koolsensation 0 Posted December 30, 2003 (edited) do you think that pakistani culture actually comes form hindu traditions and culture?? there are several rituals that we perform in weddings and else that are common as hindu rituals as well...like mayon, mehendi, and brides mostly wearing red in weddings....and other things like warding off evil spirits by moving money around someones' head...what do guys think about all these??? should we abandon traditions which have hindu origins? Do you Think? Edited December 30, 2003 by koolsensation Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
koolsensation 0 Posted December 31, 2003 comon guys i need replies Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ariba 0 Posted December 31, 2003 AsalamU alikm........ya we must think about it. actully hum loog tou bus naa psycho case bunte ja rahe hain .false show of wealth bus aur kuch nahin .aur weddings Allah ki panah!!!!.har admi yeh soochta hai keh main doosre see barh kar dikha doon. Media is the first cause....second is our thinking. PLZ BE PROUD MUSLIMS AND PROUD PAKISTANI. humein islam sirf uss waqat hi kiun yaad atta hai jub hum saheh hotte hain.aise mouqoon per tou na koee namaz ki parwah aur naa kuch. Hadith main atta hai keh sub see babarkat shadi woh hai keh jiss main sub see kum karach oo.haan walima karna sunnat hai woh zaroor kigie. main baqi sub functions kay khilaf hoon. dunya kia hai ajj haai aur kaal ko pata nahin hum hoongay ya nahin Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted January 1, 2004 a muslim country's culture is related with islam...... and if not then it shud b... and our pakistani culture is very far away... when v talk about culture, v talk about dress, music, food, buildings etc.... now building food and dress is ok. but music cant b our culture. now all these functions and rasomat in our weddings.. they donot belong to us.. they r hindu rituals right.... and v shud not b following them. but no problem with bride wearing red colour.. red symbolizes happiness. to wear red is good. no harm in it.. and moving money across ones head is a really nice thing.,.... it is a islamic thing. v call it sadqa... and the money is given to the poor.. thats a good custom.. mayun, mehndi bhi koi buri baat nahi hai. but they shudnt b over lavish. now what is a concept of mayun and mehdi thats the thing.. on both of these functions... main part r the songs.. so without songs. no function is a function .. i mean v take it like that.. mayun isnt required and mehndi is ok... but not the way in which it is mostly celebrated.... the part of the weddings that i hate the most .... is showing of jwellery and clothes in front of all the guests.... what the heck is it. its the worst thing. i think marriages in the west r better... they r simple and done in the church. v shud also arrange it in a mosque... then a valima... and then over.. but who does it..none .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted January 1, 2004 ASALAMU ALIKUM SHADI ALLAH KI NAIMAT BHI HAI OR SUNNAT BHI ... PEHLAY LOG RO RO KER DUIAN KERTAY HAIN KAI ALLAH HUMAIN KHUSHIAN DIKHA ..OR JUB ALLAH MIAN UN KI DUAIN QABOOL KER LAYTAY HAIN OR UN KO YEH KHUSHION KA DIN DIKHATAY HAIN TO WOH IS KAY BADLAY KIS KO KUSH KERTAY HAIN ? SHYTAN KO ....ALLAH KO SUB BHOOL JATAY HAIN .. FAZOOL KHERCEE ..FAZOOL RASOOMAT .... JIN KAY LEY CHAHAY QARZ HEE KION NA LAINA PARAY ..LAKIN NAM NEHAD BHERUM KAI LEY QERZ MAIN DUB JAIN GAY PER RASOMAT NAHI CHORNEE MAYOON MEHNDI ...KI RASAM JIS TERHA KI JATEE HAI ....MUJHAI US MAIN SAWAYE FAZOOLIYAT KAI KUCH NAZER NAHI ATA... IS KAY BAJAY APP GHER MAIN SHADI SAI PEHLAI DERS-E-QURAN RAKHWAOO TAKAY ALLAH KI REHMAT KA SAYA PARAY .....AS SAID FATI SADQA DAIN TAKKAY MUSHKILAT DOOR HOOON ISLAMIC CULTURE TO RAHA HEE NAHI ....AIK LERKI KO BANA SAJA KER BITHA DIYA JATA HAI OR PHOTOGRAPHER & MOVIE MAKKER ..SAHAB GHANTOON UN KI MOVIE HER POSE SAY BANATAY HAIN .....KIA YEH SHERM -O- HIYA KA TAQAZA HAI ..KAHAN CHALEE JATEE HAI MAAN BAAP BHAIOON KI GHAIRAT AHADEES GHANTEE SHYTAN KI BANSUREE HAI .( OR IS MAIN MUSICAL INSTUMENT INCLUDE HAI ) HADITH MYANA RAWEE KERNA ADHEE KAMAYEE HAI (FAZOOL KHERCHI SAI MANA KIA GIYA ) HAYA IMAN KA NISF HAI ( SHADIOON MAIN YEH AIK CHEEZ HEE OUT KER DEE JATE HAI ) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
koolsensation 0 Posted January 2, 2004 simple way of living is alwz mentioned in Quran weather its wedding or any normal meeting but we asian muslims as living for a long time with indians still have a very huge impact of indian culture on us as far muslims we see all over world has diff wedding meetings thn us Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bugs 0 Posted January 18, 2004 basically culture is the combination of activies of riyuals that a socity performs ,and if u look under thsi def we can say our culture is islamic,now if u talk about a few rusm's that we have we have to look our history as well we lived with hindus lets say more then a thousand yrs ,our culture u know sub continent culture is inspired by arabs afghans iran and turks if u look at history pages u will leran abt it we have sub culture with in culture ie punjabi sindhi rich poor mdernism traditional but if we look at them collectively we r releted to our baisc theme that is islmaic sulture yar com om b optimistic y u ppl r so passimistic ,dont look at a sub culture and say that whole culture is un islamic ,look at it collectively it sislamic.i think now u ppl may get wht i am sayin here if any one has questions fell free to ask i am back and will answer ur question to best of ma knowledge. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sid 0 Posted January 28, 2004 Most of the the rituals associated with events celebrated have their origin from non muslim cultures. someone rightly mentioned abt mayoon, mehndi & other wedding related events having their origin from hindu culture. Others include...soyem, teeja, chaliswan, barsi....all of these have no proof in hadith / quran. If u look upon books covering the life of prophet muhammad, sahaba & scholars, u wont find any links associated with such events. The prophet never celebrated basrsi of hazarat khadija or for that matter of his 2 sons who died at a very young age. many other events are either self made or adopted from others...koonday, halwa making on shab-i-bara'at, & basant .....purely having no use & proof in islam. God has been making things easier for us & we , ourselves r adding up to our burden & keep performing them in spirit as if they ar e a must! Pity on us! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sid 0 Posted January 28, 2004 Most of the the rituals associated with events celebrated have their origin from non muslim cultures. someone rightly mentioned abt mayoon, mehndi & other wedding related events having their origin from hindu culture. Others include...soyem, teeja, chaliswan, barsi....all of these have no proof in hadith / quran. If u look upon books covering the life of prophet muhammad, sahaba & scholars, u wont find any links associated with such events. The prophet never celebrated basrsi of hazarat khadija or for that matter of his 2 sons who died at a very young age. many other events are either self made or adopted from others...koonday, halwa making on shab-i-bara'at, & basant .....purely having no use & proof in islam. God has been making things easier for us & we , ourselves r adding up to our burden & keep performing them in spirit as if they ar e a must! Pity on us! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
