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Luv marriages

Luv marriages  

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  1. 1. Luv marriages

    • Yes,
      14
    • No,
      6
    • Dont know
      1


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Result is 50 50 CooL na !

well start discussion again to conclude it :P

Waqas :)

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hi

i have done love marraige 5 yrs back me happy with him and we love each other.it is true the parents dont agree for love marraige but after getting married to him and living with my inlaw they came to know me and now its like they are mad for me they dont do any think without asking me it depand on u how u behave with them

my view is some time love marraige are even sucess

be happy and make other happy :hello::laugh::cool: :P :D  :)

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ya! but all the people r not like that na! :(

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but i wud like 2 say k if u wanna do luv marriage u shud not take that person as an ideal 1 u shud think that he or she can even make mistakes after all "mistakes r 4 making"

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Prison  ???

Same case of Prison if you do arrange marrige  :D:

WiseGuy :cool:

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i think love marriage not worth it coz u when is all over u feel like in prison

1st of all welcome 2 the new members of community!!!

  hmm Muhammed dear everthing has drawbacks as well as assets! m i right!!there is not gurantee of this thing that  if u'll do arrange marriage it wud b a successful 1!Its wht ! wht is written in ur luck! han but if Luv marriage becomes unsuccessful the whole blame comes 2 u! cauze at times u do that according 2 ur will and against the will of ur family!so if u say like that k "When it overs u feel like in prison" its not correct !wht sort of luv wud b that in which u feel like in prison ???????? i dont think so that its luv its inspiration which is 4 few minutes/dayz/months!Cauz when u luv some1 u give him full rights to think abt u ! But if u think that his/her luv is bounding u in boundaries then! sorry to say that is not luv ! that would be Simply An Inspiration!

**************************** and Waqas My Friend!!!!!! u r correct !! i agree with u !

_

Waiting  4 both of ur views!

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What?

SHut up u two. Mansoor and Bugs..... tum dono kyon mera mazak ura rahe ho? Excuse' moi'? First of..... Mere math me 0 nahi hain.. u want proof. I'll scan my report card to u. Thanx to my kind Allah I have a 90 in math. Now dun curse me ppl. Thank God mere kabhi math mai 0 nahi aye. And now stop discussing my marks. Yeh cad ka bacha..... tumhare hee zero ate honge. And BTW mama ko to yeh bhi nahi pata khe I m taking math this semester. How the heck wud she know my mark. I dun discuss stuff like that wid her. If I ever got a 0 in math.... I wud kill my self. Well rather kill u..... cuzz u have a very evil eye......  :D  evil eye  :D thas funny. Anyway I m serious.

Now abt luv......well Rabbia I really liked wat u sed abt luv marriages. And I totally agree wid u.

Ok well my post is kinda getting longer.

So gtg. Bye. Luv ya'll. That's why I ain't marrying any of u guys!  :D  ooky/cookie/ookay!

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cute_ooky16 !!!!!!!!!!

U  beating  da  Old  Drum .....  :D   I  have  shown  too  all  ur  Cardd  many  dayzz  ago :P  NOw :P  just  be  coool :D  

rabbia !!!  hmm  u Got  a  Golden  eye there  soo in  debt  analysis

let  me summaise it

PPP >>>>>>>  pure Possessive  P  passionate +  ===  Love

Mansoor

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kia karoon Mansoor...... I can't afford a new drum. Kuch dollars bhejo na yar!

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cute_ooky16 !!!

janab app  hukam  karain  :D 9500000 $   enough :P

some time  mansoor  feels he  got the  billionaire  in love when he  sees  his  bank  balance of  love :D

Mansoor

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cute_ooky16 !!!!!!!!!!

U  beating  da  Old  Drum .....  :D   I  have  shown  too  all  ur  Cardd  many  dayzz  ago :P  NOw :P  just  be  coool :D  

rabbia !!!  hmm  u Got  a  Golden  eye there  soo in  debt  analysis

let  me summaise it

PPP >>>>>>>  pure Possessive  P  passionate +  ===  Love

Mansoor

:alien: thankx Mansoor and Cute OOkay! :love:

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bye the way Cardioo i have Brown black eyes/black brown eyes not golden han :D: just kidding :devil:

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Nice thoughts Rabbia you seems an Experienced in this case  :p [just kidding]

You are right too we can't say that failure is the fault of Love Marrige but the failure in both cases is their own. am i right  ???

WiseGuy

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Salam to all.

Nice & Complicated Topic.

