fati 0 Posted July 7, 2004 A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE. They kept on walking until they found an oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but the friend saved him. After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: TODAY MY BEST FRIEND SAVED MY LIFE. The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now, you write on a stone, why?" The other friend replied "When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But, when someone does something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can ever erase it." LEARN TO WRITE YOUR HURTS IN THE SAND AND TO CARVE YOUR BENEFITS IN STONE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them. Do not value the THINGS you have in your life.. But value WHO you have in your life! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RUBY_4U 0 Posted July 8, 2004 SALAM, WOW FATI ZABARDAST ANSWERS DEYE HAIN AP NE THEEK HAI IZHAR ZAROORI HAI MAGAR YEHI BAAT HAI NA SAMNE WALA NA MUKER JAYE AUR YEH BHI BILKUL SAHI HAI KE PYAR WOHI AACHA HOTA HAI JO KISI SE KOI RISHTA JURNE KE BAD HO JESE SHADI MAGAR WOH KHUSH RAHE AUR NA MILYE BHI TO GHAM NAHIN KA MATLAB YEH THA KE AGAR APP KISI KO PASAND KERTE HAIN WOH NA BHI KARE TO APPKO PURI IMANDARI SE USS KE LIYE DUA KERNI CHAHIYE AUR BEWAFA NAHIN KEHNA CHAHIYE KIA PATA USS KI KIA MAJBOORI HO Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 8, 2004 ruby u r right..... dua tu bilkul karni chahiya... aur ap us ko kush bhi dekhna chaho ge agar pyar sachah ai..... magar mera maqsad ya tha... ke hum jab pyar kartay hain. tu us waqt tu humain pata nahi hota ke dosra banda humain karta hai ya nahi...... magar hum hamesha yahi chahtay hain ke wo bhi karay.... ab agar wo kisi aur ka ho... yani ke humara na ho sakay. tu kuch arsa baad humain bhi kisi aur se mansoob hona apray ga. aisay main usi puranay walay hi ko yaad karna tu sahi nahi hai na.. kayunke ya tu bewfai ho jai gi. uske sath jis ke sath ap mansoob ho..... warna phir ya karo.. ke sari zindagi ko tabah ker ke usi ke aas main bethay raho jo ap nahi ho saka...... isi liya :D pehlay shadi phir pyar.. magar wo kiya boltay... ya tu ho jata hai.... waisay kiyak hiyal hai.. pyar hota hai ya kiya jata hai ??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 8, 2004 ruby >>> well piyar to most of bt shadi se pehley hie hota hia aur agar sacha ho to shadi k baad bhie qaim aur daim rehta hia ;) ...n dats reall true k woih bhaley piyar na karey par hamain apney dil se usey duadeni chahiyee :) ... hmmm ho sakta hia us ki koi majboorie ho :( ... bas yar yeh zindaghee ki majbooriyan .... kis ki kya majbooriyan koun bhala kese janey :( ? fati >>> piyar faisley nahien kya jata bas ho jata hia ;) ... aur hum waqaiyee yehie chahitey hianjis se hum piyar karein woh bhie hum s ekarey ... lakin jab koie bata he na paye k woh us se piyar karta hia aur phir wohi kisi aur ko piyarkarney lagh jaye jese k app ne faramaya :( to zara socho jo dil ki baat na kar saka us ki kya halat ho rahee ho ghee :( ... piyar to bas ho jata hia na ... us ka kya kasoor k us ne piyar kya aur agar kya hia to us ko hamesha yehi dar ho k woh usey piyar karey ghee ya nahien isi chakar main keh na saka to us becharey ka akhior kya kasoor jousey itnie saza suna kar kisi aur se piyar kariney lagh jaye Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 8, 2004 umair. kuch zada clear nahi hoa tumhara point.