rukh 25 Posted September 3, 2005 Door janai say apanay muhabat kernai waloon ki pechan zyada achee hotee hay ya qareeb reh ker ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaman_Eman 0 Posted September 3, 2005 Door janai say apanay muhabat kernai waloon ki pechan zyada achee hotee hay ya qareeb reh ker ? Rukh jou log muhabbat kertay hain un k liyee door or qareeb koi ahmiyaat nahi rakhtay :( ... kuch log nazer sai door reh kai be dill kai buht qareeb hotay hain.. bas pechan aap ka dill kerta hai. kabi kabi waqt buht buri tarah azmata hai :( Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted September 3, 2005 aha Eman jee ..merey topic main chand to tha hee ab taray app nay laga deye lolzz app ka ajwab mujhai kuch adhora sa lag raha hay muhabat main kammi or zyadtee to zaroor hotee hay.janna yeh kay dorion say aisa hota ya qurbatoon say ..kia cheez hay jo hamaay ik dosray say taluq ko kamzor or mazboot banatee hay ! woh shdiat jo hum shroo main mehsoos kertai hain bad main us main kis wajha say therao ya kaami ya zyadte atee or taluqaat main do he rastay hain qurbat kay ya doore kay bus yeh poochna kon sa rasta is muhabat ki pehchan behter karata hay ? waiting for reply ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kiran 2 Posted September 3, 2005 (edited) Door janai say apanay muhabat kernai waloon ki pechan zyada achee hotee hay ya qareeb reh ker ? muhabat main kammi or zyadtee to zaroor hotee hay.janna yeh kay dorion say aisa hota ya qurbatoon say ..kia cheez hay jo hamaay ik dosray say taluq ko kamzor or mazboot banatee hay ! woh shdiat jo hum shroo main mehsoos kertai hain bad main us main kis wajha say therao ya kaami ya zyadte atee or taluqaat main do he rastay hain qurbat kay ya doore kay bus yeh poochna kon sa rasta is muhabat ki pehchan behter karata hay ? First of all i must say it's Gr8 post though it's a common relation b/w us magar kabhi kabhi itni aam baat bhi kerne k liye alfaz nahi milte n eman ne bhi yeh hi koshish ki i really liked her reply bas thori si kami thi shayad main koshish main kamyab hoon Well.... Mohabbat agar soochi jay to bohat gehrai hai iss ek lafz main kehne waloon k liye to mohabbat mehaz ek jazba hai magar jo kerta hai us ke liye to kul kainat hai mohabbat kam yeh ziyada kareeb yeh dur rehne se nahi hoti... kuch loog kareeb reh ker mohabbat nahi nibah patay aur kuch loog DUR reh ker bhi itne kareeb hote hain Mohabbat ki shidat un loogoo ki kam hoti jo sirf mohabbat lena jante hain jin ka haq sirf mohabbat hasil kerna hota hai aur jab dosra apni hisse ki mohabbat mange to us shaks k paas khali hathon aur daman k kuch nahi hota to pir kon kab tak woh hi shidat rakhe aise insaan k liye jis ke samne mohabbat sirf khud ko chahe jane ka naam ho Yaad rakho to dil k paas hain hum Bhool jao to fasle hain bohat :) Edited September 3, 2005 by Kiran Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaman_Eman 0 Posted September 3, 2005 app ka ajwab mujhai kuch adhora sa lag raha hay rukh>> kabi kabi eisa hota hai na k hum chahtay hain k koi hamray lafzoon per ghoor na karay bas wo feelings mahsoos karay jou k hum os k liyee rakhtay hain ... abi tou Rukh meray pass khenay k liyee kuch nahi hai...main InshAllah jaldi he apnay gumshuda lafz find out ker k aap ko mokamal jawab don ge : ) ... wesai Kiran ka reply buht impressive or complete hai :) Mohabbat ki shidat un loogoo ki kam hoti jo sirf mohabbat lena jante hain jin ka haq sirf mohabbat hasil kerna hota hai aur jab dosra apni hisse ki mohabbat mange to us shaks k paas khali hathon aur daman k kuch nahi hota to pir kon kab tak woh hi shidat rakhe aise insaan k liye jis ke samne mohabbat sirf khud ko chahe jane ka naam ho zaberdast Kiran ..really aap nai buht buht accha reply diya hai ...shayaad main be yehi kehna chah rehi thee ;) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted September 4, 2005 First of all i must say it's Gr8 post post kernay ale bhi to gr8 hay lolzz thankx for hoslaafzayee Mohabbat ki shidat un loogoo ki kam hoti jo sirf mohabbat lena jante hain jin ka haq sirf mohabbat hasil kerna hota hai aur jab dosra apni hisse ki mohabbat mange to us shaks k paas khali hathon aur daman k kuch nahi hota to pir kon kab tak woh hi shidat rakhe aise insaan k liye jis ke samne mohabbat sirf khud ko chahe jane ka naam ho intrusting answer frum