Mohabbat 0 Posted November 29, 2003 Hello Everyone Salam to all I am positng a new topic. I have a very big problem for you to solve. I hope you all can help the problem please give serious tips and suggestions beceause it is the fate of not only one but of some others also. Let me Start (for sake of hiding i am using other names). There is a boy named Devdas who at present is studying in UET lahore. He has been a very good in studies from start. There are some relatives of him from his Nani side (very very far relationship) who live in other city. And there lives a girl names Paro who at present is in Fsc. The family ancestors from both sides have been very close and information between them have been delivered through letters and cards only but still they are close. The boy met that girl about 8 years ago when they were just kids and they only met for 25 days and became very good friends. But after that they forgot each other and kept themselves busy in their studies. Then they could not meet each other .mind it both are master in their studies. Now somehow the boy gets the computer about 3 years back and then by some how that girls get added by the address getting to the boy through the letters . But they have no contact between each other for atleast 1 year because they had different timings. Mind it they have no such relationship between each other just remembers each other that there is someone. Then somehow about 1 year ago they have contact and that day the boy is very much in a problem and that day they talked about 4 hrs and the girl solves his problem in just 2 days and their talking starts just going on and then their time of talking exceeds from 10 at night to 4 in the morning. then one day a little mazak from the girl intitiates the relationship between themselves and they start. The fact to mention that they had not seen each other and their relationship starts with full bloom with the foundation built on true friendship. They had evnormous understanding between each other. Aur wo aik dosre ko dheekne ke lie tarapte rahe lekin un ke pas apne koi pic nahin dheeke hain bas apne bachpan ke yaadon ke sath. Phir bhe aik dosre ke lie aik do jan qalib the. wo na to aik dosre se aj kal ke society ke lihaz se i love you tak mehdod tak unho ne sahi meanings mien aik dosre se mohabbat ke phir voice chat aur phir phone calls tak nobat aye. Waqt guzarta gaya aur phir un donon ke cousins aur bhai bhe is mein shamil ho gaye. aur waqt ka darya guzarta raha aur phir donon mein wada wafa ke bhe hue as is done in stories phir wo aik dosre ke relatives bhe the is lie they had a plateform. Phir aisa hua un donon ke darmian khuch arse ke lie dori a gaye kyun ke papers the phir larke ke aik cousin ne un donon ke darmain ho sakta hai ghalat fehmi peda kar de ho kyun ke wo cousin(larki) aur larka apas mein ache relations nahin rakhte the phir aisa hua ke Dev ne Paro ko us ke papers se pehle aik card send kia aur ghalat kam yeh kar dia ke us ke upper I love you likh dia par wo card kisi ke hath nahin laga lekin Paro thore se ache larki thi use yeh baat bohat bure lage phir Dev ne aik aur ghalat kam yeh kar dia wo yeh ke apne mobile se us ne us ke ghar bells marain. Yeh sare baatain use bohat bure lagaian aur phir sone pe sohaga yeh hua ke Paro ke cousins ne Paro se keh dia ke yeh nahin ho sakta kyun ke Dev un ke khandan mein se tha (hata ke wo bohat door ka rishtedar the) phir aik din Paro ne Dev ko bohat bure mail ki aur sab khuch khatam kar dia hata ke yeh tak keh dia ke agar tumahre yeh card bheejna mohabat hai to maine tum se mohabbat nahin ki lekin Allah gawah hai ke us mail main bhe us ke chahhat chalak rahe aur aise lag raha tha jaise use yeh karne par koi majboor kia ja raha hai phir Dev ne us ko samjhane ke koshih bohat ki aur apne ghalti par sorry bhe kaha lekin yeh din aur aj ka din hai wo abhi bhi net par aata hai sirf us ke yaad