serenity 0 Posted March 26, 2003 Possible or not thats the question. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bugs 0 Posted March 26, 2003 i dont think so cause net is a place of lie and false,we r here to enjoy and to make ppl fool not to get indulge with some one,i have tested that ie why i am sure abt it Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabbia 0 Posted March 26, 2003 ahan! we can find true love on net if we are sincere to others Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
koolsensation 0 Posted March 26, 2003 yes rite its not possible to find such things on net infact i dont blv it at all ppl r not sincere to each other and they keep looking for better and better everytime they log on net Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shabo 0 Posted March 26, 2003 Serenity Good question... I say YES.. but this is ONLY IF certain criteria are met... otherwise I agree with Bugs.. the net is a web of lies and deceit and ppl make out they r something that they can only dream of being :P @ Rabbia... I agree with u 100% True say Kool... ppl dont appreciate what they have they want bigger and better things.. sadly this is not always a good thing! Sx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Waqas 48 Posted March 27, 2003 My answer is in positive that we can find Love too on the net and if u say that we should not belive on the net then my question is Can u belive on the people who are not on the net? NO because no one know them too who is good by heart and Bugs you are saying that the Net is the world of lie and false then tell me if the real world is free from Lie and other wrong habbits and now koolsensation u say that people keep looking for better and better everytime they log on net and tell me if you are sure that no one else does it outside the net WiseGuy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shabo 0 Posted March 27, 2003 Wiseguy! Your points too are valid.. but in reality at least u know the person you are talking to.. on the net they can give false identities... granted no one is perfect as we all have bad habits. On the net it is easier to deceive someone than in real life... coz if u dont know them personally u may know someone that does and they can tell u about that person and what they r really like. There is a positive and negative side to all things.. however we must be cautious especially where our emotions are concerned.. falling in love is painful at the best of times.. but falling in love with sum1 u "think" u know and finding out that they are totally different.. I'm sure can be very heartbreaking!! looking forward to reading ur views also Serenity!! Sx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted March 27, 2003 I totally agree wid Shabo... Well u know if u r sincere...... #### ya u r gonna find true luv on the net but if u ain't... then duh'..... u r a loser! Well Bugs is right..... ppl always lie......now I do understand that it's a bad habit but human nature..... ya know! Well I'll tell ya what I belive in tho? I believe that we can get true luv even on net ..... but u know what... if u luv sumone, u don't have to get together wid the person. I mean that if we luv someone wid our hearts... it doesn't necessarily mean that..... that person wud luv us back. Even in our real life..... ppl flirt and make a fool out of others. It's not only net that ppl lie or give others false identity. So I think that we can find true luv even on net but again if u luv somone ... go ahead luv them but u know u r not guaranteed that the person will luv u back. Doesn't matter..... on net or in real life. ok gtg.. ppl. bye. tata!I don't know if I explained myself right but gave it a try anyways...... Nice topic Shabo..... ooky! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted March 27, 2003 salams all :) love waoooo mah favourite :P achaaa !!! well friends ! lies , flirts all all the rubbish in the world is goin on equally on every medium ... about internet yaa i think its easy to lie here but users like me :P can hold on to what is tru or not any how i say mohbbat chayee jidhar sayy millay accept kar lainee chayeee :) baqee rahee bat flirts kee let me say when some one in love sees wid the eyes of SOUL he or she can really uderstand any one regards mansoor Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cooooolll 0 Posted March 27, 2003 salam well its a 50 50 thing......sum get and sum don't sumtimes u r very sincere but the other person is just playin' with u.....but one thing is for sure that net is not the real world....... when u find sum1 thru net and then he/she moves further than that and calls u and then becomes a real frnd....its another thing.... but the person who is just a net frnd.....u r never sure abt how sincere he/she is with u .....u can never even guess abt that person....and those who say hey i can read minds ...r often the victims.... the person who is a real frnd i mean a real life frnd if he is not sincere or is flirting....u can feel that after sumtime that he is tryin' to fool u.....but the net frnd well they say innocent until proven guilty....but abt them i wud say guilty until proven innocent :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cooooolll 0 Posted March 27, 2003 So I think that we can find true luv even on net but again if u luv somone ... go ahead luv them but u know u r not guaranteed that the person will luv u back. Doesn't matter..... on net or in real life. well cute_ooky i don't agree that it doesn't matter whether the other person luvs u or not......... it does matter.......when u luv sum1 deeply madly and u come to know that he/she was just flirtin'.....ooooohhh its a terrible feeling ...believe me i ve seen ppl ....the victims! well its sumthing like ...mmmmmm.......u fell in sum manhole and u want ur luv to pull u out of it but ur luv smiles and moves away!.....very painful!.....can easily destroy sum1's life..... so be very careful!