saman 0 Posted June 6, 2007 haan ager ess say mery parents ko khushi melti ho gi tu ..... kio ya bi tu jan warny ka aik tareeqa hova na salam main aap sab ki batoon se agree karti hoon main aaj kal ke haisab se chalti hoon pata nahi aap log kaise kisi larke ko dekhe bina hAN KAISE KARSAKTE HAIN lekin main ebhi yahi kiya hai main engaged hoon is mein mere parents ki khushi thi aur jis mein mere parents khush hoon us mein main bhi khush hon] mere mangetar ko maine dekha nahi hai lekin nujhe umeed hai jo mere parents ne kiya hi=oga woh mere liye sahi hoga aur main un par bharosa karti hoon....otherwise main aise karne walon mein se nahi hoon Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aser 0 Posted June 11, 2007 salam... girlzzz... ek sawal hamesha mere dimag mein tik tik tik tik karta hai... ki log arrange marriage kaise kar lete hain... achanak ek din...kisi ki tasweer dikhai jaati hai...aur bas... aise kaise uss shaks ke saath shadi kar li jaaye...jise hum jaante nahi...jis se kabhi baat nahi kiye... kyaa uss waqt hamein apni zindagi ka itna bara faisla aise hi...sirf tasweer dekh kar kar lena chahiye...????? CY ki har larki se darkhuaast hai ki apne khayalat ka izhaar karin... plz... Ws salam, All Frnds................. Aap kay Demag main kyun Tik Tik KARTA hai yeh sawal. ager aap kuch dair kay liye yeh sochay keh .. Love marrg kamyab hai ya arrange marrg. tu ziada ter yahi baat samnay aye ge keh Arrange marrg kamyab hai. Kyun?? Waja samnay hai. wo sari bateen jo ham Love main aa kar nahi Dekhtay ya Nahi Samajtay, lakin Hamaray parents ham say ziada Experiences rakhtay hain or zamanay kay UP n Down ko jantay hain. 2nd Is. Kia Har Larki Apni marzi say love ya Arrange marrg chahati hai. ager koi esi baat ho tab inkar karay na. Jab un ke life main esi koi baat he nahi tu wo Apnay Parents ko Mana kyun karay. Haan, Ak BAAT OR MY FRNDSSSSSS. Jis ko ak larki Janti nahi us say Love kesay karay Ge. Jab kese larki ko kese Anjabi larkay say love ho jata hai tu wo Pehli mulaqat he kyun hoti hai. Ak gair mohram per jis ko Islam bhi Permission nahi deta, phir ham us say wo sab bateen bhi kar laitay hain jo keh nahi karna chahiye. Jab aap ak Ajnabi Larkay per Belive kar kay Love karti hain or Usay apna Jeewan sathi bananay kay liye bhi tayaar hain tu pher Wo Larka ziada acha hai jis ko Parents Pasand karay. Or Rahi Baat Yeh Keh, kesay sirf Tasveer dekh kar Zindagi ka itna bara Fesla kar Laitay Hain Ghar walay? Bharosa, Ahtamaad, Yaqeen Zindagi kay Har Feslay main yeh cheezay zarori hain warna ham Zindagi ka koi fesla nahi kar saktay. chahay wo Shadi ho ya business, ya koi bhi Prob. us ko solve karnay kay liye Ak Dosray Ka Ahtamaad Hasil Karna zarori hai. Allah Hafiz........... Frndssssssss. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aser 0 Posted June 11, 2007 Salam again frndssss Sorry for all girls ............. mujhay yaha nahi ana chahiye tha na he koi reply karna chahiye . lakin is thread ka jo main point tha wo sirf girls nahi hai ... boys bhi is main shamil hain kyun love Marrage ya Arrange Marrage dono main , Dono ka hona zarori Hai. Is Liye girls ko chahiye keh wo Boys K Comm bhi dekhay keh wo kia kehtay hain. Love zaroor karna chahiye ... lakin Apnay Husband ya Wife kay sath ya yeh keh har larki ya larkay say love kia jaye takay Jeewan sathi Talash kar sakay. Kia khayal hai aap ka ?? or Plus point yeh hai keh Hamara deen , is baat ke permission deta hai keh girls or boys Shadi say pehlay milay lakin esay nahi jesay miltay hain. Har cheez ke limit hai or islaam nay bhi limit main milnay ko kaha hai............ only one or two times. hummmmm Shadi say pehlay parents ko chahiye keh wo apni Beti say permission lay. or ager wo mana karay tu us ka rishta waha nahi karna chahiye. Lakin kia aap apnay Parents per bhi bharosa nahi karay gay keh un ho nay jo Larka pasand kia hai wo aap kay liye bohat acha sabit ho ga. Inshallah .. Parents kabhi apnay Bacho ka bura nahi chahatay or Yaqeenan jo bhi Fesla karay gay acha karay gay. Allah Hafiz. and again ....... Sorry 4 All Girls...... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nice Friend 1 Posted June 14, 2007 salam 2 all, i think arrange marrriage is the best. jahan tak flop honay ka taluq hai to love bhi flop hoti hen n arrange bhi, so q na hum apny parents ka bharum rakhen aur un ki choice qabool kar len, after all they are more experienced than us. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aser 0 Posted June 27, 2007 As salam o Alaikum Frndsssssssssssssss Kia haal hain aaplogo kay ? i m Fine. main nay yaha reply kia tha lakin phir yaha kese nay bhi jawab nahi dia sirf FRIEND nay reply kia. Aap logo ko chahiye yaha reply karay takay jo topic start howa hai us ko REAL MEANING main samjha ja sakay. Allah Hafiz. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ramz 8 Posted July 22, 2007 Aser k question ka jawab dainnnn Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aser 0 Posted July 22, 2007 As salam o Alaikum allllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll Jee tu aap log hain kaha sab kay sab .......... main nay kab reply kia tha or aap logo nay abhi tak koi msg nahi kia............ Hairat hai ................ itna late reply karay gay tu phir kese bhi Topic per baat kesay ho gi yaha INTAZAR kartay kartay ... waqt guzar jaye ga ............ lakin waqt kab rukh hai ............. plz aap logo say Request hai keh ............. aap log mes per reply karay ...... or haan sab say Aham baat wahi log Forum per aa kar reply kia karay jin kay paas always reply karnay ka time ho ... itna Bara Break nahi aana chahiye ................ plz Thanx ................ All Take care Allah Hafiz............... :) Aser k question ka jawab dainnnn Ramz .. yeh msg kia hai aap nay ............. main nay kaha sab ko sahi say bolay or aap nay tu lagta hai .. dar dar kay msg kia hai .. lolzzzzzzzzzzz :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