mein us ke mail karta hai aik dost ban ke kyun ke un donoin ke darmian dosti sab se bare relation tha lekin wo kabhi kabhi jawab de dete hai shayad tab jab us par pressure nahi hota us ke cousins ka lekin aik baat shart hai ke yeh kam us ke cousins ne kia hai. Wo larka jab bhe use phoine karta hai wo us se sab se pehle sawal yeh karte hai ke mere taraf (city) kab a rahe ho. Pata nahin wo larki us se kitne mohabbat karte hai. Lekin wo larka aj bhe us ko yaad mein tarap raha hai lekin us ne umeed ka daman nahin chora aur apne cousisn se baat ki unhoi ne use manae ke koshih ki thi lekin wo na manne aru yeh keh dia. Lekin soochne ke baat to yeh hai ke us larki parkia guzri ho ge jab us ke sath us larke ne yeh sab kia. wo larka aj bhe apne ghalti manta hai aur rota rehta hai. Ab shayad wo dunya mein koi bhe kam karne se pehle hazar baar sochta hai ke kare ya na kare kun ke use itne bare saza aik choti se ghalti ki mili hai lekin khuch hath qismat ka bhe hai jaise ke us larke ki cousin ne kia aur phir larki ke cousins ne khcuh kia. Wo larka aj bhe apne dua mein dosra nam apne baad us ka leta hai har sans mein us ko yaad karta hai. Un donon ke pa aik dosre ke pic nahin thi sirf bachoan ki hain lekin phir bhi wo donon aik dosre ko pasand karte hain yeh dil kehte hai mera. Us larke ne use manne ke koshih bohat ki lekin us larki ne bari ajeeb shart rakhi thi aur kaha ha ke ham doon ke darmian sirf dosit ho sakte hai aur khuch nahin. is se saaf zahir hota hia ke she was under pressure of her cousins. Wo larka use cards ab bhe bhejta hai aur us ke yaad mein diary, aur us ke mails aur cards tak sambhal kar rakhe hue hain. Wo larka us se itne mohabbat karta hai ke wo apne har dua mein yahi kehta hai ke Allah use mere bhe khusiyan de de aur us ke gham mujhe de de. Us larke ke cousins ne use kaha hai to be patient. Wo larka phir bhe apne ap ko pakre hue hai aur studies nahin kharab hone dain us ne. Waqt anne ke intazar kar sakta hai wo sirf. Us larki ne pata nahin kia khuh nahin kia use manane ke lie lekin us ne na manna tha aur na wo manne. Ap sab logon se guzarish hai ke please bataiye ke wo kia kare larki ko to ap khuch nahin keh sake haan larke ko ap zaroor khuch keh sakte hain kyun ke its man dominant society so the boy has to do something. Ap loog agar khuch na bhe kar sakain to please 1. Zindagi mein sirf aik baar un donon ke lie dua zaroor kariye ga 2. Agar use koi mashwara na de sakain to kamaz kam hosla zaroor de dain. Ap loog aik DEVDAS aur na banne se to na rok sakain lekin aik DEVDAS ko sakon jitne bhe use mil sake to de sakte hain na. QUOTE: Kisi ke jazbat ko na samhajna koi bure baat nahin lekin kisi ko jazbat ka mazak urana bohat bure baat hai. Please take it seriously beacuse its a true love story in progress. you can ask anything if you want Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted November 29, 2003 hmmm main bus itna kahoon gee ALLAH os lerky ki dil ko SAKOON day or os lerky kai ley aik msg hai woh lerki i dont thnk so us kay sath fair hay ...itnee see bat per lerkay kai muafee mangnai kay bawjood woh naraz hai yeh MUHABAT nahi hoyee .. apni cousion kai underpresure kaisai hai kia os kai pass dimagh nahi hai ..woh uslerkai ko jante hai kay woh us kai sath fair tha to kisi or ki batoon main ana ..kia maani rakhta hai ALLAH jo kerta hai behtreen kerta hai jo lerki ajj kissi kay kehnai per app ko chor saktee hai kal woh app kai sath kia chaltee ... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted November 29, 2003 meri duaain UN ke sath magar its really strange.. i dont think so its a very complicated isue. larki zara si baat per naraz hoi. she could tell the boy, not to send cards.. now what.. he shud wait for the proper time to propose her... in the meanwhile if he can talk to her.. and clear everything. its good.. magar ye sara kissa thori samaj main nahi aya.