sabah 97 Posted October 23, 2011 salaaam pher se mein agayi wth a new qustion? my question is kya shadi k baad larke ki muhabbat badal jati hai? kam ho jati hai ya zayada ho jati hai? kam ho jati hai tuo kaise?agar zyada ho jati tuo b kaise? chalo sab ajoan batane... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sho_shweet 657 Posted October 23, 2011 walaikumasslam,,,, mae b phr sy aa gai ans le kr,,,,,,, same wohi,,,,, k muhabat kehty kisy haen,,, "insan ki fitrat hy k usy jo chez achi lgy wo usy pana chahta hy khony sy drta hy,,,,,,,, oar usi kafiyat ko muhbt ka name dy dia jata hy,,,, oar jb wo chez mil jati hy to insan ka usy kho deny ka dr khtm ho jata hy to kaha jata hy is ki muhbt bssss itni hi thi,,,ab khtm ho gai ya bdl gai,,,," oar ALLAH sy jo hote hy wo ISHQ_E_HAQIQI hy,,, jisy hm yun define kr skty haen,,,, "shen u serrender ur will for whole humanity,,,,,this is called ISHQ_E_HAQIQI" ALLAH si ishq,,,,,,,,, Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rust_in_peace 2 Posted October 23, 2011 i wonder how this question can be answered without having gone through the experience....... the answer would be just based on speculation or guessing.......maybe if someone researches some authentic work on this topic then maybe there are some clues to it. .......in my opinion, we all are here on a mission, here means mother earth, the mission is to prepare for the life hereafter. We also have been programmed to pro-create, like all other species have been. But we are higher level creations and so are our needs. The act of procreation has been has been immersed with pleasure, physical pleasure, and this physical pleasure when attained through legitimate means is the peak or height of the feeling called love. But then does it mean that love cannot exist without it , or our race cannot propagate without love??.... As we are higher order creatures, we need fulfillment of other sorts as well ... such as spiritual, mental, companionship, friendship... etc. So, with this premise, now i would attempt to answer this question.. two people are attracted to each other when they share some common grounds...... the needs as stated above form these common grounds. Besides, in our society, there are other imposed factors also....... lets neglect them for a while, ....... so as long long these two people keep finding their fulfillment in each other , they would remain in need of each other.......or shall i say , remain in love with each other. I believe, and would go on to say that once this balance is disturbed...... their relationship would bear the immediate strain..... either one of them would be comprising or self sacrificing .. and in the worst case it may fracture. Well, i hope i have addressed the question adequately , sabah. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbow 333 Posted October 23, 2011 i wonder how this question can be answered without having gone through the experience....... the answer would be just based on speculation or guessing.......maybe if someone researches some authentic work on this topic then maybe there are some clues to it. i agree wth rust in peace Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sabah 97 Posted October 23, 2011 i wonder how this question can be answered without having gone through the experience....... the answer would be just based on speculation or guessing.......maybe if someone researches some authentic work on this topic then maybe there are some clues to it. .......in my opinion, we all are here on a mission, here means mother earth, the mission is to prepare for the life hereafter. We also have been programmed to pro-create, like all other species have been. But we are higher level creations and so are our needs. The act of procreation has been has been immersed with pleasure, physical pleasure, and this physical pleasure when attained through legitimate means is the peak or height of the feeling called love. But then does it mean that love cannot exist without it , or our race cannot propagate without love??.... As we are higher order creatures, we need fulfillment of other sorts as well ... such as spiritual, mental, companionship, friendship... etc. So, with this premise, now i would attempt to answer this question.. two people are attracted to each other when they share some common grounds...... the needs as stated above form these common grounds. Besides, in our society, there are other imposed factors also....... lets neglect them for a while, ....... so as long long these two people keep finding their fulfillment in each other , they would remain in need of each other.......or shall i say , remain in love with each other. I believe, and would go on to say that once this balance is disturbed...... their relationship would bear the immediate strain..... either one of them would be comprising or self sacrificing .. and in the worst case it may fracture. Well, i hope i have addressed the question adequately , sabah. again same thing like all ways i will used 2 tell u omg this much deep words?from were u brought? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sobe 12 Posted October 23, 2011 again same thing like all ways i will used 2 tell u omg this much deep words?from were u brought? deep words or simple words.. it all matters on how much u actually want to understand the person cuz sometimes u can understand even without saying a word.. aur phir app ka sawal boht hi unusual hay.. i mean app simply larkay ko kesay judge kar sakti ho sirif larkay ki hi badal jati hay aur kesay aur kion se kiya farak parta hay.. aur kam ziyada it varies frm person to person so aik general answer to nikala hi nahin ja sakta is baray me aur reason bhui vary karti hay beside koi bhi feelings humesha same nahin rehti it fluctuates.. happiness love sadness.. and we all understand/feel/ value this feeling kionkay there is an oppsoite reaction to it for exapmle happines and sadness .. agar duniya me sadness na ho to happiness ki value ko kesay banda samjh sakta hay i mean agar sub har wqt happy hon to how will we knw the differnce betweetn happines and sadnes kionkay sadness exist hi naihn karti.. there will be no happiness without sadness and there will be no love without hatred ... isi tarah love ki intensity ki value bhi tab samjh ayegi jab us me differnce ho.. aur baki aur boht saray factor involve hotay hain .. i mean shadi ke baad there is kids etc etc u name it.