maha23 0 Posted July 31, 2005 aoa yeah topic yahaan iss liay discuss ker rahi hoon coz mostly galz gfn bf k favour main hoti hain so that y i want to dicsuss it with galz only so aap ka sawal shoro hota hey ab 1 what is girlfrnd? 2 wat do u think if dis word[gf] is degrating r normal nick for ggalz? 3 if dis relationship is based on luv? i think so 1 gf is describe as when there is a special relationship wid a bf 2 n gf is very much degrating nick for galzz [islam main larkoon se ghir zaroori baat karna bhi manna hey tau bf tau.......] 3 dis relationship is not based on luv n the bond b/t gf n bf is based on ATTRACTION. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nathan 0 Posted July 31, 2005 Walaikumsalam!! I agree with u Maha..... 1. What is gf? .. So simple..... GF is a name of time passing girl... 2....What do u think if this word is degrading or normal nick for girls....??? ... Real degrading...... man GF is like the moost rediculous word..... wheww 3....If this relationship is based on love?? Never.... :angry2: ......... its just LUST.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
loveablepussycat 0 Posted August 1, 2005 salaamz i agree wid u nathan Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nathan 0 Posted August 2, 2005 lovvablepussycat>>>...... hmmmmmmm.thats good.... infact agar tumhain GF ka urdu main sahi mafhoom pata ho to. u can imagine..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted August 2, 2005 Asalam-o-Alaikum, i am sorry maha though it is only for galz but i have very much to say in this regard so let me say what i think about this because i have very aggressive feelings in my heart about that relation. a very good topic and very good questions i really appreciate it because its the hot topic that is being discussed b/w the boyz and i am not sure about galz. well first of all as nathan have said that there is no such identity of a gf it's all the rubbish i must say it's the western culture that is being adopted here in pakistan and it is infecting our ethics and moral character. so i must say that it should not be adopted here in pakistan rather all over the world where muslims are dwelling. one thing i am going to add is that "jo boyz kisi gal ko apni gf banate hain kya woh yeh jante hain ke un ke ghar walee is cheez ko acha samajhte hain ya nahin aur haan larki ke ghar waloon ko agar pata chal jaee then think what can happen". just think before u do any act lik that. hum sab ko pata hai ke hamare gharoon ke mahool kese hain aur hamare waldain (parents) is cheez ko bohot bura samajhte hain and again hum phir wohi baatain kerte hain jo humain western countries se inheit ho rahe hain through cable network and through other sources even ab tu hamara apna mdia is cheez to faroogh de raha hai. finally for the third question there is a very simple answer that is dunya main love ka koi chakar kisi insan se rakhna bilkul fazool hai. u know aaj kal love ko kisi aur andaz main deekha ja raha hai. mna jahan tak parha tha tu according to islam " gheer Allah se mohabat bilkul jaeez nahin" now i don't think how far it is true. aur kehte hain ke muhabat k 100 his hain aur Allah n 99 apne paas rakhee hain aur baqi sirf 1 hisa dunya main bheeja hai jis ki badulat insan itne aman aur sakoon s ji raha hai. so ab insaf ka taqaza tu yehi hai ke hamain us hasti se muhabbat kerni chahiye jo ke hum se be panah muhabbat kerta hai means Allah. hum apni mother se kitni muhabbat kerte hain kyun ke hamain pata hai ke maan hum se poori dunya main sab se zayada muhabat kerti hai lekin kabhi yeh soocha hai ke "jitna hamari maan hum se muhabat kerti hai us se 70% zyada hum se hamara khuda muhabat kerta hai" then why not we lov Allah also instead of any other person." its thought provoking question. at last i would like to say that ab yeh infection is had tak barh chooka hai k is ko rookna bohot mushkil hai. bas loog forum parh lrti hain 1 ghante ke liye nasihat hoti hai and then again wohi routine. koi faida nahin kisi ko achi batain batane ka i am really very disappointed from the young gneration. thogh i am also from the same genration but believe me ke i just hate these kind of acts. any how bas main tu dua hi ker sakta hoon and nothing else i can do because aaj kal agar kisi ko seedha rata deekhain tu ulta woh hamain ghuse hota hai ke "tum hamare personal matter main interfere mat karo". ab kahan jaeen......... Actually main ne thora sa ghuse main is topic ka jawab diya hai agar kahen koi harsh words use ho gaee hoon tu i am very sorry for that. Allah hafiz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NaDaN 0 Posted August 2, 2005 must say it's the western culture that is being adopted here in pakistan and it is infecting our ethics and moral character. so i must say that it should not be adopted here in pakistan rather all over the world where muslims are dwelling would like to say that ab yeh infection is had tak barh chooka hai k is ko rookna bohot mushkil hai. bas loog forum parh lrti hain 1 ghante ke liye nasihat hoti hai and then again wohi routine. koi faida nahin kisi ko achi batain batane ka i am really very disappointed from the young gneration. thogh i am also from the same genration but believe me ke i just hate these kind of acts. any how bas main tu dua hi ker sakta hoon and nothing else i can do because aaj kal agar kisi ko seedha rata deekhain tu ulta woh hamain ghuse hota hai ke "tum hamare personal matter main interfere mat karo". ab kahan jaeen..... Ameen! Very rightly answer! Majid.. and agree 100% that noone is intrested to even get some Attitude learning from freely provided suggetions..! i dont knwo wat is the major reason! but i think its media.. ALLAH Hum sab kay halon per reham keray! AMEEN.. INSHALLAH. