Shabo 0 Posted October 9, 2003 Assalamu Alaikumwow Mashallah, it's so nice. u know sometimes it amzed me how ppl say darn this religion is toooooooooooo hard, and gosh we can't do this. but i think Islam is the best, easiest, and true religion anyone can ask for. and the marriage thing this person wrote is soooooooo touching. i wish everyone in this Dunya was like this, world would be such a better place, don't u think? be happy u all and always smile :) love yaz allz Allah Hafiz Naz W/salam Naz Its nice to read ur comments... and u know what this guy wrote is truly amazing but the BEST part is that he is sooooooo happy after all that he has done mashaAllah. So in the eyes of the world he may be weird and get ppl taking about him but Allah will be pleased with his good deeds and I think that is what counts MOST!! Sx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NaDaN 0 Posted October 9, 2003 Han.. wasay i wonder asa log kasay manage kertain hain asee sick socho ko.. kiya un ko koi Khuf nahee hota!!.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sidd 0 Posted October 9, 2003 v shud also arrange a marriage in a mosque.. nikah and then rukhsati from the mosque.. and then few days later valima.. but this is not in our culture! right fati absolutely right our marriages must b like this :) In Love :wub: " S I D D " Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nazish 0 Posted October 9, 2003 Assalamu Alaikum fati well said :) but now adays, logo nay relgion say zyaada culter ko apna liya hai. and it's horrible, kyo kay aissa hona nahi chahiyay. religion should always come FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!, not beauty, not qualification, not culture, but RELIGION. and thankx shabo sis :) Allah Hafiz allzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz love yaz allz Naz *~*Wake Up Muslim Ummah*~* Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted October 9, 2003 thnx guys.. i think its the most best thing to do. when v begin a new life with things like dances and music.. how can it b blessed? but i dont agree with mansoor... ( mansoor i wish u wud b here to explain it) as mansoor said.. i think marriages are " preset" in heavens .... i dont think so. if marriages r preset in heaven. then how will u justify divorces.. ? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sanum 0 Posted October 9, 2003 where is everybody..? ok i'll continue.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sanum 0 Posted October 9, 2003 thnx guys.. i think its the most best thing to do. when v begin a new life with things like dances and music.. how can it b blessed? but i dont agree with mansoor... ( mansoor i wish u wud b here to explain it) as mansoor said.. i think marriages are " preset" in heavens .... i dont think so. if marriages r preset in heaven. then how will u justify divorces.. ? hey fati I read one quote also want to share it but don't mind haan.. marriages are made in heaven but suffered on earth.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nazish 0 Posted October 9, 2003 Assalamu alaikum allz Fati, i think i agree with Mansoor that marriages are preset in heaven. and u r saying how u justify divorce. well i'm gonna answer ur question when an example. let's see if u understand u know fati, it's already decided if we will go to hell or heaven. jub hum paida hotay hai tou Allah ko pata hota hai hum heaven mein jaingay ya hell mein. and sometimes i think if it's already decided then what the point of doing good in life. i mean if u were suppose to go to hell and u do good things, and u still go to hell then un sub good things ka kya faida? buttttttttt, Allah ko aik chez achi lag jaye tou aap ko jannat mein daal daita hai and koi aik chez buri lag jaye tou Duzakh mein. so kind of same with marraiges. that one has been chosen for u, but it doesn't always end up like this :) u know i thikn i made u more confused, and i think i made myself more confuse too hmmz lolz anyway tataz allz Allah Hafiz love u all Naz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted October 9, 2003 u know fati, it's already decided if we will go to hell or heaven. jub hum paida hotay hai tou Allah ko pata hota hai hum heaven mein jaingay ya hell mein. and sometimes i think if it's already decided then what the point of doing good in life. i mean if u were suppose to go to hell and u do good things, and u still go to hell then un sub good things ka kya faida? buttttttttt, Allah ko aik chez achi lag jaye tou aap ko jannat mein daal daita hai and koi aik chez buri lag jaye tou Duzakh mein wsalam.. nazish my point lies in ur reply.. as u said that its is decided whether v'll go to hell or heaven... no its not decided... hum paida hotay hai tou Allah ko pata hota hai hum heaven mein jaingay ya hell mein God knows everything. he knows that a person will do bad deeds in his life and will b send to hell and he knows that some other person will do good deeds and heaven will b his destination. but he hasnt decided it... sometimes people r more lucky.. sometimes they arent. luck is decided by God... kehtay hain na ke ris khuda na likh dia hay.... jis ko zindagi main jitna milna ha wo mil jaiy ga.. magar humari zindagi decided nahi hai.. ya to decided ho sakta hai ke hum zindagi main kiya achieve karein.. forexample humain aik shaks ke fate main hai ke usay bohat money mila ga. magar aik shaks kitnay bhi hath pair chalay lai . usay kuch nahi milta.. but then again. if he works hard.. he can change his fate.. magar allah itna zalim nahi hai ke ya pehlay se likh dai. ke a this person will go to hell... no.. i dunt think soo. everything is known by him.. in case of marriages... a boy or girl lived faraway. they met by chance and got married. they could never thought that they will meet like this and will spend life together... so they think that marriages r decided.. the world is so big. chances do occur. but it doesnt means that its decided. if a person marries 4 women at a time.. what will u say then. that God decided it that he will marry 4. now u mean that God decided that the 4 women will suffer.. no. the person decided himself. but God knew it. that he will make that decision.. perhaps u got my point. perhaps.. u didnt :) BOL Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NaDaN 0 Posted October 9, 2003 hey nice discussion Gals!! well i m not sure about this or nither i have read anything exactky in Quran!! that marregs are made in heaven!! i dont trust this!! this is not holy words!! i agree with Fati but yes i have read this Ayyat in Quran.. i dont remember the exact wording but it was "Jo jasay hay usay wasa he milay ga... Khabees aurat (woman) ko khabees mard ( man ) milay ga naik ko naik he milay ga!" jahan tal may nay Quran tarjumay sa parha tha.. waha tak mujhay shadi kay baray may tu sirf yahee mila tha.. or asa he Allha nay wada kiya hay asa he ho ga!! hum apnay amal say he sab kuch apnay liya banatay hain.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sidd 0 Posted October 9, 2003 "Jo jasay hay usay wasa he milay ga... Khabees aurat (woman) ko khabees mard ( man ) milay ga naik ko naik he milay ga!"jahan tal may nay Quran tarjumay sa parha tha.. waha tak mujhay shadi kay baray may tu sirf yahee mila tha.. or asa he Allha nay wada kiya hay asa he ho ga!! hum apnay amal say he sab kuch apnay liya banatay hain.. :D In Love :wub: " S I D D " Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shabo 0 Posted October 9, 2003 :hi: Hi all Heyy Fati.. sorry I cudnt reply to ur first post... actually I did compose a reply but when I clicked to submit it the page expired.. that is soooooooo annoying :( Ur thoughts about the marriage ceremony taking place in a mosque r very good I understood ur explanation.. and I agree Allah does know what will happen but it is up2 humans to make the correct decision! marriages are made in heaven but suffered on earth.. That is very true Sanum... NaDaN... sometimes though the good ppl suffer more than the bad bcoz Allah tests our patience and how strong our belief's are aur achay loogon ko yeh bhi yaqeen hota hai k yeh duniya arzi hai akhirat mey un ko sabar ka phal zaroor milay ga which will be more beneficial than receiving happiness on earth for a short term. Yeah Sidd there is hope for us ALL ;) Allah will do best for us... Sx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sidd 0 Posted October 9, 2003 yeah shabo only u and fati understand my emotion's language :) In Love :wub: " S I D D " Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