u lakin baz oqat hum apnay jazbay main bilkal fair hotay hain lakin phir bhi us main tabdeele atee hay main misal dayte hoon jaisay mere school friends hain main 10 sall un kay sath guzaray or us waqt mere un ya un ki mujh ay muhabat main jo shidat thee woh ab hum logon kay door ho janay kay bad nahi rahee even humaray pass ik dosray kay contacts number hain saal main ik ya do dafa sub old friends miltay bhi hain lakin ab bohat theraoo agya hay ,,pehlay jaisa bat nahi lakin yeh bat bhi 100 feesad hay kay khaloos ab bhi waisa hee hay lakin kuch tabdelle to hay dono teraf say to kia yeh bat sabit nahi hoyee kay yeh DOORIYAN asser andaz zaroor hotee hain ..hum apnee zindgee main dekhain..hum apni ya fareq-e-sanni ki muhabat main 1 % bhi shak nahi rakhtay lakin is kay bawjood is main ferq ata hay or baz dafa is ka baraks hota hay kay qareeb rehnay say tabdeele atee hay aisa kion hota hay ....ya shaid is ka phir yehe jawab ho kaheen na kaheen kammi hee hotee jo kabhi qareeb reh ker samjh atee hay ya door ja ker ? Amman _eman > main app k alfaz bhi samjhte hoon or app ki feelings bhi ...app relax ho ker answer dain ..yeh bus ik sawal hay jo hum sub kay sath her rsihtay main dekhna ata hay ...even humare feelings bhi mukhtalif waqt main ik he shaks kay ley mukhtalif hotee hain... main app kay jawab ka aintizar keron gee but zyada na kerwana .. yeh na ho main apna sawal he bhool jaoon lolzz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kiran 2 Posted September 4, 2005 Thanks Eman n Rukh Eman>aap ka reply bohat acha tha infact aap ne itne se reply main sari baat keh dali aur maine tamheed bandhdi thi :D well rukh u r right as well ;) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted September 5, 2005 kiran > yaqenan tum nay mera reply perha nahi is lay agree ho gayee lolzzz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kiran 2 Posted September 5, 2005 dost isse kehte hain :D jo bina kahe sumjh jaye Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted September 5, 2005 wohee na main bina tumharay batayee samjh liya tum nay kia kia ho ga lolzzz log Toot jatay hain ik reply kernay main tumhain ters nahi ata replies ignore kerni main lolzz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kiran 2 Posted September 5, 2005 haha nahi sumjha karo thora zahir bhi to kerna hai perhi likhi hoon chahe tum se phone pe poochloon rukh zulaikha mard thi yeh aurat :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Choudhry 0 Posted September 6, 2005 Doorian Muhabat barha daytain hain... thats wat i experienced thou Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aaman_Eman 0 Posted September 6, 2005 log Toot jatay hain ik reply kernay main tumhain ters nahi ata replies ignore kerni main lolzz Rukh>> kiss nai kiyaa hai eisa..aap naam batao..main abi sab ke khaber lati hon :) lakin baz oqat hum apnay jazbay main bilkal fair hotay hain lakin phir bhi us main tabdeele atee hay ..to kia yeh bat sabit nahi hoyee kay yeh DOORIYAN asser andaz zaroor hotee hain ..aisa kion hota hay ....ya shaid is ka phir yehe jawab ho kaheen na kaheen kammi hee hotee jo kabhi qareeb reh ker samjh atee hay ya door ja ker ? rukh>> yahaan aap net friends ke example hamaray samnay hai...aap ke yahaan ketni acchi friends hain...or sab hii aap sai door hain tou kiyaa...es dori nai aap ke muhabbat per koi aser dala??? pata hai Rukh muhabbat ke shidat ko dooiyaan nahi Expectations kam ya zaida kerti hain :( ... jab hum kesi sai shadeed Muhabbat kai bawajood be os ko ignore ker rahay hotay hain tou ..os kee waja yehi hoti hai k badlay main hum be wesi hii care or shidat chah rahay hotay hain ... aaj es topic ko likhtay howay aik choti see poem be likh dali : blush: ..aap perh kai batayee ga k aap es sai agree hain ya nahi... Kiran>> Thanks ..lakin aap nai buht acchay lafz likhay hain...jou shayaad meray pass nahi thay :) Choudhry >>> yaad rakho gai tou dill kai pass hain hum bhool jao tou faslay buht hain kion Ch brother theek keh rehi hon ya... ;) reply thora jaldi main type kiya hai...sirf es liyee k badtmeez lafz phir sai ghayaab na ho jein : ) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NaDaN 0 Posted September 6, 2005 mm Buhat kuch hay kaahnay ko.. Mager abhi itna dema mauf hay kay himat he nahe Lafzoo ko tarteeb denay k, Baki for the time.. i just wana say one thing... Ys All say kay duriyaon say Apnay payaronke Kadar hoti hay mager... All i think is Apno say Durii jo marzisikhain! per apno say duri achi nahe hoti..! Apnay tu apnay sath he achay lagtay hain...! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted September 6, 2005 hmm I didn't get time to read every single post but yes Nadan I agree with you.. Living in Canada.. man got no one here.. well afcourse my mom and dad and sisters.. and even then.. once university starts.. I dun get to see anyone for days.. baat kerne ka moqa bhi nahi milta.. dad is always working or out or whatever.. Aik ghar mai rehte hue bhi sumtimes we dun see each other for days.. U do realize how much "Apne" mean to you when you are away but again as NaDaN sed.. apne to apne saath hi achay lagte hain I can probably live without my cousins.. uncles.. grandparents but I know I can't live away from my family for long!! Even if we dun talk or see each other for days.. bas yeh ehsas keh they are around me is satisfying enough :) Aimon. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
silver 0 Posted September 6, 2005 aur agar koi bhi na ho to??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted September 7, 2005 (edited) kiran > tum ko phone kahan say keroon phone Dead hay asuusal tumhare duaon say baqee tum perhe likhe ho is per mujhay oiitfaaq nahi apnai matric ka certificate dikahoo lolzz Eman> kisi ka nam kia bataoon main khud is jurm main barabar ki shreek hoon lolzzz_replies goal kernay main ) net freinds say door kis terah ...net friends ka wajood hee Chatting say shroo hota hay or hum usee taluq kay adee hotai hain .. ya zyada say ayzda phone tuk ya ager sahoolat ho to kisi ksisi say mulaqat ho hee jatee hay ..main ab tuk do net friend say by face mili hoon kiran or ibadat ... yahan Doore ka maqsad hay rabtoon ka toot jana ...bherhal mere apni zati raye hay Muhabbat per Doriyan buree terah asser andaz hotee hain or yeh insan ki fitrat hay ...jo cheezain munzer say hut jaain un ka Aks khatum to nahi hota dhundla zaroor jata hay ..or baz koi rabta na honay say insan khud say mutlub nikal ker budgumane ka shikar rehta hay .. mernay waloon per sabber isee ley ajata hay kay woh door ho jatay hain ..yad bayshak zinda rehtee hay dosra yeh hay kay ajj kal log badguman jalde ho jatay hain or doriyan is main berhaway ka kam kertee hain .... main is bat ko kabhi nahi mantee k shadeed muhabat bhi ho or hum us ko ignore ker dain haan yeh or bat hay k jub humain lagay hamara sath us kay ley nuqsan deh hay to faqat us kay faida k ley us say aonay app ko door ker lain choudhery > yes yeh bhi mumkin hay ...baz halat main doriyan Qader bhi kerwate hain ..lakin ajj kal k door main yeh cheez sakht nuqsan deh hay .... Nadan & aimon > yeah apnay apnay sath hee achay lagtay hain .. silver> yeh mumkin nahi koi na ho ...Allah to sub kay sath hay mere yeh topic kisi specifc muhabbat per nahi bulkay bus muhabat per hay app ager Allah say door ho jain us ki ibadat chor dain ..to app khud mehsoos kerain gay Allah ki yaad app kay dil say khatum ho jatee hay maini is cheez per bohat mushahida kia hay or mujhay yehe result milla ..kissi bhi cheez say doore app kay taluq ko mutassir zaroor kertee hay ...yeh bat KAsrat say taluq rakhtee hain haan chand ik cases ho saktay hain jahan is ka beraks ho Edited September 7, 2005 by rukh Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ariba 0 Posted September 7, 2005 No comments :!: Pata nahin kiya hai Rukh,kaee baar apka yeh topic daikh chuki hoon lakin i feel i cant breathe.comments to door ki bat hai.pata nahin kiun aisa hoo raha hai.i feel like im crying but no! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Charmer 0 Posted September 7, 2005 well! I think dooriyan mohabbat ko azmati hein, pata chal jaata hei k jisey ham mohabbat samajhtey hein wo waqyi mohabbat ha waqti inspiration or attraction.... agar dooriyon kay bawjod aapki feelings mein farak na aye to yeah woh mohanbbat hei jisey" Platonic Love" kahtey hein, u love without the sake of return, and ur love is beyond the bodily attraction or beauty, or any material cause. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kashmayin 0 Posted September 10, 2005 Door janai say apanay muhabat kernai waloon ki pechan zyada achee hotee hay ya qareeb reh ker ? hmmm I think Apne paas hon to muhabbat ziyada hoti he.. lekin Us muhabbat ko mehsoos kaerne ka waqt hume tab milta he....jab wohi apne dooer chale jate hein.....yani ehsaas hume dooeriyan hi dilaati hein.....kehne ko buhat kucvh he mind me but Time neh he/..... :( ...Inshallah phir kabhi sahi................. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted September 12, 2005 hmmm Aslamo Alikum :D kaffi din say yaa topic parh raha thaa waqatan fowaqtan i think today i can reply .. Darasl wat rukh has asked are 2 Qs One is about Mohabbat ( which she explained that it could be of any type) secondly the effect of Distance on the Mohabbat Mohabbat par too fil hal main bat nahi karoon ga ... but i think kay Mohabbat aik kahas LEVEL say pehlyee Vulnerable rehtee hai .. and it Needs ZAMAN O MAKAN (time n space) too coordinate... after the specific level is reached Moahbbat zaman o makkan kee qaid say azad hoo jatee hai ............ Now before that level ... qareeb rehnyee say mohabbat barhtee hai ( actually being close helps to reach that level) .. aur doorian yaqeenan mohabbat koo GEHNAAA daitee hain Now where ever i used the word Mohabbat .... it carries very simple very SIMPLE definition its when u love sumone U must have or anticiapate to have a relation with that person ... have the relation mean ur bros sis family frnds etc or wife/husband etc or u anticipate .. other wise its alll Waste of Tieme .. i dun beleieve on Love for all theory ! .. abhee aik shair zaberdasti yad aa raha hai :D its Much more gainst what i just said but its a beutiful one so i will write it its Qurabatain had say barhhh jayeenn too gummm miltye ehain isse liyee hum kam kam miltyee hain ... . mughay Junaid jamsheed ka aik bhut poorana gana bhee yad aa raha hai .. when i used to listen music Main samdarr main hoonnn Kinnaaaraaa dooo Sathh chalnaa hai too koeee tooo isharaaa .. doooo Kabhii itnee qareebb kayyy jallll jayeennnn Kabhi itneee hooo doorrkay ankhinnn tarasss jayennnn hmmmm :D i hope kay app nay yaa song sunnaa hoo tab hee app loog is melody koo feeel kars katyee hain MansOor Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted September 13, 2005 hmm.. what u sed mansoor is abt.. well jab qurbaten buhat .. had se ziada barh jayen.. and well no disagreements there.. The only problem.. actually shikayat that i have from u is.. WHY DIDN'T YOU REPLY TO MY PM do u know how important that is.. grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr ... :angry2: Sorry for gettin offtopic.. Aimon. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted September 17, 2005 No comments Pata nahin kiya hai Rukh,kaee baar apka yeh topic daikh chuki hoon lakin i feel i cant breathe.comments to door ki bat hai.pata nahin kiun aisa hoo raha hai.i feel like im crying but no! ariba> mm ik haqeeqat hay or haqeeqat to talkh he hotee hay ..phir bhi main app ki rayee janna chahoon ge is baray main ! well!I think dooriyan mohabbat ko azmati hein, pata chal jaata hei k jisey ham mohabbat samajhtey hein wo waqyi mohabbat ha waqti inspiration or attraction.... agar dooriyon kay bawjod aapki feelings mein farak na aye to yeah woh mohanbbat hei jisey" Platonic Love" kahtey hein, u love without the sake of return, and ur love is beyond the bodily attraction or beauty, or any material cause . charmer> app ki bat per ik shair yad araha hay yeh acha hay apus kay bherum na tootnai paain kabhi kabhi dostoon ko azma ker kuch nahi milta hmmm I think Apne paas hon to muhabbat ziyada hoti he.. lekin Us muhabbat ko mehsoos kaerne ka waqt hume tab milta he....jab wohi apne dooer chale jate hein.....yani ehsaas hume dooeriyan hi dilaati hein.....kehne ko buhat kucvh he mind me but Time neh he/..... ...Inshallah phir kabhi sahi................. kash> nice views chalain jub time millay to mazeed bataye ga Qurabatain had say barhhh jayeenn too gummm miltye ehain isse liyee hum kam kam miltyee hain mansoor > shair ghlat ker diya app nay Marasam had say berh jain to ghum milti hain iseeley hum logoon say kam kam miltay hain khandanee marasm main yeh shair fit hay ik dum Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Choudhry 0 Posted September 18, 2005 I blv: Distance can never weeken our realtionship for what is in our minds and hearts is stronger then any outside Force. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