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted March 27, 2003 Well u have ur own point of view friend but u know what when u luv somone .. "YOU" grow frum the inside..... it makes "YOU" more beautiful and gives "YOU" a sense of appreciation for things and God's creations. Well u think differently and I am not gonna argue wid u since u r not Mansoor who likes it when ppl criticize him..... lol. But anyway that's what I thought.... If I luv someone I do it for myself in a way. I don't really care if he/she luvs me back. Well waise bhi I am very popular among my friends n family for being a weirdo. The other day I was discussing it wid my bhai. I was asking him that is it possible by any chance that I am an alien? ... Well I ain't gonna tell u what he sed..... his reply was very sweet! But anyways that's not what we r talkin abt! And also u know how u sed sumthing abt those who say they can read minds and all that ...are the victims. I was wandering what do u exactly mean by that? Because I found it offensive! I wud like u to explain the meaning of it... to me...... anyway gtg now... I also liked ur reply Mansoor. And the rest of u..... Gotta go...... tata! ooky! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
serenity 0 Posted March 27, 2003 i dont think so cause net is a place of lie and false,we r here to enjoy and to make ppl fool not to get indulge with some one,i have tested that ie why i am sure abt it I dont agree with you Bugs. Tell me some thing If you BELIEVE that net is a place of lie and false then why are you a member of this community If you are so sure that every one is lying here. You further write that we are here to enjoy and make people fool in this case my reply to you is that " one is never so easily fooled as when one thinks one is fooling others." So be careful before being fooled by others. :;): Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cooooolll 0 Posted March 27, 2003 salam well sure each and every 1 has his/her way of thinking......and i just told u what i saw ....i know how cruel can this be..... hmm u sure sound like an alien to me :P .....don't know what was ur brother 's reply to ur question ....but .....khair chaddo jee :D r u among those who claim that they can read minds??.....i think u r hai na??.......im sowwie i din't mean to hurt anybody's feelings but its the fact that often those who think that they r veryyyyyy clever r the victims......overconfidence is the reason behind that :;): as i mentioned in one of my prev. replies.......it is said innocent until proven guilty.....but abt net frnds it shud be guilty until proven innocent! :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shabo 0 Posted March 28, 2003 Hey every1! Be it via the net or in real life.. if emotions r involved then sure enuff ur gona get hurt if things dont work out to your advantage.... Flirting is SERIOUS business (Ooky) u may think ur being friendly towards sum1 but they could be living on ur EVERY word and thinking they have a chance to take things further... that is soooooooo wrong. If u lead sum1 on and then leave them at a cucial point then I wudnt call the victim a LOSER I would call the player a loser for not appreciating the other persons "true" feelings :P No1 can ever know wot the other person is thinking unless they tell u.. so dont try to believe u can read minds.. ok to a degree this is possible but its not 100% true! Nice 1 Serentity!! I like ur theory Cooooolll :) U come across any "innocent" ppl yet?? Sx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
serenity 0 Posted March 28, 2003 Thanx Shabo :) but u forgot to take the poll.Plz take it. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shabo 0 Posted March 28, 2003 Hi Serenity.. Janab I took the poll with my FIRST reply it was .. YES Sx Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted March 28, 2003 hmmmmm :) shabasshh !!! lagay rahooo :p mansoor Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sobia 0 Posted March 28, 2003 Hi Serenity Hmm u have chosen very good topic so i am with Waqas n Shabo n u cant say that on net there is no sincere person everything is lie thats wrong n Kyunke kya pata aap ko net pe aisa koi na mila ho so aap net ko bura nahee keh sakte its depend on u that aap kaise hain. Well i must say yes It is possible to find true love on Net.!!! Thathaa :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted March 28, 2003 woooooooooooooooo... man.. u all r just...... so funny! Buddies......pals....... n chums...... especially Shabo..... yar firstly I am not flirting wid anyone and u know I agree wid u that sum times u r just flirting wid someone and u never know they probably count on each n every word that u say. Well I agree but the question is that how can we eliminate this whole thing? U know humans are liars..... and I hate it but it's a fact. but tell me sweety.... how can we get rid of this habit. Well we all can try to improve ourselves by not lying but u can't change the world.... ya know. Waise I do agree wid u and I feel sorry for those who get trapped