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 8, 2004 fati >>> app ki lambi post tomaine ab parhi hia ;) i object fati ... app yeh manite ho na piyar bas ho jata hia to app yeh kese keh sakti ho k piyar shadi k baad karina chahiyee ;) ...ab piyarkariney k baad hazar wajoohat ho jatien hian na miliney ki ( agar app mil jatey hain shadi kar letye hian dan u r luck) .. aur agar na mil sakey to yeh kehna to bekar baat hia k UN KA PIYAR SACHA NAHIEN THA ... i juss totaly object ...koie sachey dil se piyarkarey apney piyar k liye sab kuch karye aur bas sirf k shadi na ho saki to us ka piyar sacha naen ho gha kya MAIN TO KEHTA HON piyarkaro aur kuch asa karo k piyar ko hasil biekar lo aur agar nahien hasil kar saktey to ALLAH PAR CHOR do us ne jo likha hia wohiho gha :) ..hum to bas koshish hie kar saktey hian ;) ... BAKI KISMAT KA HAAL TO RAB JANEY ;) ... aur is piyarkariney ya na kariney k barey main kuch nahien hota ... har koie apney experience k tahat baatkarita hia... agar kisi ko us ka piyar mil jaye to piyar ke favour mai ho gha aur jis ko piyar na mil saka to woyh dil jala ban kar against ho sakta hia ... so is baat par discuss jitnie karein kam hia so give me break now :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 9, 2004 umair.. tum bhi na bus...... pyar ho jata ho ga. but even then its controlable.... aur maine kab kaha ke agar shadi na ho saki tu pyar un ka sacha nahi..... hoga.. magar us ka kiya faida..... saaf si baat hai.. sab kehtay hain pyar ho jata hai...... theak hai pyar ho jata hoga... magar shadi ki bari ati hai tu hazaroun majborian.. aur shadi na karnay ke reasons beech main a jatay hain...... phir kiya hota hai..... pyar ko bholna parta hai..... na bhi bholain tu us se dour rehna parta hai...... do loug main pyar ho aur phir shadi na ho tu wo majbori kiya hai.... aisi koun si majbori hoti hai jo milnay nahi deti.. most cases main parents razi nahi hain.. isliya shadi nahi ho sakti...... parents kisi aur se shadi ke liya kehtay hain... aur ap ko baat manni parti hai..... yani ke ap ko apnay pyar se dour ho ker kisi aur ke sath jana parta hai.... tu phir kiya h oga.. kahan gaya wo pyar jo ap ko achanak ho gaya tha.... ab tu ap kisi aur ke sath ho..... aur agar pyar pehlay wala se hi ho ap ko... tu ya dosray ke sath tu bewafai hoi..... kehnay ka matlab ya hai ke pyar karo soch samaj ker..... aur agar ya sirf ho jata hai...... tu is ko honay se ruko.... isliya kaha tha.. pehlay shadi phir pyar...... baad main jab itnay sari majborian ho jati hain . agar banda pehlay un majborioun ke baray main soch lai tu zada acha ho...... loug pehlay pyar kartay hain.. phir majoborian a jati hain.... tu zahir hai phir bewafa hi khelayin ge na even ke bewafa na houn...... magar phir bhi houn ge tu...... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 9, 2004 fati >> yeh zaroorie to nahien hia na k agar piyar karo aur shadi na ho ;) ... aese bohut sarey piyar karney waley hiain jinhon ne apney piyar ko kamiyaab kar k shadi ki hia :) ... der r many peoples jin ko kafie mushkil huee apney piyar se shadi kariney mian lakin akhir kar unhon ne usey hasil bie to kya hia .. hamesha to yeh naien hota na k shadi na ho ;) .. to sirf isi dar se k aghey shadi ho ya na ho hum piyar karina chor dein ... i think phr to koie kisi se piyar hie nahien karey gha jis ko biue phir piyar ka batayein ghe woh bhagh jaye gha :P phir to na piyar ho gha na kuch ... agar app ki philosofy mal lein phir to yehi ho gha na ;) ... to kya khayal hia piyar ho hie na ;) .... is duniya main manita hon k loghon se bewafaiyan hoti hian lakin isi duniya mian wafa karney waley bie bohut hian jo har haal main apney piyar se wafa kartey hian ... to kya khayal hia woh wafa karney waley bie pehley soch lein k shadi nahien ho ghee kahien hum bewafa na ho jayein to piyar hie na karein :P ... aur piyar ko koie rok nahiein sakta ... kyoin k piyar ki feelings khud ba khud create ho jati hain ... INSAn koie beth k woh feelings nahien banata ... so piyar hota hia to honey dena chahiyee ... aur ALLAH se dua karinee chahiyee k woh successful ho dats all :hi: KAHEN DEVDAS WALA PIYAR NA HO JAYE Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
