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Happy birthday to a happy, jolly and open hearted person.... May you have many more.... So, newer vows for the year to come?? what are you gifting yourself with?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4IbPGxYWS_k

my pleasure , i hope you did justice to them for it took me quite a while putting them together

like the trivial saying, it takes two hands for a clap.....this world and this universe is in equilibrium, everything is in balance.... every exchange of feelings, every transaction on mutual grounds, every exchange of feelings.....it all has to be in balance. i would like to register my difference of opinion here, sparks. As you put it.......the relationship would not be in balance..... agreed that its always a compromise,,,but its always a balanced compromise, gradually the strain begins to aggravate and the possibility of fracture wouldnt be lurking very far away.. its unfair for the female... she would live in perpetual insecurity....now i dont know if you are a girl or a boy .. i would term such a male very unfair, chauvinistic and selfish.

Its time to get real..... i wonder how much time can one have at their disposal to concoct such stuff...

Do such devoted guys exist in twenty first century?? The answer to this question is in the story in itself........had he really been as loving as depicted in this story he woudnt have been riding with a helmet on his head only.

www.youtube.com/watch?v=BUwUKyztI10

i wonder how this question can be answered without having gone through the experience....... the answer would be just based on speculation or guessing.......maybe if someone researches some authentic work on this topic then maybe there are some clues to it. .......in my opinion, we all are here on a mission, here means mother earth, the mission is to prepare for the life hereafter. We also have been programmed to pro-create, like all other species have been. But we are higher level creations and so are our needs. The act of procreation has been has been immersed with pleasure, physical pleasure, and this physical pleasure when attained through legitimate means is the peak or height of the feeling called love. But then does it mean that love cannot exist without it , or our race cannot propagate without love??.... As we are higher order creatures, we need fulfillment of other sorts as well ... such as spiritual, mental, companionship, friendship... etc. So, with this premise, now i would attempt to answer this question.. two people are attracted to each other when they share some common grounds...... the needs as stated above form these common grounds. Besides, in our society, there are other imposed factors also....... lets neglect them for a while, ....... so as long long these two people keep finding their fulfillment in each other , they would remain in need of each other.......or shall i say , remain in love with each other. I believe, and would go on to say that once this balance is disturbed...... their relationship would bear the immediate strain..... either one of them would be comprising or self sacrificing .. and in the worst case it may fracture. Well, i hope i have addressed the question adequately , sabah.

simple and yet meaningful words, i wonder if they have an order of preference? i was also wondering if you really abide by or at least attempt to follow these ten nice things that you quoted........ just saying this after reading "i just dont care if anyone doesnt like me, i was not put on earth to entertain anyone "

i would like to share my reply from this link; http://www.coolyarforums.com/topic/43513-some-unknown-facts-about-love/

sobe, i would tend to agree on the give and take thing. i would deduce love as the overlapping common overlapping ground between the aura of two or more people. but then there are certain forms of love which defy logic, eg parental love. maybe its coz a mother carries her child within. its miraculous to find a mother hating her child , whilst it wont be uncommon for a father to hate is children. the other forms of love, the love that we come to from the works of poets, literature........ a product of purposeless poets that has continued to derange our minds. this form of love is built into us.......its infact the most refined form of lust, this inturn has been built into us to ensure the propagation of human race. had it not been for this, the possibility of a man and woman living together would have been almost zero. so, what we feel as love, well , infact stimulated by the hormones withing us. any of us in the medical profession would surely have enough technical facts to qualify this statement. and there is lots more, at the moment i feel i have just lifted the curtain slightly....

i wonder what really feeds the soul ............religion, spirituality ??? yes they may , but then not all are the faithfull........and there is this common saying " music is the nourishment to the soul"........ the song i am sharing distributed under the label of "budha bar" ....yeah, its a chain of bars in france and they have their own music that transcends cross culturally , as you listen you would really feel the budha theme in the music....the touch of spirituality..and secondly......you would confess to yourself that language is no barrier, in fact music is a universal language of its own... without any more,here is the song : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lhsE6Jhmo6c&feature=related