in this whole luv n flirting thing over the net! Also I really liked what u sed abt not calling a victim a loser..... but the player who doesn't appreciate their luv. U r soooooooo right. That's exactly what I believe in. Now to Cooooolllllll...... well friend. I didn't say that I can read minds and I am not over confident either. Heck no... thank God I don't have that keera of overconfidence inside me. I have a gift... of well it's not reading minds but a bit different. I can't tell if a person luvs me or not but I can feel other things like what a person is thinking... I am a perceptive person too. That's probably why I can do things wid my mind.. but it's not mind reading. anyways thanx for u know telling me bout what u guys thought. Waise bhi even if I had the quality of knowing if a person luvs me or not.... this kind a mind reading.... well I wudn't use it. Because as I sed before.... luv makes "US" more beautiful frum the inside and gives "US" a sense of appreciation u know... I don't care if a person luvs me back or not. I do it for myself and for Allah who made us all. I believe in Buddhist philosophy of compassion. Ok kuch ziada hee ho gaya . So gtg. Keep posting. Tata! ooky! :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bugs 0 Posted March 28, 2003 i totally cent percently agree with cookie that its not necessary that if u luv some one u get him/her.luv him/her in heart. what i believe si that love doesnot exist.i posted a topic related to this b4 and i still believ thier is no luv its just time pass thats it.does any one know the real meaming of luv ,i think the answer is no,the image of luv in our mind is what is pasted in our mind by media but believe its not luv. .............bugs......... yoo ung to die Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted March 29, 2003 what Bugs? I am sooo disappointed in u...... So if I say I luv u... u won't believe me eh'? lol...... Buddy but I believe in luv...as I sed before I really really luv my parents and sis and friends! so what u r saying is that u don't luv ur parents or family or friends? How sad! well ok... then..... jaise tumharee marzi.... as doctor Nomaan wud say... Wait for the moment u find that "somone" then u'll say urself that he/she is the best..and u r in luv wid him/her! Ohh I hope it's a her...... lol... Not a him! ewww. lol......just kidding. anyway bye bye. luv ya'll. ur fren.....ooky! aka cookie for Bugs! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bugs 0 Posted March 29, 2003 oho cookie tumhari khoprie bhi na ulti hai bhai yahn parrents ya family ka kia zikr,yahan luv ki bat ho rahi hai yani keh kia aap apni zindagi ka partnernet per dhoond suktay hain jo aap say luv kerta ho ,ya kia net per sacha pyar milya hai ,yeah topic tum kahan pohach gaye lekin believe me there is no way u can find real luv on net.ub u say u luv me to i believe u cause we r frinds oki and there is a #### of differance between friends n lovers oki.koi hal nahee hai tumahara tum cookie hi raho gee. i luv ya now its as a frind oki cookie. .................bugs.............. too ung to die Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bugs 0 Posted March 29, 2003 hahahahahaha koi masla nhee khair hai mein nay thora sa fun lena tha so woh mein nay topic post ker kay lay lia i really enjoyed it apnay bf ko kahoo keh chill keray yahan mazaq hota hai or yahi zindagi hai, or scandles achay hotay hain hotay rehnay chaien,or mera mutlub yeah nahee tha keh tum nay kaha i luv ya means that u really luv me meray kehnay ka mutlub tha woh aik dost ki hasiet say hai or ishq aik or bala hai or yahn bat ishq ki hai or ishq nahi hota ajkul.waisay apnay bf ko kaho enjoy keray koi bat nahee khair hai,ghusa kion kerta hai,jahan tuk goli ka sawal hai tu mein bullet proof jacket mein hoon lehaza koi tension nahee. luv exists lekin pak rishtoon ka ,yahan luv say murad ishq hai or ishq ub nahi raha gurya man jao meri bat.waisay tum batao poltumhein kaisa laga tha,maza nahee aya thora sa,woh kia hai na keh "badnam na huay tu kia nam na ho ga" ........bugs...... too ung to die Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted March 30, 2003 ahem.....ahem... oye Bugs! lol...... yar mujhe pata hai keh yahan kia batain ho rahee hain..... magar go ahead and check out ur reply to my post before..... u sed urself that u don't belive in luv.....luv don't exist. That's why I started this whole thing abt parents and family. I just wanted to let u know that luv exists bilkul aise hee jaise hum apnee family se pyar kerte hain na..... usi tarah kia pata kabhi hume kisi aur se bhee pyar ho jaye.... Now I know it's not gonna be like a family pyar but still..... it is gonna be some type of luv. And by the way.....haha! very funny poll u posted there abt me n cardioo... isn't it toooooo sad but u know my bf didn't like that post at all. And Waqas didn't like it either. So they got rid of it. I am sorry. mai ne to buhat kaha keh mut remove karo but my bf was getting really really angry. That's why my friend Waqas had to.Agar woh na kerta to my bf wud have shot u and Cardioo both. Sorry! lol..... Aur waise Bugs mai bhi tum se aik ache friend ke tarah luv kertee hoon.. Mai ne yeh kab kaha keh I luv u as a ..... luver! lol..... Not possible. Abhi to Cardioo ka gham ....... I mean woh scandle jari hai...... Lemme get rid of all those afwahs... tub kaheen ja ker tumhare saath flirt ka sochoon gee......lol. Just kidding! OK bye. Bugs...... urs cookie! :P Share this post Link to post Share on other sites