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted November 29, 2003 han kaheen per inhoon nai show kia hai woh phone talk kertay thay or mails bhi kertay thay or muhabt bher kertay thay or lerki phir phone cal or mail per hee naraz ho gayee yeh bat mujhai bhi nahi samjh ayee Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bholabhala 0 Posted November 30, 2003 hello my thousendssssssss wishes for them Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mohabbat 0 Posted November 30, 2003 Ap ko samhaj nahin aye chalain mien samjhata hai agar ap loogn mein se kisi ne mohabbat ki ho to pata chale asal mein us se apne jan se bhe zayada chaah phir us ne khuch arsa pehle use bataya bhe ke mere cousins yeh keh rahe hain ke ya to us ka sath do ya hamara aur wo apne cousins ke bohat mante hai is lie yeh sab hua. phone calls to ji wo karte the bas kabhi kabhi lekin us larke ne phone calls nahin ki thi us ke ghar bells marain thi aur wo phar rahe hoti thi us waqt is lie use ghusa bhe charha aur phir ap soochain koi larka agar sirf phone calls kare aur phir CLI par number bhe aye to phir. Kia kiya jaye is mamle ka is baat ko kaise kiya jaye wo donon boaht ache dost the aur agar ap abhi bhi us larki ke pas ja kar aik baat poocho ke kia wo larka us se jhoot bolta tha to wo yahi kahe ge nahin he was very fair and is. Wo larka aj bhe use mail karta hai aur wo kabhi kabhi reply karte hai kyun ke asal mein wo relatives bhe hain. Haan yeh baat bhe darust hai ke us larki ne apne cousins ke kehne par yeh sab kia lekin soochain is baat par ke agar ap is position mein hoti kisi larki ke izat to sab se eham hoti hai aur phir use manna para apne cousins ke baat aur jahan raha cards ka sawal wo bheejta tha as a whole i mean sab behan bhaion ko us ke salhgirah par lekin hamesha best friend likhta tha ke koi card phar bhe le to koi abat nahin lekin phir aik din I LOVE YOu likh dia wo aise larki nahin thi ise lie use boihat ghusa charha. Ap fbux ke baat bhe sahi hai ke wait for right time lekin wo larka kehta hai ke kahin aisa na ho mein zindagi ke har jang jeeta jayon aur sab se eham jang har jayon. Lekin larke ke cousins bhe us ka sath nahin dete they do not believe in this thing. belive me or not wo larka itne mohabba karta hai ke us ke aik akre tamana hai ke wo us ke lie jan de de . Kia ap imagine kar sakte hain ke koi bagair dheeke itne mohabbat kare. lekin yeh sach hai he has done it aur wo azeem insan hai. Please dua karian aur batayaoin wo kia kare. Ab wo us ke city bhe nahin ja sakta abhi kyun ke us ke parents us ko janne nahin dete they do not trsut him kehte hian chota hai abhi asal mein sab se bara beta hai is lie lekin phir bhe wo umeed lagaye betha hai kash wo larki bhe umeed lagye betha hoo. Dua kariye ga. Ap sab loog sirf aik baar yeh soochain ke ap agar us ke position par hotain tokia kartain. Agar ap mein se kisi ne mohabat ki hai to please help him Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted November 30, 2003 "Mohabbat " Yar pehlay tum merry ankoon ka ilagg karwaoo baree muskil say Tumharee post parhee hai ; thouggh could'nt read all but still .. i can assume what is it :D Khair sO point is larayee hoo gayee hai .... mera khial hai yaa koee anhoneee bat nahi .. jahan Mohabbat hoo gee larayann too hotee hain .. uar Understanding hootay hootay hee hotee hai ; it takes time Achaaa abb kia jayeee .. hmmmm merakhail hai , larkay kooo apnay Mom n dad say saree bat share karna chayee ... 2ndly he should try believe in hisself .... yes !!! Mohabbat !! main banday ko jab tak apnay app par believe na hoo he cant Do nay good ... 