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rythm 0 Posted August 16, 2005 Asslam o alaikam 1 what is girlfrnd? a female friend.. who is not just a friend.. as in.. dosti ki aarr main ganday ganday kaam karne wali kuri. :angry2: :angry2: 2 wat do u think if dis word[gf] is degrating r normal nick for ggalz? this is really D-grading, there is no respect in this word. 3 if dis relationship is based on luv? not at all.... jahan luv ho.. wahan gf nai hoti... girlfriend ka matlab hi time passs hai. girlfriend/ boyfriend= a person who is being used for passing time... for some kind of Desires(***). not gooood at all Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rythm 0 Posted August 16, 2005 ya rite majid very true Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kiran 2 Posted August 16, 2005 @ rythm kiya def hai GF ki :P i'll tell u later pehle khud to inn sawaloon ko pooch loon kisi se :P kidding Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted August 19, 2005 I m not going to answer.. kyunke its gunna look repetitive.. mere answers bhi same hain.. Gf is degrading.. its based on lust.. not love.. etc etc.. but just for a change.. emm .. gf can also be a friend who is a girl.. for example all u girls in here are my girlfriends.. Nadan is my girlfriend.. so what does it mean?? We have sumthing else goin on ;) AFCOURSE NOT!! see.. it depends if ur talkin abt a boy n a girl who like each other .. the relationship between them.. once again purely for lust purposes is whats called a gf/bf relation.. but there are other meanings to it so be careful.. (look Im sayin it because I live in Windsor.. and here ppl use anything for anyone..) :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabbia 0 Posted August 31, 2005 cooky dear u r always rite like me :P i agree with u all :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Chandani 0 Posted January 17, 2006 (edited) hi rabia nice to see u here wanna b ma friend or from now on i'll call u appi :P well nice topic maha.....i attended it very late so no one can be able to read late posts whats the point wasting time wrting allthis... well main thora sa sentence zaroor write karoon giii... k.... i agreed wid every one aproximatly sab nay ye kha hay k " GF IS TIME PASS" it is true.....especially boyz time pass karty hain....... Edited January 17, 2006 by Chandani Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
the_salman 0 Posted February 1, 2006 SALAM TO ALL JO LADKIYAN GF BANNE KE LIYE BETAAB HE , UNSE ME YEH KAHOONGA KI APNI HADON ME RAHE,ISSI SIWAYE ZILLAT KE KUCH NAHI MILTA, AUR SABSE BADI BAAT YEH HE KI LADKI KE WALDEN KI IZZAT KA JANAZA NIKAL JATA HE. :angry2: . APNI IZZAT KI NAHI TO KAM SE KAM APNE WALDEN KI IZZAT KA TO KYAL KARO. ISLAM KE BATAYE RASTE PAR CHAKNE KI KOSHISH KARO, APNI MAUT KO YAAD KARO. KAYAMAT NAZDEEK HE , AUR ZINDAGI KA KOI BHAROSA NAHI HE. ZINDAGI KE KUCH SAAL BACHE HE. AAJ ZINDAGI KA EK AUR DIN KHATAM HO GAYA. :( ALLAH HAFIZ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Anoushy 0 Posted February 1, 2006 wellllll........... first of all In Islam, there is no such thing as a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. You are either married or you are not. here i am agree wid kurios that must say it's the western culture that is being adopted here in pakistan and it is infecting our ethics and moral character.so i must say that it should not be adopted here in pakistan rather all over the world where muslims are dwelling humari youth ess infection ko bi aik Enjoyment fun and fashion samaj kar adopt kar rahi I don’t realy get it kay hum islam ko follow kar nahi sakti achi batt ko adopt nahi kar sakti tu phir ya bhuraye ki taraf kio itni jaldi barrahy hain …… especially for gilz its not a fashion app koi filmi heroin nahi hooo ..... dont u feel cheap kay koi app kay sath time pass kary i mean To say kia app itni cheap ho kay koi app kay sath time pass kay chalta bany well what to say man ajj kal tu larki khud he.............. The salman gud wordz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aamna S. Qureshi 0 Posted March 31, 2008 Totally agreed with all people here. I would like to add simply this k boys and girls should care about their character so much that nobody can call them as 'character-less'. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