saamia 0 Posted July 9, 2004 > > >If u treat her nice she says > > > "yaar mujhe line de raha hai" > > If u dont she says > > > "kitna akarta hai" > > > > If u dress nicely she says > > > "mujhay impress karna chata hai" > > > > If u dont she says > > > "tasteless hai yaar" > > > > If u argue with her she says > > > "ziddi hai" > > > > If u sit quietly she says > > > "dumb hai" > > > > > If u act smarter > > > she'll lose her brain as u r insulting her > > > > > > If she acts smarter > > > she think its her right > > > > > If u dont love her she says > > > "is ka to pehlay say hi 2,3 larkioon k saath chakar hai" > > > > > If u love her she says > > > "peechay hi par gayaa hai" > > > > > If u dont give her a kiss she says > > > " tum mujh say serious naheen ho" > > > > If u give her a kiss she says > > > " yaar woh lerkaa flirt ker raha hai" > > > > > If u dont tell her > > > >"urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" />ur prob she says" ur > > >not honest 2 me" > > > > > > If u do tell to her she says > > > "ur a problem child" > > > > If u scold her she says > > > "you act like a grandpa giving lecture" > > > > If she scolds u she says > > > "Yaar, its becuz i care" > > > > If u break a promise she says > > > "he does not trust u any more" > > > > > > If she breaks she says > > > "jan mein majbour thi" > > > > If u smoke she says > > > "u are a bad guy" > > > > > > If she smokes she says > > > "i need this, plz jaanu try to understand" > > > > > If u do good in exams she says > > > "qismat ne saath diya warna tum or good marks" > > > > > > If she gets good marks she says > > > " its my brain" > > > > > If u hurt her she says > > > "u r cruel & dont care of my feelings" > > > > > > If she hurts you she replies > > > " u r not understanding" > > > > > > if u r late on date she says > > > "you are just flirting me" > > > > > > if she is late on date she says > > > "sorry janu , majboori thi,samjha kero na" > > > > > & they claim they r not > > >Hypocrates, > > > > (¨`v´¨) > -¦- `v´ -¦- > *¤*.¸¸.·´¨`»*«´¨`·.¸¸.*¤* > *¤*.¸¸.·´¨`»* * RA* **«´¨`·.¸¸.*¤* > > > Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RUBY_4U 0 Posted July 9, 2004 salam, uff yahan to jang chir gaye hai umair main tum se itna lari aur ab tum kudh hi payar ke favour main ho yeh kia hua ;) main tum se puri tarah agree kerti hoon kher koi kuch bhi keh le her koi pyar se nazar nahin chura sakta chahey uss ka tajrba aacha raha ho ya bura fati abhi bhi aaese log hai jo pyar nibhate hain un ko lagta hai ke hum us dusree ko khush nahin rakh sakte to woh tamam umer shadi hi nahin kerte dil sirf ek bar kisi ko apna kehta hai bar bar nahin haan jin ki shadi maa baap kerva dete hain aur woh ker lete hain to yeh baat nahin ke"yeh kesa pyar tha ke shadi ker li kisi aur se"balke yeh pyar to un ka ammi aboo ke liye hai na ke woh apni khushiyoon per un ki khushyoon ko tarjee de rahe hain aur saamia itne arse bad post ki woh bhi aaesi yeh to larki flart ker rahi hai aur koi baat nahin hai Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 9, 2004 umair.. tum na bas. main kiya kahoun........ pehlay banday ko chahiya ke apni majborian dekh le..... aur ya decided kar le pehlay se ke wo har surat main wafa karay ga.... aur wada nahi toray ga..... its all about being determined..... and if u arent determined....... tu pyar viyar ke shakaroun main na parain Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 9, 2004 saamia.. do u say that ;) anyways... be normal. she wont say anything like that :D for the guys :hi: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 9, 2004 bilkul ruby. there lies the point..... maan baap ki kushi ke liya shadi un ke pasand se karein. karni bhi chahiya,,,, tu phir pyar aisay shaks se na karein na jis main ap samjtay hain ke parents razi nahi ho saktay.... bilkul aisay loug bhi hotay hain jo phir kisi aur se shadi nahi kartay... magar un ko gum aur tanhai ke ilawa kiya milta hai...... umair waisay tum pal pal main badaltay ho. as ruby ssaid pehlai tum agaisnt thay aur ab favour main..... tum