3rdly he should try put himself in some "productive" work as ... if he is from UET .... there are a hell of different societies n clubs .... and if he is from Lahore ... he can donate his time to FountaiN House" an organization for mentally ill children n ppl ....... he will forget "himself" there . if i could help u more in any way , i shall be more than delighted , any time Mansoor Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mohabbat 0 Posted November 30, 2003 Chalain ji Mansoor sahab ap ke ankhon ka operation bhe ho jaye ga aur wo larka he kara de ga balke ho sakta hai wo ap ko apne ankhain he de de bas ap us ko us ke mohabbat dilwa dain. Kyun ke us ne shakal dheek kar to mohabbat nahin ki hai na is lie wo bagari ankhon ke bhe sath je le ga. Ap ke advices bohat achehain aur i think ke ab tak jitne bhe advices aye hain un mein se best hain lekin Mansoor sahab hamare society mein awal to itne jaldi larka apne parents se shadi ke baatnahin karta phir yar wo larki rehte bhe to dosre city mein hai is baat ke kia guarantee ke wo use yaad rakha ge bhe ya nahin lekin sache mohabbat rehte hain har waqt Ap ke societies wale baat ache hai lekin aik sawal hai ap se yeh loog hamare haan mohabbat se hone wale shadiyan kyun nahin mante (everyone can answer?) Aur ap log bhe khuch suggestions dain then i will tell you more about this story. MOHABBAT Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted November 30, 2003 ALLAH per chor dain sub ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted November 30, 2003 Yeah I wud agree wid Rukh! Rest ... is very sad :( Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mohabbat 0 Posted November 30, 2003 chalain ji Allah par chor dete hain wo to kehte hain ke Allah jo karta hai sahi karta hai lekin aik baat hai ham loogon mein sab se bure ke ham kisi kam ke lie mehnat nahin karte chahae koi cheez ho studies, job aur anything aur jab khuch ho jaata hia keh dete hain ke Allah ke yahi marzi thi. I think this is the most silliest mistake which we do. Lekin sirf itna to batayain ke kia wo larka us larki ke khawab dheeke aur wo kia us se contact rakhe i mean by cards, emails aur phone on certain events. Aur kia wahan janne ke kohsish kare i mean to that city. Ham loog sab khuch jante hain samhajte hian mante hain lekin jab baat apne par aate hai to rad kar dete hain. Jaise ham loog mohabbat ke nam par films to dheektehain bohat aur use praise bhe karte hain lekin jab baat apne ap par aate hai to kyun ham reject kar dete hain. Yahi haal us larke kecousins ka hai. Balke kahain parents ka bhi hai. I hope you can understand. Ap mein se bhe kaye loog hoon ge jo mohabbat par believe na karte hooon aur khcuh karte bhe hoon ge. ham loog mohabbat to kar sakte hain lekin mohabbat nibhana koi nahin janta wo sirf ham films mein he dheekte hain like as in DEVDAS, MOHABBATEIN aur KAHO NA PYAR HAI. I would like that you give comments on it. Please go ahead. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sanum 0 Posted November 30, 2003 Mansoor (NEEM HAKEEM) ki zaroorat par gaee yeh post parh kar... Mohabbat> hum sab dua hi kar saktay hain aur haan story k devdas ko try try again kartay rehna chaheay...agar woh os city ja sakta hai tu zaroor jaey.... mojhay do naa zara os batameez larki ki e-mail address main dekhti hoon osay.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mohabbat 0 Posted November 30, 2003 To ji please aise na kahain us larki ke bare mein kia pata wo kitne majboor ho ge ke us ne aisa kia. YEH nEEM HAKEEM Ka kia chakar hai. Aik baat batain loog kia wo larka apne mohabbat ka zikir apne parents se kare ya nahin. Yar wo kia kare ap ko to pata ho ga mohabbat kitne bare cheezhaiaik pal chain ka nahin hota. Wo wahan jaye to kaise jaye . ap loog us ke dua karain aur haan please ayinda us larki ke bare mein khcuh na kahiye ga kyun ke wo larka apne jan to de sakta hai lekin us par koi anch na aye. Yaqin to mujhe bhe nahin aata lekin yeh aik true storyhai jo persist kar rhe hai. Allah kare is dunya mein har insan mohabbat kare. can any one define mohabbat Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NaDaN 0 Posted November 30, 2003 Mohabbat i badllly want to participate per pora topic buhat baraaaaaaaa hay time lagay ga perhnay may so.. Intazar fermaiyaaaaaaaa! