shy 468 Posted August 22, 2012 hey!...salam sab ko umeed hai sab theek honge? aap sab ke liye ek naya topic kayi baar aisa hota hai ke hum kuch kehna chahte hain ya kisi se kuch poochna chate hain lekin keh nahi paate... toh bas yeh topic bhi yahi hai agar aap ko kuch kehna hai ya kuch poochna hai toh aap hamare piyare members se baat kare ya apne sawaal share karen hamari koshish hogi apki uljhan ka end ho... aap koi bhi sawaal kar sakte hain...befiqar hoke yeh topic start karne ka maqsad bhi yahi hai ke aap khul ke apni baat keh sake.... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sho_shweet 657 Posted August 22, 2012 walaikumasslaaaam.... nice topic shy.. mery paas bht sy sawaal haen.. lekin.... , , , , , ,, , , , , , , abhi aik b yaad nhi aa rha... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted August 22, 2012 koi baat nahi sho jab yaad aye pooch lena Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sho_shweet 657 Posted August 22, 2012 mera to sb sy yehe sawaal ho ga kaahaan ghaib hain?? cz mae sb ko miss kring :( Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted August 22, 2012 ek sawaal jo mere zehan mein ek arsay se hai bohat socha hai maine is pe lekin jawab nahi milla sawal shadi ke baare mein hai aur kuch mushkil bhi, jab koi shadi ke baare mein sochta hai i mean yeh decide karta hai ya karte hain...ke woh apni life sath guzarenge aur khush bhi hote hain toh yeh khushi bas kuch waqt ke liye hi kiyun hoti hai? waqt ke sath yeh rishta badal kiyun jata hai? jab yeh sath dono ki marzi se jura tha toh kabhi kabhi yeh rishta itna mushkil kiyun ho jata hai? kiya waqt ke sath muhabbat bhi badal jati? ya phir aap samjhna he nahi chahte ke woh apse kiya kehna chahte hain? log itne behis kiyun hojaate hain? maine yeh suna hai ke zindagi shadi ke bina namukamal hai..agar shadi ka anjaam aisa ho toh? jab aap ko mehsoos ho ke ap kisi ke zimedari hai uski muhabbat nahi... jiss rishte ke liye sab kuch chor diya sab ko bhool gai agar wahi rishta zindagi ko behtar karne ke bajai zindagi azaab kar de toh? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted August 22, 2012 mera to sb sy yehe sawaal ho ga kaahaan ghaib hain?? cz mae sb ko miss kring :( sab yahi hain sho bas kuch busy hain ajkal tabhi gayab hain Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sho_shweet 657 Posted August 22, 2012 ek sawaal jo mere zehan mein ek arsay se hai bohat socha hai maine is pe lekin jawab nahi milla sawal shadi ke baare mein hai aur kuch mushkil bhi, jab koi shadi ke baare mein sochta hai i mean yeh decide karta hai ya karte hain...ke woh apni life sath guzarenge aur khush bhi hote hain toh yeh khushi bas kuch waqt ke liye hi kiyun hoti hai? waqt ke sath yeh rishta badal kiyun jata hai? rishta nhi badalta halaat badal jaaty haen.. halaat ko smjh k face kero to pata chlega k kuch nhi badla jab yeh sath dono ki marzi se jura tha toh kabhi kabhi yeh rishta itna mushkil kiyun ho jata hai? kiya waqt ke sath muhabbat bhi badal jati? badalta kuch nhi... mae ny suna tha k insan ki fitrat hoti hy k jab usy koi cheez achi lagti hy to usy derr hota hy k koi mujh sy wo cheen na le,,, is liye jab us k paas wo aa jaye to usy sakoon rehta hy k ab wo usi k paas he rhy gi bus us ka derr khatam ho jata hy usy khony ka... oar sb smjhty haen k pyar khatam ho gya... ya phir aap samjhna he nahi chahte ke woh apse kiya kehna chahte hain? log itne behis kiyun hojaate hain? maine yeh suna hai ke zindagi shadi ke bina namukamal hai..agar shadi ka anjaam aisa ho toh? anjaam kuch b ho insan k apny hath mae hota hy q k... jin logoon k sath aap rehna chahty haen wahan aapko compromise krna prta hy oar jo loug aap k sath rehna chahty haen wahan aap ko adjust hona prta hy... ager ye chor do gy to injaam bura he ho ga jab aap ko mehsoos ho ke ap kisi ke zimedari hai uski muhabbat nahi... ye apni soch hoti hy... thora sa positive socha jaye to sb kuch badal jata hy... koi insan aik bat bar bar repeatt nhi krta khud smjhna prta hy... phr chahy jesa b smjho tab ap k hath hota hy sb kuch... jiss rishte ke liye sab kuch chor diya sab ko bhool gai agar wahi rishta zindagi ko behtar karne ke bajai zindagi azaab kar de toh? khair aik rishty k liye sb ko bhoola nhi jata ... ager aap kisi ki zindagi ko behtr bnao gy to automatically wo aap ki life ko acha bna dega...ye human nature hy... kal mae soch rhi thi k kisi k negative aspects to sb he dekhty haen ager hum different bnna chahty haen to us k positive aspects dekhy jaaen... life achi ho jaati hy..... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted August 22, 2012 hmmm chalo tumhari taraf se yeh jawab acha laga lekin pata nahi kiyun yeh kuch khayali kisam ki baatein lagti hain mujhe...u know jab do log sath rehna chahte hain toh woh har haal mein sath rehte hain lekin agar un mein se koi ek bhi apna irada badal de toh doosray insaan k liye almost impossible hota hai is rishtay ko sambhalna....maine bohat kuch dekha hai apne aas paas tabhi keh rahi hoon yeh sab Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sho_shweet 657 Posted August 23, 2012 may be aesa he ho... no idea Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