paree 0 Posted March 20, 2008 salam...girlzzz... ek sawal hamesha mere dimag mein tik tik tik tik karta hai... ki log arrange marriage kaise kar lete hain... achanak ek din...kisi ki tasweer dikhai jaati hai...aur bas... aise kaise uss shaks ke saath shadi kar li jaaye...jise hum jaante nahi...jis se kabhi baat nahi kiye... kyaa uss waqt hamein apni zindagi ka itna bara faisla aise hi...sirf tasweer dekh kar kar lena chahiye...????? CY ki har larki se darkhuaast hai ki apne khayalat ka izhaar karin... plz... LET US START THIS TOPIC AGAIN GIRLZ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
paree 0 Posted March 20, 2008 I do not understand why some people still believe that the arranged marriage can be more successful than the love marriage. We all r know how important is the love in a relationship or marriage. A successful marriage must have love, support, tolerance, communication, realistic expectations, caring, sense of humor, commitment, respect, know how to handle conflict, problem solve together, interdependence, caring, enjoy one another and have fun together. so how v can marry such a person about him we dont know anything? i think the best way is LOVE + ARRANGE MARRIAGE Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ramz 8 Posted March 21, 2008 loveeeeeeeeee Loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Loveeee marriage :inluv: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
paree 0 Posted March 21, 2008 AAP SE KIS NE POOCHA HE???? YAHAN BOYS KEY LIE NO ENTRY HE YE SIRF K LIE HE UNDERSTAND Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ramz 8 Posted March 22, 2008 jsny topic banaya hai wo khd bOy haI Or main aa k kar kya raha hOn ksi ko tang to nhi kraha :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
paree 0 Posted March 22, 2008 WO GIRL HE BOY NAHEEN Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ramz 8 Posted March 24, 2008 (edited) larka hai Edited March 24, 2008 by ramz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chinky 31 Posted March 24, 2008 UFF YA TOPIC KIA HAY AND U DONOO KIA SHUROO HOO GYEE HOO.. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ramz 8 Posted March 24, 2008 (edited) hamara chooro aap apna dekho jab dekho mix patti ka pan khaa k aati hain jabhi idher udhr lurakti rehti hain Edited March 24, 2008 by ramz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roshni 1 Posted March 24, 2008 SALAM TO ALL, MAIN nay is topic say related sab k comments parhay hain kch logon nay buhut achay commnts diay hain iss topic pay..... mere khayal man tou Shadi Arrange honi chahyay........parents ki marzi say......hmaray parents hmari zindagi ka jo desicion le sktay hain wo hm nai le saktay coz un ka Experience hm say kahin zada hota hai..... Aur PERSONALLY aik baat kahun tou ye love shove kch nai hota hai...... Aur... Mere khayal main tou love shadi k baad hona chahyay.....n wo hi true love kehlata hai.....but ajj kal tou ulat hi hai pehlay payr then kch aur....... hehehe ne wayz mera opinion tou yahi hai k shadi arrange hi honi chahyay...... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
paree 0 Posted March 24, 2008 UFF YA TOPIC KIA HAY AND U DONOO KIA SHUROO HOO GYEE HOO.. JANAAB YE DAIKHEIN MERA ANS IS TOPIC PER I do not understand why some people still believe that the arranged marriage can be more successful than the love marriage. We all r know how important is the love in a relationship or marriage.A successful marriage must have love, support, tolerance, communication, realistic expectations, caring, sense of humor, commitment, respect, know how to handle conflict, problem solve together, interdependence, caring, enjoy one another and have fun together. so how v can marry such a person about him we dont know anything? i think the best way is LOVE + ARRANGE MARRIAGE OR RAMZ NE BHEE DIA HE APNA ANS WO TO MAIN ZARA US KO BATAA RAHEE THEE K YE GIRLZ FORUM HE MAGAR U NE TO APNA ANS DIA HEE NAHEEN............??? Aur PERSONALLY aik baat kahun tou ye love shove kch nai hota hai...... OR ROSHNI A happy marriage is only based on love. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ramz 8 Posted March 24, 2008 madaaam love he bht kch hoota haiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roshni 1 Posted March 25, 2008 Simply aik baat kahun gi..... k main paree ap say aur Ramz app say app dono say iss baat pat ITEFAQ nai rakhti.... main nay tou just opinion dia tha..... n 4 me LOVE IS NOTHING.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ramz 8 Posted March 27, 2008 maine b apna opinion dia hai Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chinky 31 Posted March 29, 2008 RAMZ BOYS R NOT ALLOWS OKZ SOO GET OUT FM HERE..................... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
