*jadoo* 0 Posted January 18, 2005 ~*~ THE SECRET ~*~ One day, one friend asked another, "How is it that you are always so happy? You have so much energy and you never seem to get down." With his eyes smiling, he said, "I know the Secret!" "What secret is that?" To which he replied, "I'll tell you all about it, but you have to promise to share the Secret with others." "The Secret is this: I have learned there is little I can do in my life that will make me truly happy. I must depend on Allah to make me happy and to meet my needs. When a need arises in my life, I have to trust Allah to supply according to HIS riches. I have learned most of the time I don't need half of what I think I do. He has never let me down. Since I learned that 'Secret', I am happy." The questioner's first thought was, "That's too simple!" But upon reflecting over his own life he recalled how he thought a bigger house would make him happy, but it didn't! he thought a better paying job would make him happy, but it hadn't. When did he realize him greatest happiness? Sitting on the floor with his grandchildren, has flowers on his garden, or reading a story, a simple gift from Allah.. Now you know it too! We can't depend on people to make us happy. Only Allah in His infinite wisdom can do that. Trust HIM! And now I pass the Secret on to you! So once you get it, what will you do? YOU have to tell someone the Secret, too! That Allah in His wisdom will take care of YOU! But it's not really a secret... We just have to believe it and do it... Really trust Allah! This world is a difficult journey, An obstacle to overcome, Especially in the place we live in, Not everyday is bright and fun. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NaDaN 0 Posted January 22, 2005 (edited) Very Nice Jadoo! Brvoo!.. Wel Thts no doubt a True! Only Trusting Allah can get us through wid all our problems! Let me share You one more secret.... well We all Have problems of diffrent sorts... some face it, Fight it n some Weep cus of It.. pretty obvious reaction..! we all experence at time! Lets discuss some relation ship problems.. one quite common n Nassacary Relation.. FRENDSHIP.. I am actully laughing at this time! that i gona get in to one discussion of FRENDSHIP.. Though i quite suck at it :)..ask ma Frnds ;) So lets get back to that *Secret*.. Well to keep Your frnds closer to you1 n To keep 'em Happy from You.. Just dont ever share Your sobs wid 'EM.. Kisi baray Famous Banda ke Saying hay1 i dont know the exact saying but is "Sab ko hans ker milo tay they lll b Happy1 warna sab say ruz Udas ho ker milo gay tu.. wo Irritate ho jai ga" i know bba Saying ka sayanas ker diya! but this is best i can tell in ma words.. so Never try to discuss Ur sobs wid Ur frnds..yeah they ll b very helpful in start But they ll hate You,, n end up In SPLIT... hey hey i know most of You! or might b all of You must b saying1 This NaDaN got crazy...! but trust me.. thisis something You ll learn! Urself one day too so always try to meet Your frnds Wid.. Absalutly Aritificial SMILE on Your Face !.. FEW chance to lose Your frnd in this Option... Ok Take Care All... Edited January 22, 2005 by NaDaN Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted January 23, 2005 awwwwwwwwww .. :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted January 23, 2005 100% (thats why the smiley face!!) :) :) :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mein_hoon_na 0 Posted January 23, 2005 hey brvoo chupkali very nice post zara pm mein urdu terjoma ker deya na :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted January 23, 2005 Derd-e-Dil kay Wastay Paida kia insan ko werna ibadat kay ley kam na thay karr-o-byan so wat u said nadan & aimon about this shair ?? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
saamia 0 Posted January 23, 2005 jadoo good goood very goood Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qaasim 0 Posted January 25, 2005 Learn To Be A Good Listener If you wish to grow in the spirit of understanding, you must let the other person talk and prove his point to his satisfaction. Do not interrupt him, while he is talking. You know how exasperated you become when someone interrupts you, while you are trying to prove a point. At committee meetings, these words have been uttered quite often:- “But let me finish!” Listen more, talk less. You are made to listen. That is why you have been given only one mouth and two ears. If we were meant to talk more and listen less, we would have been given only one ear, right in front, and two mouths on the two sides. How funny we would look! And, mind you, there is no door with which to close the ears: they are always open. Before a word can be spoken, it has to cross two fences – two rows of teeth and two lips. Therefore, think twice before you talk. Never forget that of the unspoken word, you are a master, of the spoken word, you are a slave. Words, once spoken, cannot be got back. A villager came to a town, to visit some of his relatives. In villages, till today, they cleanse their teeth with wooden sticks. When he got up in the morning, the villager asked for one. They told him that in the cities they had only toothpaste tubes. The villager had never handled a toothpaste tube. As he squeezed it, out flowed a foot-long strip of toothpaste. He was taken aback. “Is there a way to sending the toothpaste back into the tube?” he asked. They said to him:- “No way! Once the paste has come out, it cannot be sent in!” Likewise, words which have been spoken cannot be sent in. Be a good listener. Therefore, listen not only with the ears, but also with the heart. Better than talking is listening. And better than listening is to enter the silence within. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
