brown_eyes 0 Posted February 12, 2006 (edited) well laraib i did not point out any one it was a general talk ........... 172315[/snapback] I'm going to ask you onething more... If someone hurts you but after a few days/weeks you forget all things and try to trust again but he/she hurt you again? Edited February 12, 2006 by brown_eyes Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted February 14, 2006 well brown_eyes u know one thing ............. that is man keeps on changing his attitude towards different aspects of life so if anyone who hurted u and again after a week u begin to trust him/her then its the good thing for the person who begin to trust again u know it means that the person who is going to trust again has not dchanged his/her nature obviously he should be treated in the same way he should be trusted and be given the loyalty................. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brown_eyes 0 Posted February 16, 2006 well brown_eyes u know one thing ............. that is man keeps on changing his attitude towards different aspects of life so if anyone who hurted u and again after a week u begin to trust him/her then its the good thing for the person who begin to trust again u know it means that the person who is going to trust again has not dchanged his/her nature obviously he should be treated in the same way he should be trusted and be given the loyalty................. 173141[/snapback] you are absolutely right but its not answer of my question because I was asking about the person who hurt you but after a few days you forget all things and talk to him/her again but he/she hurt you again. If you trust someone again and again that meant it's your nature to trust people although they have hurted you many times so I wanna to know about the person who hurt you? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted February 16, 2006 well brown eyes................................. according to my personality i have always try my best to be loyal toi every one and u know main har dafa har kisi per trust kerta raha but nothing happened. onr thing clear ker doon coz shayad aap ke zehen main bhi yeh point aya ho to be very frank aap ko batata chaloon keemain kaheen net per koi ishq waghaira ke silsale main nahin hoon rather main tu is point per afsoos kerta hoon ke loog sincere kyun nahin hote means friendship jab kerte hain tu nibhate kyun nahin us ko mujhe sirf gila ye hai ik dafa aitbar kerne k liye kehte hain tu aitbar toorte kyun hain????????? aur jahan tak mera taluk hai ke kis ne mujhe hurt kiya ye shayad main bhi na bata sakoon kyun ke me itne zayada loogon ke naam nahin lee sakta last thing ye ke mujhe afsoos hota hai ke loog apni personal life main itne busy ho jate hain ke apne friends ke liye thora sa time bhi nahin nikal sakte ................. and this is the point from where the friendship breaks............. anyway kafi lamba chala gaya bateen tu batoon se nikalti cahli jati hain bas zara ghoor kerne ki deer hotti hai Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
brown_eyes 0 Posted February 17, 2006 well brown eyes................................. according to my personality i have always try my best to be loyal toi every one and u know main har dafa har kisi per trust kerta raha but nothing happened. onr thing clear ker doon coz shayad aap ke zehen main bhi yeh point aya ho to be very frank aap ko batata chaloon keemain kaheen net per koi ishq waghaira ke silsale main nahin hoon rather main tu is point per afsoos kerta hoon ke loog sincere kyun nahin hote means friendship jab kerte hain tu nibhate kyun nahin us ko mujhe sirf gila ye hai ik dafa aitbar kerne k liye kehte hain tu aitbar toorte kyun hain????????? aur jahan tak mera taluk hai ke kis ne mujhe hurt kiya ye shayad main bhi na bata sakoon kyun ke me itne zayada loogon ke naam nahin lee sakta             last thing ye ke mujhe afsoos hota hai ke loog apni personal life main itne busy ho jate hain ke apne friends ke liye thora sa time bhi nahin nikal sakte ................. and this is the point from where the friendship breaks............. anyway kafi lamba chala gaya bateen tu batoon se nikalti cahli jati hain bas zara ghoor kerne ki deer hotti hai 173508[/snapback] Kurios Jee, First of all thanks to writing in detail by the way may I ask you that why you have wrote my points I meant to say this is what I thinks too, well I don't know who are you but and who are the people which hurted you too but here I wanna tell you my thoughts and reason to use the net. Mene chat sirf iss liye shuro ki thi kay meri English improve ho jaye aur Alhamdulillah I'm very good in english but at first day i made a friend on net even in a couple of weeks i made more then 50 friends on the net but I left all them because of a reason which i have mentioned many times so don't want to mention here although they all were non-muslim (from different countries). Jab mene sab friends ko chaor to mujhe laga kay mein agaila parh gaya hoon issi liye mene coolyar chat join kia (in 2003) aur uss din say aaj din tak pata nahi kitnay log millay aur bighrhay (jaisa kay aap nay kaha kay her koi apnay kaam mein busy hota hai) issi liye kayee baar logoon say issi baat per nahi