How To Be Yourself!

[chinky 31]

If you want to be with someone for life, it pays to be yourself from the start.

The problem starts in the beginning of a relationship. It is perfectly normal to try and be on your best behavior, and defer to all that your new lady friend wants. After all, you were one of those who spent their nights alone with a pizza box and the TV, you don't want to go there again. So you put your best foot forward, and end up getting stomped on. A relationship between any two people will not work unless you both have the freedom to be yourself. That does not give you carte blanche to be a right meanie, consideration is a factor too, but having one partner as a doormat, while the other one wipes their feet on you, is not a good look.

So when your new lady tells you she wants to do something, like go to a movie you would hate, tell her how you would feel. Suggest she go with a girlfriend, or suggest something else to do, that you would both enjoy. Do not go to that movie unless you are prepared to sit through endless foreignfeatures or soppy love themes, or whatever her genre is. You see, by going the first time you are setting a precedent. And if you start to try and put your foot down later on in the relationship, she is the one who is going to be confused and feel that you have changed.

Relationships are a tricky business. It does not pay to enter in them unless you are being yourself. The same applies to her as well. If you can be accepted for the way you are, your likes and dislikes, the way you dress, even your love of something boring, then you will have a lot better chance of the relationship growing and enduring. Accepting her differences is important too, but we will go into that next time. Don't go into a relationship hoping to change someone, and most importantly BE-YOURSELF!!

[mehak_ali 0]

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Edited August 24, 2010 by mehak_ali

[Rainbow 333]

nice post chinki like it :p

emotions

mehak samjh nae aya

[shahabi 23]

hmmm like this!!!!!!

[rust_in_peace 2]

its really practical in theme , but in real life when a lady walks in, well, all else gets slighted and her everything seems to nice and one kind of tends to be voluntary in accepting his dislikes as her likes, the desire to please her, to keep her smiling and to nurture her heart with the best in u is so very hard to inhibit....

[rust_in_peace 2]

its really practical in theme , but in real life when a lady walks in, well, all else gets slighted and her everything seems to nice and one kind of tends to be voluntary in accepting her dislikes as his likes, the desire to please her, to keep her smiling and to nurture her heart with the best in u is so very hard to inhibit....