from relatives and friends

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very right fati there is a difference among the EXPECTATIONS haan woh alag baat hai abh chahe koi iss bare main kuch bhi remarks de but FACT is fact :P

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waisay ye to bataay kai expect jis se ki jati hai un mai kia kia khoobian honi zarori hai ?? :)

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HMMMmmmm !

JusT wana say helooo everY buddY ! Stay happy where ever u r :D

kia kuch off_topic Boll gia ???? hehhe e kabhi kabhi aisa bhee HOOta hai :P

reGards

MansOOr

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jin se expect kiya jata hay.. they must b worth expecting.. simple :)

i think the most important thing is understanding!

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salam all :hi:

yeah fati it indeed is different.........expectations from frnds and relatives hmmmm....well janab it all depends on ur judgement basically..... like what r u expecting and from which person and is he good enough to satisfy u?

janab masla yeh hai keh hum baaz auqat kisi say bhi kisi qism ki expectations laga letay hain...bina sochay samjhay keh woh shaks iss qabil bhi hai yaan nahin?....aur jab humari expectations puri nahin hoteen to phir dukh hota hai...... waisay to insaan ko khud ko itna strong rakhna chahiye keh ussay kabhi bhi kisi ki zaroorat he na parray....u shudn't be depending alot on others.....aub ab iss zamanay mein jahan aap kay achay dost bhi apnay faeday kay liye aap ko istamal kertay hain wahan aap ko kisi say zyada expectations rakhni he nahin chahiyen

and if u talk abt luv...then as they say if u really luv sum1 u don't do it to get sumthing in return!.....meray nazdeek sacha pyar yehi hota hai....jab aap kisi say mohabat kertay hain to phir apna faeda yaan nuqsaan nahin sochtay ... its not like u r entering in sum contract with sum other person with sum terms and conditions and if u didn't get anything the contract will become void bcoz of other person's performance ..... luv is absolutely blind!

and yeah it really hurts when u see ur luv with sum1 else or when u come to know that he/she isn't interested in u ....so what?.....like shahrukh khan said in sum movie...maen nay uss say pyar kernay say pehlay yeh shart nahin rakhi thee keh woh bhi mujh say utna he pyar keray gi aur humaisha mera saath day gi.....aray janab agar aap kisi say sacha pyar kertay hon to aap kabhi bhi ussay bud duaa nahin detay ...chahay woh kitna he ghattiya insaan ho!

iss liye humaisha ALLAH say duaa kertay rehna chahiye kyunkeh dilon kay raaz sirf Wohi jaanta hai....kisi kay dil mein kya hai yeh sirf ALLAH he jaanta hai !

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Salamz to all..!

very nice topic started by kiran..:)

i cudn't read all the posts but read jus sum selected posts ..n herez my opinion..

look..as far as expectationz r concerned..infact they r also very important for us..bcuz u know one goes for anything only if he expects sumthing from tht..like if u r gonna take part in any quest then there must be sum expectationz of urz with urself tht u can do sumthing in tht..but if u possess no expectation then itz very hard for u to be an active.! BUT..gr8 expectationz sumtimes hurt us..as far as i have experienced..i had n have very very good friends....n not only friends but also every 1 i got was luckily luving n caring towards me..but still i didn't hope anybudy more then his capapbility...bcuz we all know tht therez no trust here..or very less..every 1 is.(or say it mostly r) jus with u until u r at hgh...n therefore expecting them tht wen u wud not stay at ur position then they wud be still with u is mostly hurting..

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while ... if u jus going not expecting anyone..then u wud feeel alone in this world..n friends being alone in this world is in my views the worst punishment..!

concluding my post...

thtz the reason..my teacher ( may God uplift her to the higher rank ) taught me to remember.." Hope for the best BUT still be prepared for the worst"..n if u remember it..then u wud be hurted very very less..while if u jus going to expecting anyone to high extents..then certainly u wud be wounded n ur heart might crash..! so take care.. :)

C ya.!

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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm shani very right ;)

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cool and shani :yes:

very much agreed

thats true that v shud hope for the best and prepare for the worst. becoz v dont know whats gonna happen next....

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plz tell me any name of this community user kai jis ko example banaya ja sakay kai aisay insan se achi expectations rakhi ja sakti hain .... yahan kisi kai nazar mai koi aisa user hai kia jo kai expectation lagaanay kai khabil ho ... plz tell me without any politics :P :D

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well wajid y do u feel that we r hurting u? bhi jab aap baat iss tarah ker sakte hain to hum kyon nahi magar wajid one thing keep in mind sachi n Sweet baat SADQA hai so aisi koi baat karo hi na ke koi tumhe palat ker kahe kiya khayal hai abh reply zara cool mind se kerna kahin mujhe hi....... ;)

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bhai ab kia mughay koi sawal pochnay ka right bhi nahi hai ... mainay to aik simple sawal pocha hai kai yahan par kisi aisay user ka naam batain kai jis ko aap samajhtay hain kai woh expectation rakhnay kai laaiq hai .... i think is se ziada simple sawal mughay milna mushkil hi hai .... is Q mai mushkil hi kia hai bhai ??? :(

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MM...Wajid May batati hon..!

May hon na..!!

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nice going..:_ n thx fati n kirna for appreciatin,g,,newayz..for few days i wud be away from the community...as me v v v v buzy here,,

c ya all!

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o welcome

busy here or there?

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hi everybody :hi:

May i come in to say something ??? :lol:

bbye

W.K.

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hi!

welcome everyone n u too wajiha u don't need to ask for say anything :)

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