banti kay her koi apnay kaam mein ya to parhaee mein busy hota hai aur mene her baar socha chalain koi baat nahi aur kafi saaray logoon nay jhoot bhi bola aisa ho gaya waisa ho gaya... Jab insaan ko kisi ki zaroorat hoti hai to zaroori nahi kay ussi dost say baat ki jaye balkay koi bhi dost uss ko achi company day sakta hai hum net per kisi say mangtay hi kia hain bas thora sa time na aur jab logoon kay paas time hi nahi to un ko yeh kahnay ka haq bhi nahi kay wo dost hain... Insaan ko her waqt to dostoon ki zaroorat nahi hoti per jab insaan kisi pareshani mein ho to us ko tasli deni chahiye na kay uss say baat cheet hi katam kar dain aur uss ko mazeed takleef ho... bas mere saath bhi kuch aisa hi howa hai jis ki waja say ab mein kisi per bhi aitbaar nahi kar sakta chahay wo koi NEW ho ya Old member ho bas yeh zaroor hai kay agar koi baat karta hai baat zaroor karta hoon aur agar koi baat hi na karey to uss ko distrun nahi karta chahe koi bhi ho... bas aik do roz pahlay aik do logoon say baat karne ki koshish ki thi aur woh bhi issi liye un ko kuch bata sakoon... lakin phir wohi kay logoon kay paas time hi kahaan kay kisi ki baat sunain... To mera point of view yeh tha kay hum kisi per kitna trust kar saktay hain ya humhein koi kitni takleef day sakta hai, jab takleef bohat ziada parh jati hai to insaan ko koi na koi faisla karna parta hai. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted February 17, 2006 haan ji brown-eyes aap ki baat main dam hai u knowactually loog net per cahtting kerte rehte hain and busy in making new friends banda pooche ke bhai jo purane friends baanee hain un ka kya ho ga ...? kabhi kisi ne ye nahi soocha :) bas Allah hameen taufeeq de ke hum seedhe ho jaeen :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sona 0 Posted March 5, 2006 YOUR RIGHT KURIOS I AM WITH U IN THIS. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted March 6, 2006 thanx sona but kahli thanx se kuch nahi hota hameen amal bhi kerna chahiye me ik baat kahooon please koi bhi mind na kare deekheen hum loog roozana itni zayada information lete hain through this forum aur through any other source on net lekin iman dari se batana ke kya aaj tak kisi ne ammal kiya un cheezon per ................ hooon gay zaror hoon gay aese loog joi amal kerte hoon gay lekin kitne kuch ....... 100 me se 2 ya 3 percent... bas itne tu khud soocheen ke hum loog taraki kese ker paeen gay....... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sona 0 Posted March 6, 2006 hi, kurios u just dont mind but who wants to follow they will we cant force them to follow anything u just dont tense ur self okay.I know we get lots of info daily but we cant force anyone so u plzzzzzzzzzzzzz dont mind this. :angel: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted March 6, 2006 ya but i could not get ur point of view ..... means why i am gonna mind this all though i know we can't force others to do so yet why m gonna mind for all this .................. i think u couldn't get the tone of my point ...miss sona Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jehan shah 0 Posted March 11, 2006 jhooooooooooot, is lafaz ka dosti se koi reshta nahi to phir aap log kion is ko dosti se mansoob karte hain.har reshte ki bunyad yaqeen par hoti hay ,aur jahan jhoot ho wahan yaqeen nahi hota ,dost wo hota hay jis tarah aap aaine main apna akas dekthee hain aap ka dost bhi aap ka aks hona chahiye k jo aap hain aap ka dost bhi wahi ho- yeh mera khayal hay-sab ka ho zaroori nahi Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cooLboY 1 Posted April 1, 2006 jhooooooooooot,            is lafaz ka dosti se koi reshta nahi to phir aap log kion is ko dosti se mansoob karte hain.har reshte ki bunyad yaqeen par hoti hay ,aur jahan jhoot ho wahan yaqeen nahi hota ,dost wo hota hay jis tarah aap aaine main apna akas dekthee hain aap ka dost bhi aap ka aks hona chahiye k jo aap hain aap ka dost bhi wahi ho- yeh mera khayal hay-sab ka ho zaroori nahi 176821[/snapback] very right, I totally agree with you Mr. Shah Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Awaara 0 Posted April 2, 2006 Asalaam o Alaikum why friend(s) tells a lie? while we knows some1 is lying and then we don't want to speak him/her because we shouldn't speak a lie with anyone.. while the friend(s) want to be ur friend by changing his/her nick... any one can reply here and help me out... If some1 can do.. lots of love & care... cooLboY Note:- I don't know is this right section for discussion or not if it's not right place than moderator can move it in right section and plz inform me where i can find the replies... Thanks 111321[/snapback] no 1 is senciour friend in the world only God is our true friend..every 1 is flirting by the name of friendship n love!..they r just makin their life happy by flirting successfull n innocent ppl! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cooLboY 1 Posted April 6, 2006 Awaara> that is ur thinking but in real friendship & love mean alot for people that's why they spend their life for friends & love ones. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cool Wamz 1 Posted May 23, 2016 nice replies Regards, CoolboY Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