CHICKEN TANDOORI Hi friends ! Well it is humored amongst circles that chicken is our national bird. We find chicken in one form or the other at almost every dining table. So extending this concept of nationalism, I would deduce that eating chicken is an exhibition of patriotism! Coming to the point, I found this recipe printed at the back of “TANDOORI MASALA” carton, I tried it and found it awesome, so here I am sharing it with everyone. As usual, the recipe is not reproduced verbatim, I am giving you the version which gave me the best results. I am not a brand ambassador for any Masala maker, but its SHAN TANDOORI MASALA that makes this recipe. INGRIDIENTS Chicken Pieces 8 pieces cleaned, washed and devoid of skin. (Recipe gives best results if one whole chicken weighing more than 1.5 kg is reduced to 8 pieces.) Yoghurt 2 cups Oil or Butter ¾ to 1 cup METHOD Make deep cuts in the chicken pieces for marinate mixture to penetrate well into the meet. Mix the whole packet of Tandoori Masala in yoghurt, and form a good consistency paste. Now coat the pieces of chicken with this mix and be sure to penetrate the cuts too. Leave it for at least four hours. If u really want a savory mouth watering result, u may leave it overnight in your fridge. Now, after marinating time is over you observe some water in ur dish, drain this out. Coat the pieces well with the oil or butter. Preheat ur oven to slightly over medium, for those who wish to be accurate, the good temperature is 190 celcius. Cover the oven tray with Aluminum foil and spread out the chicken in it. Place in the oven and sit back for a quarter of an hour. Now take out a shoulder piece (this is to test if the cooking is complete, as the shoulder piece is the last to tenderize) and check it out for readiness. If ready, the dish can be served. Let me tell u the dish is awesome to look at as it comes out of the oven. It can be served straight away without any further formalities. • For those who like their chicken slightly crisp around the edges, u can switch to the upper burner of the oven in the end for a while. • Well if u wish to add a bit of color, add in thick slices of potatoes (initially), sliced carrots and peas (in the last 10-15 minutes). • Cheese lovers can top it with a few flakes of mozzarella cheese before serving. There u go friends bon appeti.

PINA-COLADA After trying many more different recipes of Pina-colada I think this is the simplest and best one. Also all ingredients are available in market. Ingredients Pineapple chunks 1 cup (Fresh give excellent result, but the canned ones aren’t bad either) Coconut milk 1 cup (coconut milk is easily available in all supermarkets) Banana 1 Ice cubes 1/4 cup Desiccated Coconut 2 Table spoons (khopra) Sugar 2 Table spoons. (u may use 2 table spoons of honey instead) Pineapple pieces for garnish Method In a blender, combine the pineapple chunks, coconut milk, banana, ice and dessicated coconut, blend together until smooth. Pour into 2 large glasses. Garnish each serving with a pineapple wedge. Those who like the consistency to be more viscous can add 1/4cup cream to the recipe. Those who can’t find coconut milk cans can ask for recipe for making coconut milk.[/color]

not bad abha.

it contains tongue twisters too !!

emmm.....please read coconut milk instead of coconut cream, maybe i was too carried away writing about it!!!

Recently i couldnt find coconut cream anywhere and my craving for this drink was at its peak, i mean friends you can imagine iftaar time !! so , i searched for an alternative to making coconut cream, its the simplest thing one can do. Here i am sharing it, One cup of grated coconut ( dried coconut and coconut sold with brown shell both suffice) One cup of hot boiling water Mix the two and keep covered for half an hour. Strain the mixture through a strainer and there you go, ready to add to your pina colada. Remember, just a reminder, coconut milk or coconut cream contains upto 500 calories..one cup that is, and all these come from fat !!!! But that shouldnt discourage you from treating yourself to this refreshing drink after a looong summer fast.

another very beautiful one amaya, ........there are many similarities between that king and our king.....just on the lighter side so, one thing is missing from this story...... the development of the island....at whose expense was it ? regards the bad critic