Mujhay to aaj tuk yeh sumujh nahin aaya kay

Muhabbat main our shadi main kya link hai

khas tor pay us muhabbat kay baray main jo shadi say pehlay ki jay.

koi hai o meri yeh tension door kare.

shukrya

lafani shareer

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U know what laf... I believe that there is a difference between muhabbat aur shadi..... ab dekho when u fall in luv wid someone.. u want him/her sooooooooo bad and u just wanna be wid that person magar society is kee ijazat nahi deti like parents,family etc. U know it's not appropriate for a person (in Islam) to liv wid his/her boyfriend/girlfriend...... magar shadi mai to..... u know they both live together aur zaroori nahi keh husband and wife aik doosre se pyar kartein ho...... like take that pakistani drama for example... I watched it yesterday..... Tanha Tanha.. in that drama.. the woman is dying wid depression and illness but the man doesn't give a **** (sorry 4 da swear word) u know in a lot of marriages...... it's just like a contract that a guy and a girl sign.... it's like a permission frum others/society and parents for living together. Luv is not necessary in Shadi but muhabbat ya shadi se pehle kee muhabbat..... it's different.. u have luv between u n ur gf/bf! Now shadi ke mozu per mujh se behes kerne kee ghalati mat kerna cuzz I can give a billion examples that in MOST of the cases.. there is no luv between the partners!

But again u all r welcome to argue and express ur opinion abt it. Ok this post is kind a getting longer.

so bye!

luv ya'll...... ooky!  :p

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Salam to All.

Well Cute. Nice

Chalo maan leya shadi kay topic pay tumahin zayada dustrus hai.

Our jahan tuk muhabbat ka ziker hai to

Muhabbat to aik feeling hain sapurdagi ki feelings jis ka taaluq aap kay ehsasat our jazbat say hai. Ager aap kisi ko apnay ehsasat our jazbat main umul dukhul ki ijazt daitay hain to woh sirf muhabbat ki surat hi day suktay hain. Muhabbat main sodagari nahin hoti ager aap ko kisi say muhabat hai to sirf aap ka kaam usy muhabbat kerna hai our muhabbat kay usoolon per poora uterna hai chahay woh kisi ka bhi ho chahy woh aap say muhabbaat kary ya na keray.Ager aap apni muhabbaat kay uwez kuch chahtay hain to aap sodagari kertay hain.Muhabbat nahin.

Our jahan tuk shadi ka taaluq hai to shadi aik umel hai. Aik aisa umel jo peghambaron our walyon ka umel hai.Aik aisa umel jo Allah kay nazdeek buhut mubaruk hai kyoon kay woh apni creativity ko phulta phoolta daikh ker khoosh hota hai. Muhabbat our shadi ka taaluq yeh donon mutazad cheezain hain.

Ager koi shukhs yeh kahai kay mujhai falan sai muhabbat hai our main us say shadi kerna chahta hoon to derasal us ko apnay under pai janay walay juzbay ka ilm nahin hota jisay woh muhabbat ka nam deta hai woh "CHAHUT" hai our chahut main zaroorat ka umul dukhul hota hai our jisay chaha jai woh zaroorat bun jata hai our ager aap ki koi zaroorat poori na ho to zandagi na mukammal mehsoos hoti hai.

Our Muhabbat our chahut main buhut furq hai is ka to aap ko ilm hoga.

Shukrya

lafani shareer

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hey aimon.. where did u c that drama "tanha Tanha"... i mean did u guys buy PTV prime.... cuz i have it but i din't watch the drama... n e wayz.. i agree wid wat u said and hey lafani shareer ur urdu is a little bit difficult ... even i din't understand some of the words.. then how can cute understand it  :)

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Nice thoughts Rabbia you seems an Experienced in this case  :P [just kidding]

You are right too we can't say that failure is the fault of Love Marrige but the failure in both cases is their own. am i right  ???

WiseGuy

nahi sir abhi to main is feild main nahi aay abhi seekh rahi hoon! wud u plz help me!!!!! :inlove:  :inlove:  :lol:

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welll !!!  

"Million Logics n  Billion reasons

but i luv mah luv in every seasons

Mah dad  luv mah Mom

thats  mah  reason

to say "love is mah season

lolzzzzzzzz  folks thats  mah live  poetry :D  i think  life is  Not  soo  complicated i  belive what  i  see :D  

lets  make things simple  dats  mah  messege  of the  day

ragards

mansoor

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WOW!! mansoor its superb live poetry

keep up you good work for good people :cool:

WiseGuy

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aha! wht a gud piece of peotry  :d:

Well Waqas u did'nt ans me! me waiting to attend class :D:  :d:  :p

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hey guys...... mairi century ho gae..... i mean 100 posts  in just a month:D

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