prliqbal 0 Posted September 12, 2009 it is generally observe that when opposite sex have freindship mostly it converted to a love. but when they become life partner it could not lead to a very friendly life. and thats why specially in our culture most of the love marriages are unsuccessful or flopped. what could be the reason? is the freindship between opposite sex is just because of attraction? or they dont understand each other quite well before marraige due to some limits because of opposite sex? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rust_in_peace 2 Posted October 9, 2009 in my opinion, friendships between opposites genders may lead to love generally in situations when the friends are the only friends. love marriage is a natural impulse and it is not wrong to say that love is blind. when in love , all good and bad traits of a person seem alike. and i think , on the basis of my observation, living together is altogether a different scenario. this is compounded by family pressures and other extraneous factors. i call them realities of life. all this while, the fundemental thing is respect for other. experts say love is infact passion for each other, i would refrain from further dialation of this aspect coz some readers may categorize it as obscenity. but the crisp word is, that this passion lasts for two to three years. what happens then? well thats when the magical thing called compromise comes in as we all label marriage a compromise. it lasts as long as both are happily willing to share the burden of compromise. typically in our society inspite of the benefits of the combined family system, one possible demerit is the extraneous factor, as i said above. so i guess a big heart, respect for each other are the ingredients for a succesfull marriage, remember marriage , arranged or love, is a marriage and its tag is not distinguishable after the marriage has taken place. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
