NeeLi_AnkHaiN 0 Posted February 1, 2005 hi friends every one says that this man fall in love can any body tell me how we know that a man fall in love Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted February 1, 2005 neeeli ankhain ...welocme in cy waysay abbout ur question ... i dont know shiad jub insan hawaoon main urnay lagta hay ..us ko IK banday kay sawa kuch dikhaye na day .... or shaid neend wagera per bhi assar perta hay.......or pata nahi kia kia khaternak ALAMAT is baray main shiaroon or logon nay likhee hain :D jo log is qisaam ka dawa kertay hain kai they fall in love woh zyada behter bata saktay hain ..kay un per yeh INKASHAF kaisay or kub hoa ;) mere ik frd theen un ko jub yeh lagta tha kay un ko LOVE ho gya woh RONA shroo ker dayte thee ..os us rat un ko neend nahi ate thee ..jis say woh andaza lagate thee kay she fall in love :D... lets see more replies ;) more info ..more results :P . Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted February 1, 2005 (edited) hmmmmmm when i fall in love wid some .... yeahhh i had that experiemce More than one time ;) Sooooo i think i start Liking that gal :D and about complete sighns and symptoms !! wait for next post take care All MansoOr Edited February 1, 2005 by mansoor Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cooooolll 0 Posted February 1, 2005 mansoooor bro ....u edited ur reply hmmmm r u hiding sumthin from us? ;) :D well well its very hard to tell that other person is in luv or not ....he's flirting or is he really serious but there r a few ways to find that out which ofcorz i don't know :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mein_hoon_na 0 Posted February 1, 2005 :o :o :o :o YEH KIA HOTA HAI Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Charmer 0 Posted February 2, 2005 hi NeeLi_AnkHaiN welcome ! every one says that this man fall in love can any body tell me how we know that a man fall in love I think it’s difficult to tell that how a man falls in love (but I know about woman’s ;) ), man’s nature is unpredictable,sometimes a person gets impressed by other and he supposes “it’s love”, sometimes temporary attraction is assumed love. Love is a sacred thing so a shallow feeling that depends on beauty or charm can’t be love. whatsoever it is, Im happy without this bizarre B) thing. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qaasim 0 Posted February 2, 2005 well when a guy waits whole night for a girl just to say hi, when he gets veryyyyyyyyy happy when she says i was missing u, when he gets angry when she talks with someone else(even if it might be his best friend), when he becomes reallllllll sad when he doesn't talk to her in 3 hrs(means he talked to her 3 hrs back :P) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Charmer 0 Posted February 2, 2005 Arreeyyy is love that thing?? my observation says something different. ok , I have a very logical and contemporary answer of “how a man falls in love” According to my observation, generally,, when a man meets a cute girl he feels that he is in love with her, then when he sees a more beautiful girl he feels love for her again, afterwards when he finds that his class fellow or colleague is more attractive and charming then his ex beloveds he falls in love with her too… it happens again and again until he finds it difficult to deal with so many beloveds, and his income (or pocket money) run out so quickly coz of their shopping, gifts & hoteling. Then he stops falling in love anymore, & he has to be contented. Another thing he says “I love u” to all those girls, hoping 4 “positive response” it's not about all of u guys, so brothers don't get revenge if u r not like that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qaasim 0 Posted February 2, 2005 Arreeyyy is love that thing?? my observation says something different.ok , I have a very logical and contemporary answer of “how a man falls in love” According to my observation, generally,, when a man meets a cute girl he feels that he is in love with her, then when he sees a more beautiful girl he feels love for her again, afterwards when he finds that his class fellow or colleague is more attractive and charming then his ex beloveds he falls in love with her too… it happens again and again until he finds it difficult to deal with so many beloveds, and his income (or pocket money) run out so quickly coz of their shopping, gifts & hoteling. Then he stops falling in love anymore, & he has to be contented. Another thing he says “I love u” to all those girls, hoping 4 “positive response” it's not about all of u guys, so brothers don't get revenge if u r not like that. hey this alll Qualties u r saying abt Kashoo :P j/k well this is not love na it is just time pass for these ppl Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted February 2, 2005 charmer > great obsevation ..yeh to bilkul sahee kaha.. college university main anay kay bad lerkay or lerkion ka do terah say haal hota hay baz logoon ko yeh khush fehmi hotee hay kay jo bhi un say milta hay woh zaroor un say muhabat ker beytha hay or baz ko yeh lagta hay kay jo un say milta hay yeh un say muhabat ker bethay hain :P ik shair hay na yoon bachoon kay qatal say na hota badnam afsos k firoon ko college ki na soojhee ! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ariba 0 Posted February 2, 2005 Good topic to be discussed!!! :P Well Aik symptom jo mujhay pata hai woh shair ne kuch youn bayan ki hai Inn Aqal kay andhoon ko ulta nazar atta hai majnoon nazar atti hai,laila nazar atta hai :P . Waise yeh hai keh baqool faraz Ahemd faraz Aur dukh bhi hain zamane main muhabbat kay siwa Rahtein aur bhi hain wasal ki rahat kay siwa Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted February 2, 2005 hmmmmmmm :D lagta hai larkioon nay DIL kee bhrasssss Nikalnye kay liyee yaa topic shuru kia hai :D Charmer sis :D u think ... its just boys who do that ? hmmm ;) jab bhee male vs female koee bat hotee hai too hum yaa kuin bhool jatyee hain ..... these r the Persons who may be Good or bad khiar we all know that Falllling in lOve ..... hmmmm Mughay fati sis ka aik sentence yadd aa raha hai she said some thin like being in love on first sight is IMPOSSIBLE ... han gar koee sall 2 sall kayy relation kay badd yaa conclude karyee kay ussay Love hoo gia hai then its reasonable " and i say "MOHbbat koee aisa jazaba nahi joo hoo gayee too bass hoo gayeee ... kabhi Mohabbat barhhh jatee hai kabhi kam hoo jatee hai ... and u cant FIX it to a level ... but wid the passage of time when u develop understanding ..... and then it satyes ON constant dats where i think man gets Love wid a woman hmmmm And contuning wid ariba's poetry "gahm-e-Ishaq na hoota too ghame rozgar hoota and i will add my poetry IShaq pata nahi kinoo hoyeeee ?? Jinoo ISHAq onoo chup lagandee hai Sab hassay ROLL rogg lagandee hai Akhann sooggg tayy sarr wichh miteee Chhhat Aqal wajandee hai i m sure None of Us guys would like to be in such state and to the same reason THAT OLD ISHQ is venished .. b/cause we r not willing to "sacrifise" and without sacrification ....... Isahq bhee waisa hee hoo ga :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted February 3, 2005 (edited) never mind! Edited February 4, 2005 by cute_ooky Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted February 3, 2005 Now to the original question :how do you know if a man is in love: Well only real men fall in love.. emm I have a test (well for girls anyways) if a girl wants to know whether her man loves her or not, contact me personally.. sorry my test is top secret and very efficient.. I can't just share it with everyone like that.. it took me exactly 2 seconds to come up with it.. no aimon its impossible ..now u ask y?? woh is ley kay her insan ki sooch terjeehat dosray insan say mukhtlaif hotee hain mumkin hai kay app jin cheezon ko samjhtee hain kay is kay honay say true love ka andaza laga saktay hain ..dosray insan kay nazdeek woh kuch bhi na hon.. woh un cheezon ko ahmiyat daita he na ho :) IN MY OPENION : do ghiar maharim main MUHABAT hona ka dawa ..mayhaz NAFS ki taskeen hai ager is terha ki koi cheez is duniya main mojood hotee to is ka saboot humain apnay mazhabee taleemay main zaroor milta jis mazhab main ik namehrum awrat ka itna perda hai kay us ki AWAZ ki nermee tuk aglay ghair mehrum na sun payee .. is kay PEECHAY ik khas wajoohat mojjod hain....kay ALLAH nay ik awarat or merd kay dermyan jo kashish rakhee hai us ka ghlat istimal na ho ik mard or awarat kay pass us kay khas ahsasat jo app zindge main sirf ik insan kay ley hee rakhtay hain aisay Aalfaz jo app sirf ik insan say he bol saktay hain woh AMANAT hotay hain ...app us kay AMEEN hotay hain or app in nafsanee khuwahish ko MUHABAT ka libada pehna ker is main khiyanat ker daitay hain yeh soochay baghir kay kia yeh shakhs waqyee app ko mil jaye ge ya nahi .. or jo shaks app ki zinadgee main in cheezon ka haqdar ban ker ALLAH kay hukam say ata hay ..app us ko wohee alfaz dobara boltay hain jo app pehlay kissi say keh chukay hain ya ..apnay dil main kisi or ki tasveer hote or wajood kisis or kay sath yeh sub kis qader GUMRAH KUN or GUNNAH kay rastay hain ..is per ajj koi nahi soochta..... net per love kay kia asool hain ? pehlay app 2 ya 3mahenay chat kerain ..app ko muhabat ho jate hay phir app apni pictures ka tabdla kertay hain (pehla ghalat rasta )...phir app voice chat or phone per contact kertay hain (dosra ghalat rasta )..is kay bad ager bahir milna asan ho to us kay rastay nikaltay hain...