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mohabbat 0 Posted December 1, 2003 chalain ji intazar kar lete hain koi bataye to sahi khuch. waise ap itna badly participate karna kyun chahtah hain can i ask a personal question kia ap ne kabhi mohabbat ki hai aur kia ap mohabbat ko define kar saktain hain . aur sath sath upper wale sawal ka bhe jawab de jiyege anyone Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted December 1, 2003 (edited) hmm us lerkai ko chaeye kai woh ISTIKHARA ker lay or apnai maa bappp ko foran bata day ... Edited December 1, 2003 by rukh Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted December 1, 2003 wah rukh. qurban jaon. kiya idea diya hai. magar istikharay ka tareqa durusut ho Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted December 1, 2003 hahh fati qurban zaroor jaye ga ..pehlai bakraa ied to anian dain ;) KISI ALIM YA KISII MUSTAND BOOK sai dekh ker ISTIKHARA ker lain werna hum woh bhi bata dain gai ....:) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kiran 2 Posted December 1, 2003 rukh let me summed up the whole topic... willl u plz help me ... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sanum 0 Posted December 1, 2003 willl u plz help me ... [/b] Sorry dear..kuch aur manga hota.. yeh sab parh kar mojhay khod neem hakeem ki zaroorat par gaey.... kafi complicated story hai like Meeri k topic complicated relation k tarha.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kiran 2 Posted December 1, 2003 Agar Bewafa (SANUM) tumjh ko pehchan jate ..... hum mohabbat na kerte.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rythm 0 Posted December 1, 2003 (edited) achha 1st of all.. alot of duayen with Devdas and paro.. achha aik chez.. kia uss larki ke maan baap nahi hain? behan bhai nahi hain.. aur cousins kon hotay hain uss par prresure daalne walay.. as u said woh duur ke relatives hain but really closed.. to bhala cousins ko kia takleef hai beech main tang aranay ki.. aapne khudi kaha ki issi familly relationship ki wajah se unko aik plateform milla.. aur unke cousins ke mutabik yeh kiu nahi ho sakta.. relationship duur ki ho ya paas ki.. Hum musalmaan hain.. aur musalmaan chacha zaad.. mamu zaaad .. i mean to say.. muslims cousins main shadi kar sakte hainn.. NAUZBILLAH woh koi sikh ya hindu to nahi hain.. ki cousins main shadi na kar sakain.. ager woh dono mohabbat karte hain.. larki bhi karti hai.. to kia uss larki ko yeh nahi pata ki Ghalti ti insaan se hi hoti hai.. aur waise bhi ager mohabbat hai.. to iss main maafi ki bohat gunjaiesh hai.. mafi mangnay se to Allah miaan bhi maaf kar dete hain.. to Kia woh larki itni hi ana parast hai .. ki maaf bhi nahi kar sakti.. Rukh is rite .. istakhara karwaye .. aur apne parents ko bata day.. i think it will be the best way.. aur it doesnt make sence ki usske cousins kuch kahaingay.. jaab man baap mainbaat ho to .. cousins ko bolne ka koi haq nahi.. khud larki apne haq main sahi faisla kar sakti hai.. bohat complicated hai sab ... as mansoor said.. ki kia karna chahiye jiski wajah se un ke dil ko sakoon millay.. to i think iske saath saath woh try karay ki nimaz parh sakay .. aur Quran-e-paak parhay.. specially SURA'Yaseen yeh parhanay se dil ko bohat sakoon milta hai.. aur ager translation ke sath parhay to sab se best tareeka hai.. aur dil ko pursakoon karne ke liye yeh kafi hai .. ki aik dafa Dill laga kar dua kar le... he ll find .. ki uske dil main jo umeed paida hogi.. he ll b sure for that .. ki woh larki usski zaroor hogi .. InshAllah.. Insaaan ko dimagh se bhi kaam lena chahiye.. the way u described it is really complicated.. but its really simple.. ager insaan jazbaat ke bajaye dimagh se bhi kaam le.. larke ko chahiye ki woh devdaas ban'nay ki bajaye wohi banay jo woh hai.. aik din sochay beth kar .. ki kia hall nikala jaa sakta hai.. aur usske positive aur negative points