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Amaya

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Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same

hospital room.

One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour

each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was

next to the room's only window.

The other man had to spend all his time flat on his

back.

The men talked for hours on end.

They spoke of their wives and families, their homes,

their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they

had been on vacation.

Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window

could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate

all the things he could see outside the window.

The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods

where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity

and color of the world outside.

The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.

Ducks and swans played on the water while children

sailed their model boats.

Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a

fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.

As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the

man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine

the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing

by.

Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In

his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with

descriptive words.

Days and weeks passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths

only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had

died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the

hospital attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be

moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.

Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his

first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed.

It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have

compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful

things outside this window.

The nurse responded that the man was blind and could

not even see the wall.

She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Epilogue:

"There is tremendous happiness in making others happy,

despite our own situations"

"Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when

shared, is doubled"

"If you want to feel rich, just count all the things

you have that money can't buy"

"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the

present."

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Epilogue:

"There is tremendous happiness in making others happy,

despite our own situations"

"Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when

shared, is doubled"

"If you want to feel rich, just count all the things

you have that money can't buy"

"Today is a gift, that's why it is called the

present."

These lines are true.... Good Sharing AMAYA Keep it up

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Excellent Amaya

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