(ttesra ghalt rasta) is kay bad zhenoo main kis terha ki soochoon ki ibtada hotee hay her insan janta hay or yeh hey woh NUQSAN hai ji say shreyat bachnay key ley itnay perday lagatee hai jo hum toratay chalay atay hain or yeh sub FaLL in love nahi Fall is sin hota hai muhabat kerna kammal nahi is jazbay ki sahee rastoon say perwarish kerna kai app kaa yeh jazba kissi gunah say alooda na ho yeh KAMAL hay or jub app yeh ker lain then u can surly says THAT MAN FALL IN LOVE Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Qaasim 0 Posted February 3, 2005 :D hey guys woo becharay/ bechari nay poocha "h u know a man is falling love" usnay yeh nahee poocha tht guys love or just do time pass wasay be all guys and girls are not same :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Charmer 0 Posted February 3, 2005 (edited) do ghiar maharim main MUHABAT hona ka dawa ..mayhaz NAFS ki taskeen haiager is terha ki koi cheez is duniya main mojood hotee to is ka saboot humain apnay mazhabee taleemay main zaroor milta jis mazhab main ik namehrum awrat ka itna perda hai kay us ki AWAZ ki nermee tuk aglay ghair mehrum na sun payee .. is kay PEECHAY ik khas wajoohat mojjod hain....kay ALLAH nay ik awarat or merd kay dermyan jo kashish rakhee hai us ka ghlat istimal na ho ik mard or awarat kay pass us kay khas ahsasat jo app zindge main sirf ik insan kay ley hee rakhtay hain aisay Aalfaz jo app sirf ik insan say he bol saktay hain woh AMANAT hotay hain ...app us kay AMEEN hotay hain or app in nafsanee khuwahish ko MUHABAT ka libada pehna ker is main khiyanat ker daitay hain yeh soochay baghir kay kia yeh shakhs waqyee app ko mil jaye ge ya nahi .. or jo shaks app ki zinadgee main in cheezon ka haqdar ban ker ALLAH kay hukam say ata hay ..app us ko wohee alfaz dobara boltay hain jo app pehlay kissi say keh chukay hain ya ..apnay dil main kisi or ki tasveer hote or wajood kisis or kay sath yeh sub kis qader GUMRAH KUN or GUNNAH kay rastay hain ..is per ajj koi nahi soochta..... net per love kay kia asool hain ? pehlay app 2 ya 3mahenay chat kerain ..app ko muhabat ho jate hay phir app apni pictures ka tabdla kertay hain (pehla ghalat rasta )...phir app voice chat or phone per contact kertay hain (dosra ghalat rasta )..is kay bad ager bahir milna asan ho to us kay rastay nikaltay hain...(ttesra ghalt rasta) is kay bad zhenoo main kis terha ki soochoon ki ibtada hotee hay her insan janta hay or yeh hey woh NUQSAN hai ji say shreyat bachnay key ley itnay perday lagatee hai jo hum toratay chalay atay hain or yeh sub FaLL in love nahi Fall is sin hota hai rukh>> agree. :) Charmer sis u think ... its just boys who do that ? hmmm jab bhee male vs female koee bat hotee hai too hum yaa kuin bhool jatyee hain ..... these r the Persons who may be Good or bad Mansoor bhai I didn’t say that all guys r same, nor I intend to prove the supremacy of gals. I just stated ironically “what love seems to be now a days” Avien daant diya hei mujhey :( and I told in my first post what love means to me. I didn’t say that u should agree with my statement. coz I know love can’t be explained in words accurately. Edited February 3, 2005 by Charmer Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted February 4, 2005 Rukh :( yani keh ab mai mazak bhi nahi ker sakti! :( :( cum on u shud know me by now.. and u know what now that u've mentioned it, I agree with u a 100% but I also agree with what I say/think about love.. waise for me its not "nafs ki taskeen" magar shayed meri tarah ki mentality is dunya mai buhat kam logon ki hai.. (maybe the ones who no longer exist in this world!!) and abt the test ohh what the heck.. I m not the messiah here who knows if a person is in love or not.. when I sed it took me exactly 2 seconds to come up with it.. to u'd know what kind of a test it is :P oky.. now no more to say from my side.. Aimon. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted February 4, 2005 oh aimon dont be sad ..ap nay apne post kay end main khud to likha tha I AM SERIOUS or main sirf yeh kaha .kay her insan ka mayar alag hota hay .. i am really sorry if u got hurt ...main app ko nahi kaha tha ..main yeh kaha jaysay app ager religous mind hain to app ik nonmuslim ya aisay insan ko nahi samjha saktay jo dosre dunya ki chezon ko ahmyat dayta hai ? umeed haya pp mayre bat samjh rahee hoon gee? bkee reahe bat watever i mention ..is main NAFS KI TASKEEN .LOVE ko nahi kaha bulkay is cheez kay peechay app jin tarekon or rastoon ko apnatay hain woh nafs ke he tasken hotay hain kion kay app us kay ley koi shraye ya mazhabe dalel nahi day saktay...or jub app aisa na kero sako to phir woh kia hoa? .. main is per to bat he nahi ker rahe kay app true lover hain ya time paasing ..main sirf un tareeqon per bat ker rahee hoon jo in mamloon main aajate