bhi sochay.. he ll get that wht shud he do.. hope ki kuch samajh aii hogi jo main en kaha.. ... haan apne Allah miaan par believe karay.. aur ager humara dil saaf ho .. to Allah miaan khud hi doosre banday kaa saaf kar dete hain .. ager woh larki fair nahi bhi ho.. tab bhi.. uss larke ka IMAAAN uss larki ko fair kar sakta hai... RaBbIe" :flower: Edited December 1, 2003 by rythm Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mohabbat 0 Posted December 7, 2003 MOHABBAT IS BACK Salam to everyone ji I am back with a big bang. mujhe acha laga ke mera topic abhi tak chal raha hai chalain ap loogn ne ise chalaya rakha thats good. I was also busy sorry. to ji yeh story chal rahe hai pata nahin kaise lekin ap logon ne kafi mashware diye hain ;) rukh ne istakhaara ke bare mien kaha hai khuch bataayin to sahi yeh hai ka any body please explain that. Aur i know that ke islam meinis ke ijazat hai. Aur haan kiran ne kaha ke bewafa to ji asal mein hota koi bewafa nahin hai waqt halat use bana dete hain i hope u can understand all. Agar ap mein se kisi se mohabbat ki ho to pata chale wiase bhe films to dheekte hon ge ap us mein bhe yahi hota hai heroin koi masle ke bina par bewafai karti hai Thank you all for all the prayers you put in. Ji to us larki ke Allah ke fazal se maan baap bhe hain aur behan bhai bhe. wo apne behan bhai mein sab se bare hai us se chota bhai hai jo ke 7th class mein hai aur phir aik behanaur iak bhai hain jo ke 2nd class and 2 years ke hain. Aur us ke parents bhe hain aur kafi achi parents hain aur ap loogon ke lie aik news us ke abbu i mean Paro ke abbu khuch din pehle us larke ke ghar bhe gaye the aur wahan rahe bhe thi milne gaye the. ab larka yahn par koi baat nahin kar sakta lekin phir bhe us ne un se kafi paro ke bare mein baatain ki. Akir abbu the us ke. Khair use kafi khuch pata chala paro ke bare mein. Aur aik aur baat pata chali wo yeh ke is baar eid par paro ji yahan par devdas ke ghar eid card bheejne ke lie layain thi aur us ke abbu ke mutabiq bheeje bhe thi lekin yahan par mile nahin. Chalain bata dete hain wo larki karachi mein hai aur larka lahore mein. ab yahan lahore mein us larke ho kath kyun nahin mile pata nahin lekin is se yeh pata chalta hai ke us larki ke dil mein abhio bhi us ke lie khuch hai lekin wo Paro use keh chuke hai hamare darmain koi relationshipo nahin hai sirf dost aur relatives ka ab yeh baat us ne apne cousins ke pressure mein kahe pata nahin. ise lie to kehtte hain ke no contact makes very very large difference aur wohi ho raha hai yahan par. :inlove: Agar wo larka abhi bata bhe de to apne parents ko to phir kia wo us ke us ke sath mangani kar dain ge nahin to phir us larki ke izat par harf kyun anne diya jaye he says this. aur aik aur baat wo larka apne parents ke sab se bare uload hai is lie ise khuch na khuch bannaa hai ise lie. :luv: Aur aik aur inkashaf mein kiye deta hon ap loogon ke lie ke Paro asal mein Dev ke nano ke behan ke beti ke beti ke beti hai. kaisa laga rishta aur is rishte se wo donon mamo aur bhanjee lagte hain shayad yeh pehle story hai lekin asal mein nahin hain mamo bhanjee is lie that is allowed in islam. SO WHAT DO YOU SAY YOU WILL ALL GET A MARRIAGE CARD WRITEEN MAMO WITH BHANJEE Ap loog is bar bhe tabsara kariye ga mein aur baatain bhe bata jayon ga with respect to time. Ap loog bataiye ga kia yeh shadi ho sakte hain aur Paro ke cousins ke bakool wo awal to paro ke ammi ka first cousin hai is lei wo khandan ka banda hai aur wo khandan mein ho sakte. ab ap batayain kia yeh khandan mein hai wo. itna door ka rishta lekin as strong as a wall. Aur aik aur baat Dev aj tak nahin gaya karachi is lie bhe cousins kehte hoon ge aur phir yeh ke hamare haan shakal dheek kar pasand kiya jaata hai lekin wo Dev itna bhe bura nahin aur phir sab se bare baat wo ho sakta hai wo cousins Dev ko test karna chahtah hoon ke kaisa hai ya phir unhain Dev ke yeh harkat bohat