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharp 62 Posted October 24, 2011 Ahhh!!... got tired from this one thing, marrige, marrige n marrige, even if she belong's from any religion, she wont stop to ask about it!....... what's really it has, i guess nothing!!.... Offcourse, She change n asking for divorce all the time, or million's Batryal!!!............ No Offense please!!!........... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sabah 97 Posted October 24, 2011 Ahhh!!... got tired from this one thing, marrige, marrige n marrige, even if she belong's from any religion, she wont stop to ask about it!....... what's really it has, i guess nothing!!.... Offcourse, She change n asking for divorce all the time, or million's Batryal!!!............ No Offense please!!!........... what u think ur self ur not a king of any where? if u cant give answer correctly so pls stay away? get it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sparkss 0 Posted October 24, 2011 well, i think there is nothing like that....its more on the girl's part, she should know how to keep her hubby in grip...if in case she feels his love has changed or he is changed, she should keep on trying and she should must have enough strong power in her love that make her hubby stick around her...he would react the way he would be treated, increase his love or decrease, its all in her hands. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbow 333 Posted October 24, 2011 lolz jab saas ki khanay mein napasand aur father in law ki daant sunain gi na sab love wagaira bhool jae ga we all love fairy world but still reality is more harsh .........aur bht kuch hai life mein worry krna k liye.... i knw its nice to be loved and to love but still .............thr r more thngs to worry about ........ ..........sparks said rite its upto the girl to keep hubby happy but i thnk poor girl has a responsibility to keep hubb happy saas nand in laws wagaira.....aswell as her own family Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharp 62 Posted October 25, 2011 what u think ur self ur not a king of any where? if u cant give answer correctly so pls stay away? get it. My Dear!.... why you let out the word's!... when You Choose People to speak Up!.... Bet you Just born Up to Understand about Life!... ahhh!.. It's Much you will know!..... They can broke the words in Piece's, withOut asking You, It's Your's!!!........... Try to Understand the reality of writing 6 on you're hand n then 9!.... Hard for You....BUT... They will show!!..... Hate the few word's about me in this Life!..... AND... King come's in them!.... Never stoped anyone... BUT... felt alway's bad to be a King of your's!...... I know they made me Proud.....BUT.. why wild!!!........ Stay away!!..... you will get hurt!....... hahaaah!!.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sabah 97 Posted October 25, 2011 My Dear!.... why you let out the word's!... when You Choose People to speak Up!.... Bet you Just born Up to Understand about Life!... ahhh!.. It's Much you will know!..... They can broke the words in Piece's, withOut asking You, It's Your's!!!........... Try to Understand the reality of writing 6 on you're hand n then 9!.... Hard for You....BUT... They will show!!..... Hate the few word's about me in this Life!..... AND... King come's in them!.... Never stoped anyone... BUT... felt alway's bad to be a King of your's!...... I know they made me Proud.....BUT.. why wild!!!........ Stay away!!..... you will get hurt!....... hahaaah!!.... ufffffffffff ap kya cheez hai? :banghead: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sharp 62 Posted October 28, 2011 ufffffffffff ap kya cheez hai? :banghead: Evil!!!!!.............................. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Maliha khan 5 Posted November 8, 2011 Lolll... M totally agreed wid Rusty :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rust_in_peace 2 Posted November 20, 2011 well, i think there is nothing like that....its more on the girl's part, she should know how to keep her hubby in grip...if in case she feels his love has changed or he is changed, she should keep on trying and she should must have enough strong power in her love that make her hubby stick around her...he would react the way he would be treated, increase his love or decrease, its all in her hands. like the trivial saying, it takes two hands for a clap.....this world and this universe is in equilibrium, everything is in balance.... every exchange of feelings, every transaction on mutual grounds, every exchange of feelings.....it all has to be in balance. i would like to register my difference of opinion here, sparks. As you put it.......the relationship would not be in balance..... agreed that its always a compromise,,,but its always a balanced compromise, gradually the strain begins to aggravate and the possibility of fracture wouldnt be lurking very far away.. its unfair for the female... she would live in perpetual insecurity....now i dont know if you are a girl or a boy .. i would term such a male very unfair, chauvinistic and selfish. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