hain main is per app ko ik waqya sunate hoon jis ka mafhom zayhan main hain aik sahabae thay jinhoo nay apnay ghoray ki hifazat kay ley ik Admi ko kaha or khud namaz perhnay lagay ..hifazat kernay walay Admi nay us ghoray ki raasi (ya shaid koi or cheez) chore ki or bhag gya or bazar ja ker usay 2 derhum main baich dya woh sahabe us ki talash main bazar pohnchay or us ko kaha ..mainy dil main soocha tha kay tumhain is hifazat kay 2 derhum doon ga ..lakin tum nay ghalat rasta chuna mutlub yeh kay ager woh insan app ki qismat main hay bhi .ya nahi lakin dekhna sirf yeh kay kin rastoon say woh hasil hoa i told u about my frd last post ?? u know us ki shadi us insan say ho gayee ..lakin is say pehlay us nay kia kia..apnay parents say chup ker milna or phone per bat kerna bad main us nay bata diya lakin is chezon ko app kia khain gay?? ofcource us kay ley woh koi daleel nahi day skatee saaye is kay woh dil kay haton majbor the ! charmer & aimon > thanx for agre wid me :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted February 4, 2005 ohooo bhee idhar too OKhee Okheee batain hoo rahee hain :D koee light see bat nahi hoo saktee ;) yeahh i got one Q was sighn n symptoms of love .. talkin medical way its like dat MOhabbat karnye waloon ka yahee injamm hota hai Kabhi khansi kabhi nazla kabhi zukam hoota hai sooo when u r seneezing a lot ... ;) who Knows !! lolzz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted February 4, 2005 ohh man yes Rukh aap bilkul theek keh rahi hain.. I just read my post .. yes buhat confusing post hai.. my thoughts are all over the place :( sorry bout that! But yes I agree wth u.. :) a 100% so Im staying away from love for now.. and later who knows.. Aimon. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cooooolll 0 Posted February 4, 2005 kabhi khansi kabhi nazla kabhi zukaam hota hai :laugh: waisay i don't know y ....lekin jab bhi kahin bhi aisa topic hota hai girls alwaz go against guys ....most of the guys stay neutral but girls NEVER! i agree with most of ya lekin yeh jo her dusray din honay wala luv hai yeh beech mein kahan say agaya ? i guess we r goin off the topic .... its abt how u know that the other person is in luv with u ....and not playin with u .......khair jee im just a kid in these things u ppl know it better than me :) nice posts by rukh! take care allll Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted February 5, 2005 (edited) cooolll I guess that was directed towards me.. yes that's what i was saying.. love doesn't happen everyday.. well a person can fall in love with another person over and over and over but not with different ppl,... <-- that's just wrong! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ now Rukh.. hm yeh to nahi keh sakte na ke Islam mai love ka concept hi nahi? don't we love our parents? other siblings and other Muslims.. Sab Musalman apas mai bhai bhai hain.. remember? acha a lil off than this topic.. Rukh u can't deny this attraction between two opposite genders hun.. isi attraction ko kam kerne ke liey to Islam mai parde ka order dia gaya hai.. and also about lowering ones gaze... it exists but because this creates a lot of other bad things that are not permissible maybe that's why there isn't much to it.. but yeah ... that was to ur first post which u pretty much mentioned.. Apki friend ki shadi ho gayi yeh to achi baat hai.. yes I agree with u tho.. shadi se pehle all that.. I am not a big fan of it either... maybe that's why I dun ever have guys callin my house.. and I dun like attempting stupid things like either :) so what abt the rest of u ?? ohh Rukh I love ur views.. I just LOVE you!! see this heart at the bottom it's for u... :D Edited February 5, 2005 by cute_ooky Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rukh 25 Posted February 5, 2005 thanx cool & aimon :) aimon > thanx god werna main to preshan ho gaye kay app shaid mujhay ghalat lay gayeen :( ...werna main as such ik aisee bat ko point out kerna chah rahee thee jo ajj kal bohat common hai or bulkay ab to mainy dekha hay parents bhi ijazat day daytay hain aisay relations ki ..or main bohat hayran hote hoon ! bakee concept of love in islam ..woh kia hai DERD-E-DIL KAY WASTAY PAIDA KIA INSAN Ko :) khair topic bayshak woh nahi hai jis per hum log agaye hain ..lakin DISCUSSION topics main hamesha ik bat per mukhtalif tareeqoon say bat kee jayee to bohat see bataoon ka ilm aajata hay.... ok let see or members is baray main kia kehtay hain! btw> thanx for ur love & heart ( bus koi jelous na ho ab :P ) :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
**LaLa_1** 0 Posted February 8, 2005 hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm I dont know .....Howw........??? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