bure lage ho aur phir ap loog khud he jante hain ke kisi ke darmain phoooot parwana kita asan kam hai. Allah ka shukar hai wo donon musalman hain aur aik apas ke baat hai wo larka namaz bhe pharta hai aur tha lekin wo regularly sirf Paro ke kehne par hua tha aur aj tak phar raha hai aur parhe ga aur shayad wo Dev us ko pasand he is lie karna shuru hua tha ke us ke kehne par us ne namaz regular pharna shuru hua tha aur is se ache kia baat ho gi ke un ke pyar ke bunyad islam ke building block par hai. Ap ka acha sawal hai rukh ke us larki ko kiya nain pata. Us larke ne bare koshih ki hai bohat zayada ke kisi tarah wo man jaye apne cousin se tak kaha balke apne izat tak rakh kar use mail ki hain aur phir phone par kaha hai sab khcuh lekin wo na manne aur kehne lage mere marzi yeh kia jawab hua waise aur saaf inkar kar dia ke maine mohabbat ki hi nahin hai tum se. bas wo larka phir bhe use samjhata raha aur us ne use khuch nahin kaha. lekin aik baat hai wo bhe ghabraye hue the as told by Dev. yes you said it right complicated hai sab aur distance ne sab khuch bohat ambiguiss bana kar rakh dia hai lekin us larke ke sachai abhi bhi wohi hai. Ap ne kaha wo namaz parhe that good he does this aur Quran ke lei yes thats good idea that is conveyed. Aur ap ne sahi kaha ke insan ko apne ap par faith hona chahae. par ap mein se kia yaqin karte hain ke kia aise bhe koi mohabbat hoti hai its just like a film yar bagari dheeke sirf phone, net, bachpan aur phir relatives yeh sab bunyad bane hain aur kia he ache baat hai ke un ke mohababt dil se shuru hue hai jaisa ke aj kal hota hai mohabbat ankhon se shuru ho kar dil tak jaate hai un ke mohababt dil se shuruh ho kar Dil tak jaye ge Inshallah. :o Aur haan yeh sahi kaha agar ham saaf hon to Allah mian ke dil mien zaroor baat dal dete hain . Ap loogon ke duyain aur suggestion chahayain aur han Dev ke salgirah a rahe hain in December mid, lets see ke kia Paro use card bheeje ge ya nahin net par bhe nahin kia. Dev rota hai aj kal ke pechle saal ham ne kitne ache manay the unho ne online a kar voice chat karte hue cake kata tha aur wahan par Paro ne apne hathon se cake banaya tha aur khaya tha ab khila nahin sakte the Dev ko,....... Lekin yeh kia mohabbat nahin thi ........................ Please ap loog apne apne ideas and suggestions dain i hope you can solve this. Aur haan khuch naye cheezain jo maine bataiun hain please pay regard to them also. because Dev is very much . WARNING: ONe thing please dont take this as non-serious aur haan yeh info jo bhe i am giving please ise aik story samhaj kar parhain. DOnt use it for fun>>>>>>>>> NOTE:ALL PARTICIPATE Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted December 7, 2003 ISTIKHARA aik masnoon ammal hai yanee sunnat hai NABI PAK ki ..or is ki fazilat hai ko jo insan apnai her kam key ley INTIKHARA kery ga woh kabhi na murad nahi ho ga...or jis kam kay ley us nai ISTIKHARA ki hai ALLAH us kam main berkat dal day ga or us kai asbab bana day ga ... ISTIKHARA ... ki bohat saree duaain hain .. or bohat saray tareeqay hain ..main app ko aik tareeqa bata daytee hoon jo asan hai ISHA KI NAMAZ PERH KER VITER SAI PEHLAI DO NAFAL ISTIKHRAY KI NEAT SEY KER KAI PERHAIN OR PHIR SALAM PHAIR KER ISTIKHARAY KI DUA PERHAIN OR JIS KAM KEY LEY APP KER RAHAI HAIN OS KO ZEHAN MAIN RAKHAIN ... OR KISSI SAI BAT KEYE BAGHIR QIBLAI KI TERUF HO KER SOO JAIN ...3 DIN 7 DIN TAK KERAIN ..APP KA DIL KHUD BA KHUD AIK FAISALI PER THER JAYEE GA .. DUA APP KISSI BHI NAMAZ KI BOOK SAI DEKH LAIN YA MOLVI SHAB SAI POOCH YA AMMI SAI .. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mohabbat 0 Posted December 7, 2003 thanks rukh thanks a lot. THis will be acted aur Allah ne chaha to ap ko mein in 2 weeks resultbhe batayon ga kia kaha aya Dev ke khawab mein lekin khcuh aur bhe bataayin uper itna khuch likha hai maine give suggestions Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
