Relationship between boy and girl

[Waqas 48]

Just want to know what is your opinion about it. :)

[Shabo 0]

Salaam Waqas

I have placed my vote....

Can we vote more than once?? If not then is there a restriction that does not allow members who have voted to vote again? Just curious let me know if possible!!

Sx

[kierca7 0]

Salaam

           I have voted :P .As for my opinion :oo: .

           What do you mean by relationship ??? .

           Friendship i assume ,so up to the age of

           10 i suppose it's o.k. :(

           But after that age a boy girl relationship

           is definately a NO NO. :) .

                           See ya.

[Asim 0]

Salam to all,

I think a Boy and a Girl Interaction is OK under the age of 7. They are mature kinds at this age. After that there must be limits to what kind of company either of them is keeping. The parents are responsible for their child's acts.

I don't like this Current Pakistani culture where Boys are after Girls and Girls are Hanging around late night with the Boys

Do let me know your opinion. ???

May Allah Show us the right path! (Amen)

WaSalam,

Asim Zeeshan

[Shabo 0]

Salaam!

I notice there have been FOUR votes placed so far on this poll........... I wonder who by???!!!!!

Come on people place your votes now!!  :;):

Sx

[muniba 0]

hi waqas,

    i've seen this 2day ,

  i m not in the favour of this relation.v r living in the islamic society, and according 2 our religion there is some difference between a boy & a girl.v should care abt it.although islam had

given us freedom in everything but with islamic limits.

          in our generation , the basic problem with them is that their parents dont tell them wt is right& wrong thats y some boys+girls ve created there own world, which seems v.good now but it is more horrible 4 them in future life.

    wit regards,

      muniba(rubab)

[Asim 0]

Thank you muniba for participating in this Poll and letting us know what you think. I appreciate that.

I totally agree with muniba. She has raised a very Good point. Most of the Boys and Girls have created their own world and they are pround of it. more and more people and following their path.

Asim Zeeshan

[Waqas 48]

Muniba you are right and raised a good point

[Nazish 0]

salaamz

i totally agree wid muniba.

theere for i'm in favor for the relationship.

boys and girls can be so good frnd u know if u keep in our limits.

love yaz all

Naz

[kierca7 0]

Salaam

           Naz you voted yes to a boy/girl relationship.

           i disagree[as i have already wrote in and

           said so].muniba has also voted no

           so how do you agree with muniba ??? .

           please explain yar :oo: .could we please have

           more people voting :D

[Nazish 0]

salaamz

oh my bad i thoght muniba voted yes o iwanted to u know b wid her. not leave her alone. but she said no

so any wya i'm 4 this realation ship. only as frnds.  face it yaar even u guyz who voted now don't u have frnds who are boys/girls. i 'm talking about relationship only as frnds.

Banda jub koi baat kurta hai tou us per Amal kurna bhi zaroori hota hai.

love yaz all

naz

[kierca7 0]

Salaam

            Hi Naz :) i agree boys/girls being friends

            up to the age of ten.but not after that

            because i don't think it's possible for

            boys to JUST be friends after that age ???

            nature,hormones etc :P  ??? it's not

            also really permitted in our culture :( .

[Nazish 0]

salaamz

well i kindda know what u r saying that no frndship b/w boys/gals after age of ten.

and that it's also now permitted in our culture(no :( but :)

but it's ok for girls and boys to talk frndly isn't? i mean even after age of 16 or 20 or whatever, rite?

gotta go so love yaz

naz

[kierca7 0]

Salaam

Hi naz i suppose you are right :) .for older

boys/girls to be friends[talk to one another]

as long as both understand and respect this :D .

sis you and me both know the egg came first :;):

don't worry i will prove it to the doubters very

soon :P .byeeeeeee

          p.s 90 views and only 7 votes HELLO

          can we have some more votes please :oo: .

[Nazish 0]

salaamz

lols, thankx for being on my side :D

love yaz all

naz

[Shabo 0]

Salaam all!

When we say "relationships" I assume that it also includes friendship??

I personally think that there is nothing wrong with it... as Naz said just talking and being friendly and NOTHING further!!

Although Islam condemns a male/female relationship outside marriage and kinship... I think as long as it is purely "platonic" then I am in favour of it!

Hey K7 u would be good as an election candidate... get those votes rolling in!!! :P

Sx

[kierca7 0]

Salaam

          Hi Shabo :) bye bye to any ideas i had

          of entering politics :( .Time for plan b :;): .

          Great topic Waqas over 100 views but

          only 7 people have voted.HELLO could

          we please,please :( have some more

          comments and votes :P .

                       Thanks.

[Nazish 0]

salaamz

ufffffffffffffffffff pplz wake up

and vote. nahi tou na u  r making me angry and trust me it's not a good thing.

so i mean ubhi,VOTE & COMPLIMENTS

and i'm demanding this, sumjhing u guyz?

love yaz all

naz

[Waqas 48]

Cool down Naz.