hinasweet 20 Posted August 23, 2012 ek sawaal jo mere zehan mein ek arsay se hai bohat socha hai maine is pe lekin jawab nahi milla sawal shadi ke baare mein hai aur kuch mushkil bhi, jab koi shadi ke baare mein sochta hai i mean yeh decide karta hai ya karte hain...ke woh apni life sath guzarenge aur khush bhi hote hain toh yeh khushi bas kuch waqt ke liye hi kiyun hoti hai? waqt ke sath yeh rishta badal kiyun jata hai? waqt badal jata hai yeh tu sach hai lakin is se bara sach ye hai k agr insaan ki soch na badlye agr soch badl jaye gi tu zindagi ka har rishta badlta nzar aye ga is liye waqt tu acha bura hota hai lakin soch hamesha achi hi rhni chahiye buhat kem log hote hain jo badlte nhi bel ke dosron ko badlna jante hain haalaaat k sath is liye insaan khud ko na badlye bel k rishton ko smjhe jub insaan rishton ko smjta hai tu seb theek ho jata hia ....... jab yeh sath dono ki marzi se jura tha toh kabhi kabhi yeh rishta itna mushkil kiyun ho jata hai yeh seb sirf os waqt hota hai jeb hum dosron sy ziyda apni khushi ko ahmiyat detye hain agr os ki khushi ko apni khushi smjh lain tu kuch b mushkil nhi hota sirf smjnain ki zarorat hoti hai.... ya phir aap samjhna he nahi chahte ke woh apse kiya kehna chahte hain? log itne behis kiyun hojaate hain? maine yeh suna hai ke zindagi shadi ke bina namukamal hai..agar shadi ka anjaam aisa ho toh? yeh app ki galt fehmi hai k shadi k bina ye zindagi mukamil hai agr aisa hota tu shadi koi b na krta kun k jeb tak app dosre insaan ki khushi or os ki zaroryaat ko smjte hain tu samne wale k raveyye main tabdili hoti hai or ye sirf os waqt hi ho skta hia jeb app apni khushi se ziyda os ki khushi dekho or smjo zindagi asaaan ho jati hai..... jab aap ko mehsoos ho ke ap kisi ke zimedari hai uski muhabbat nahi... jis rishte main muhabbat nhi hoti wo ziyda din tak nahi chalta akhir kaar tot jata hai is liye har rishte main muhabbat ka hona zarori hai chahe vo koi bhe rishta kun na ho ....... jiss rishte ke liye sab kuch chor diya sab ko bhool gai agar wahi rishta zindagi ko behtar karne ke bajai zindagi azaab kar de toh? seb se pheli galti tu yahaan insaan krta hai k aik rishte k liye seb kuch chor dye kun k agr seb rishte sath le k chlna hi aqal mandi hai or jo aisa krte hain k aik rishta jur liye or baqi tur diye tu ye hi rishte k kamzor hone ki vja bnta hia insaan hi wohi hai jo seb rishton ko sath ly kr chale or aise buhat kem hote hain is dunya main....... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted August 23, 2012 hina i wish ke yeh sab sach ho jo apne kaha hai aur Allah har kisi ko yeh sabar aur aisi samjh ata kare...jab halat insaan ke against ho jate hain toh sambhlna bohat mushkil hota hai...agar apki baat maanu toh shadi har koi karta hai lekin shadi ke baad ka ek sach divorce bhi hota...aap apni ird gird dekho ek baar... har doosray ghar main koi na mil jaiga jo in halat se guzar raha hai ya guzar chuka hai...meri baat chahe galat sabit ho mujhe dukh nahi hoga lekin agar aisa ho sake jaisa ap ne kaha toh isse achi baat koi nahi hogi...thanks for ur reply Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Abu_Hanzala 2 Posted August 23, 2012 Islam se doori is ki sab sey barra wajha hai or kuch nahi....koi isay maanay ya maanay...asal main hum ne Islam ko sirf namaz parrhna or roza rakhna samajh liya hai.....jab k darhaqeeqat aisa nahi....agar hum pooray k pooray deen per chalain tou yaqeen kerein na kabhi larrai ki nobat aaye na nafraton ki or na bil-aakhir talaaq ki.....seriously. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted August 25, 2012 theek kaha aap ne bro thanks for ur reply Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted August 28, 2012 pata nahi kiyun aj mujhe yeh khayal aya ke zindagi bhar hum kisi khaas insaan ka intezaar karte hain...aur phir ek din woh kahin se samnay ajata hai...hairaani ki baat yeh hai...sab jaan ke bhi hum usse hasil nahi kar paatay...bas tab aap khud ko duniya ka sab se badnaseeb insaan mehsoos karte hain...aisa kiyun hota hai? aisa nahi ke main in saray marahil se guzar chuki hoon.... bas waise he yeh khayal aya...pata nahi is mein kuch sach bhi hai ya bas yeh meri soch hai. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sabah 97 Posted September 2, 2012 sawal cy mein ab ronaq q nahi rahi? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharp 62 Posted September 2, 2012 ek sawaal jo mere zehan mein ek arsay se hai bohat socha hai maine is pe lekin jawab nahi milla sawal shadi ke baare mein hai aur kuch mushkil bhi, jab koi shadi ke baare mein sochta hai i mean yeh decide karta hai ya karte hain...ke woh apni life sath guzarenge aur khush bhi hote hain toh yeh khushi bas kuch waqt ke liye hi kiyun hoti hai? waqt ke sath yeh rishta badal kiyun jata hai? jab yeh sath dono ki marzi se jura tha toh kabhi kabhi yeh rishta itna mushkil kiyun ho jata hai? kiya waqt ke sath muhabbat bhi badal jati? ya phir aap samjhna he nahi chahte ke woh apse kiya kehna chahte hain? log itne behis kiyun hojaate hain? maine yeh suna hai ke zindagi shadi ke bina namukamal hai..agar shadi ka anjaam aisa ho toh? jab aap ko mehsoos ho ke ap kisi ke zimedari hai uski muhabbat nahi... jiss rishte ke liye sab kuch chor diya sab ko bhool gai agar wahi rishta zindagi ko behtar karne ke bajai zindagi azaab kar de toh? Well, i m not married so might i couldn't say exectlly what's really happen's when you get's near 24/7 in life!!.........BUT!!........... what really i can say, that you just wested much word's over here by trying to say one simple thing!................ That guy or girl whom you get in the life, she just got nothing in her or his heart for you!......................... I know this millon n millon's people who married without any plan or perhaps suddenlly!.................... They feel good when have each other ....BUT.. slowly or lately got sick of each other!!............... what really love mean's to you, might still a question for us!.............BUT!.......................... Real love don't change or come's small even after 100 year's!!!............................ So if you ready to love one more then 100 year's with out any condtion!.......... Might he Couldn't...........BUT... you got the Love!!!!.................... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharp 62 Posted September 2, 2012 pata nahi kiyun aj mujhe yeh khayal aya ke zindagi bhar hum kisi khaas insaan ka intezaar karte hain...aur phir ek din woh kahin se samnay ajata hai...hairaani ki baat yeh hai...sab jaan ke bhi hum usse hasil nahi kar paatay...bas tab aap khud ko duniya ka sab se badnaseeb insaan mehsoos karte hain...aisa kiyun hota hai? aisa nahi ke main in saray marahil se guzar chuki hoon.... bas waise he yeh khayal aya...pata nahi is mein kuch sach bhi hai ya bas yeh meri soch hai. How could i "ll able somthing if you don't let me see anything!!!........................................ How could i "ll hear somthing from you!!......... if you don't say anything!!!............... Don't think am an angel!!....... Take me Just a Human!!!.................... With these word's I guess you Can understand!!!....................... Say to the People who you love n Care!.... that's how they know!!................... They need this!!!!!.............. Becouse only "GOD" Can listen when no One hear!!!!!................... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sabah 97 Posted September 3, 2012 mere sawal ka jawab kisi ne diya he nahi 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sareen 20 Posted September 3, 2012 sawal cy mein ab ronaq q nahi rahi? saba nhi hoti is liye 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted September 3, 2012 Well, i m not married so might i couldn't say exectlly what's really happen's when you get's near 24/7 in life!!.........BUT!!........... what really i can say, that you just wested much word's over here by trying to say one simple thing!................ that because ke sab sahi se samjh sakey...warna mein likhti kuch aur sab samjhte kuch tabhi itni detail mein likha hai That guy or girl whom you get in the life, she just got nothing in her or his heart for you!......................... I know this millon n millon's people who married without any plan or perhaps suddenlly!.................... They feel good when have each other ....BUT.. slowly or lately got sick of each other!!............... what really love mean's to you, might still a question for us!.............BUT!.......................... Real love don't change or come's small even after 100 year's!!!............................ So if you ready to love one more then 100 year's with out any condtion!.......... Might he Couldn't...........BUT... you got the Love!!!!.................... itne sare replies phir bhi pata nahi kiyun i'm still looking for that one perfect answer...jab meine yeh topic post kiya tha toh kayi baar meine khud se iska jawab poocha....koi jawab nahi mila i guess yeh pehla aisa sawal jis se maybe meine thousand time socha...aur abhi tak soch rahi hoon Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted September 3, 2012 How could i "ll able somthing if you don't let me see anything!!!........................................ How could i "ll hear somthing from you!!......... if you don't say anything!!!............... Don't think am an angel!!....... Take me Just a Human!!!.................... but u know sometimes aisa hota hai....that u say nothing and still they know what's going inside you...what are you thinking...and and lots more...aisa hota hai...haha With these word's I guess you Can understand!!!....................... Say to the People who you love n Care!.... that's how they know!!................... They need this!!!!!.............. Becouse only "GOD" Can listen when no One hear!!!!!................... kabhi kabhi silence is the best language...that's what i feel Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharp 62 Posted September 3, 2012 itne sare replies phir bhi pata nahi kiyun i'm still looking for that one perfect answer...jab meine yeh topic post kiya tha toh kayi baar meine khud se iska jawab poocha....koi jawab nahi mila i guess yeh pehla aisa sawal jis se maybe meine thousand time socha...aur abhi tak soch rahi hoon Ohhh little girl!!.... why much thinking about simple thing!........ See you also know what really the reason must be!... but.. seem's you search that suitble answer which staisfie's you!...... So my dear girl!.... somtime's we Just couldn't get the one which we 're searching or wished!!......... I belive i tried to understand you!...... BUT.. i m still here.... i wont be feel bore to make you statisfy more about the answer which i really tought that's the reason!.... i won't show Off much here!.... BUT.. belive me these much people i saw with such stuation!!.... anyway!.. let's what more we can do here!... i alway's love to solve the question's!!!....... Use me!!!............ 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharp 62 Posted September 3, 2012 kabhi kabhi silence is the best language...that's what i feel No Shy!!!......... Come silent that time when someone take you wrong!..... that time i guess there is no need to speak anything!............. that's the time when you must shut down n let the one think what he/she want!......... because you know what you're n what you did n done!!............. be silent the moment let it go like this!!!............. BUT!!...... If you're strong to do it!... if weak then yell for help n scold!!!......................... 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted September 4, 2012 Ohhh little girl!!.... why much thinking about simple thing!........ See you also know what really the reason must be!... but.. seem's you search that suitble answer which staisfie's you!...... you're right mujhe abhi tak sahi jawab nahi mila hai...jis se mein mutmaeen ho sakun... So my dear girl!.... somtime's we Just couldn't get the one which we 're searching or wished!!....... I belive i tried to understand you!...... BUT.. i m still here.... i wont be feel bore to make you statisfy more about the answer which i really tought that's the reason!.... i won't show Off much here!.... BUT.. belive me these much people i saw with such stuation!!.... anyway!.. let's what more we can do here!... i alway's love to solve the question's!!!....... Use me!!!............ hmmm thanks you are so kind... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shy 468 Posted September 4, 2012 No Shy!!!......... Come silent that time when someone take you wrong!..... that time i guess there is no need to speak anything!............. that's the time when you must shut down n let the one think what he/she want!......... because you know what you're n what you did n done!!............. be silent the moment let it go like this!!!............. BUT!!...... If you're strong to do it!... if weak then yell for help n scold!!!......................... i know what i am but jis duniya mein hum rehte hain is se larna bohat mushkil hai...specially tab jab aap ka sath dene wala koi na ho...phir chahe ap kitna hi strong kiyun na ho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