bhi na bus :P ..... khair.... pyar main so uljhanian hain.. pyar mut karna.... magar agar ho gaya tu nibhana :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 9, 2004 ruby >>> main to sach ka sath deta hon ;) ... wesey personaly main to diljaley hon aur diljalon se kya kartey ho dil ki batain :) ..well i m agree wid ur points :hi: piyar kariney waley ajj bie zinda hian to har haal main nibatey hian hum nahien to koie aur sahi lakin kar to rahey hian :P ... wesey piyar jo karita hia us main naturaly bohut takat aa jati hia jis se woh har prob ko face karina seekh jata hia :hi: is liye piyar karo bewafaiee na karo :) ... fati >>> oyee chup :P jab tumhian piyar ho gha to pochon gha phir pochon gha r u determined or not :P etc etc Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 10, 2004 i m determined , if he is ;)..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 10, 2004 (edited) fati >> larkey ho hamesha se determined hotey hian bas bewafa larkiyan ho jati hian Edited July 10, 2004 by umair.zm Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted July 11, 2004 umair tum ne phir wohi baat shuru ker di hai.... grow up :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RUBY_4U 0 Posted July 11, 2004 salam, uff phir se larka larki ;) fati dekho hum ammi aboo ki pasand ko pasand kerte hain per kabhi woh bhi to humare liye galat fasla ker sakte hain na jese bachpan se yeh baat ker di ke tumhari shadi is larke ya cousin se honi hai ab zahir hain uss ke liye kuch feelings to kudh hi humare dil main hoongi na per bad main koi aur rishta dekh ker ya uuse aacha rishta dekha to wahan baat paki kerli apne bachoon se poocheye bager yeh sooche bager woh naye rishte ke liye razi hain bhi ya nahin umair larkiyoon ko apni aur ammi aboo ki izaat apni jaan se payri hoti hai is liye shaid apna wada na nibha pate hoon ya phir unse un ki marzi poochi hi nahin jate ho.woh jawab main iahar bhi isis liye nahin kerteen ke pata nahin ammi aboo ne kia soocha hai aur tum se durr rahte hain aur tum mohobat ka dawa kerte ho to un ke jazbat bhi samjho na :( Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 11, 2004 ruby >>> han sahi keh rahee ho ... un ke jazbat hamain samajhiney chahyein ... un ke jazbat sehna wesey asan to nahien hia :( woh bhie to is baat ko realise karein :( fati >>> tum jab bari ho jao to mujh se yeh kehna :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RUBY_4U 0 Posted July 12, 2004 salam, kia pata woh waqi realize kerte hoon per baat yehi hai ke aj bhi larkiyoon se khas tor per unki marzi maloom nahin ki jate.bas faysla sunaya jata hai .aaese main agar woh realise bhi kerti hoon to kuch nahin kia jasakta Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 12, 2004 w saalam ... chalo yeh to man liya k parents ka masla ho sakta hia lakin yeh bhie to ho sakta hia k woh piyar na karti ho :) isnt ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RUBY_4U 0 Posted July 13, 2004 salam, pyar kerne ya na kerne ka haq bhi humen nahin milta kia bhi hai to choopnana pareye ga kahin rusawaye na hogaye wase hosakta hai yeh sahi ho woh pyar na kerti ho per agar app ka pyar sacha hai to zaroor apki feelings us ke dil tak pohchen gi Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 13, 2004 wsalam :hi: to hum kyon ruswayee se dartey hian jab k humain khud yeh pata hia k koie aesa nahien jo piyar na karta ho :( phir humhie kyon phanstey hian akar ? ab feelings pohinchey bhie tokya aur na pohinchey bhie to kya :) ab to woh bohut door nikal gaya :) :hi: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RUBY_4U 0 Posted July 14, 2004 salam, durr jane waloo ko awaz deni chahiye kia pata lot ker aagayen :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
umair.zm 0 Posted July 15, 2004 w salam :) shayad ab mumkin hie nahiein hai :) k woh wapis aa jayein :( Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