We can only vote here once. :)

[Asim 0]

salaamz

well i kindda know what u r saying that no frndship b/w boys/gals after age of ten.

and that it's also now permitted in our culture(no :( but :)

but it's ok for girls and boys to talk frndly isn't? i mean even after age of 16 or 20 or whatever, rite?

gotta go so love yaz

naz

I agree wid you nazish .... the relationship is good if its just talk or simple communication.

But I have seen this relationship mostly ends up getting worst. When the two gets connected this relationship does not end or stop right here but it grows at avery alarming speed.

What do you think about it?

Does any body here agrees with me?

[Nazish 0]

salaam Asim

yes i totally agree with u. that it ends up in worst shape mostly. see what i think is that the two should never be left alone. cuz sometimes u know u just think that the other person likes u and u like them too or something like that. and then u enter in relation ship. but i disagree with one thing. I used to live in Pakistan about five years ago and now i'm in usa. pak is a muslim country, but i've seen/heard that so many girls and guys actually go on date. do hugs and kisses and all the other stuff that a normal couple does in western country. what will u say about this? i think that if we call ourselves Muslims, than it's time to act like one. Don't ashamed others through ur act.  if u r gonna act like that than plz don't call urself a Muslim, cuz u r NOT.

thankx

love u guyz

Naz

[~golden~eyes~ 0]

As-salam-alaikum dear friends.going kool :) .i think we should anylize wat we r saying.we r saying that the relation b\w girls and boys is good if at limits.i totally disagree with it.coz u know asim had said right . it ends mostly in the worst shape. if a coupe just starts a conversational friendship then they get deeper in friendship day by day. and this friendship doesnt ends.and the result is always bad. we r only muslims. and its our belief that watever Allah has said . there is perfect success in acting upon it. otherwise its loss. and Allah has said even to save our eyes from seeing girls. i mean "ghair-mehram". so there is a lot of meaning in it .big thing start from a small thing . and the relation between girls and boys start just from seeing eachother and conversation . and Allah has even stopped this small way . so we can imagine how strictly Allah has ordered in this matter. and in QURAN  PAK.Allah has said clearly to women that they make use of parda.so my point is that even friendship which is limited to conversation is wrong. it always results bad.the friendship between a girl and a boy is just as the relation between fire and the fuel. so how can they be togethewr without burning.this is the reason 4 the wrong actions of young generation in present period.they just read romantic novels and see dramas and films. and then consider it true and fell in love even from conversation . and that u said in pakistan couples do such things as in america. so ur information is not 100%correct. its very very small if it is in pakistan. its only in some high society people.not in econmy. its very very small. and u r right . we should be 100%muslims. today devil has dismissed us from right path. and instead of going to right path we ourselves are collecting difficulties for us by not acting upon islam. but Allah has appointed the day of Qayyamat so all we do we will find there the result of that . we should be 100%muslims.

[Jasmine 0]

As-salam-alaikum dear friends.going kool :) .i think we should anylize wat we r saying.we r saying that the relation b\w girls and boys is good if at limits.i totally disagree with it.coz u know asim had said right . it ends mostly in the worst shape. if a coupe just starts a conversational friendship then they get deeper in friendship day by day. and this friendship doesnt ends.and the result is always bad. we r only muslims. and its our belief that watever Allah has said . there is perfect success in acting upon it. otherwise its loss. and Allah has said even to save our eyes from seeing girls. i mean "ghair-mehram". so there is a lot of meaning in it .big thing start from a small thing . and the relation between girls and boys start just from seeing eachother and conversation . and Allah has even stopped this small way . so we can imagine how strictly Allah has ordered in this matter. and in QURAN  PAK.Allah has said clearly to women that they make use of parda.so my point is that even friendship which is limited to conversation is wrong. it always results bad.the friendship between a girl and a boy is just as the relation between fire and the fuel. so how can they be togethewr without burning.this is the reason 4 the wrong actions of young generation in present period.they just read romantic novels and see dramas and films. and then consider it true and fell in love even from conversation . and that u said in pakistan couples do such things as in america. so ur information is not 100%correct. its very very small if it is in pakistan. its only in some high society people.not in econmy. its very very small. and u r right . we should be 100%muslims. today devil has dismissed us from right path. and instead of going to right path we ourselves are collecting difficulties for us by not acting upon islam. but Allah has appointed the day of Qayyamat so all we do we will find there the result of that . we should be 100%muslims.

hello friends,

               salaamz

     i m totally agree with golden eye..bohat acchi terha se samjhaya hai baat ko..good..keep it up :)

                  take care

                  byee

[Waqas 48]

Good work you have done Golden Eyes

I am with you  :)

[Waqas 48]

We have less votes in favour of this relationship  ???