vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 11, 2005 Salam 2 All !! Aaj main ap logon se kuch baat share karna chahta hun, mujhe cool yar pe kam waqt hi hua hai magar is thoday se waqt main maine yahan bohat achay dost paye hain, aaj jab main aik mushkil main hun tou aap logon ki support chahta hun, jab ham khush hotay hain tou apni khushi sab se share kartay hain magar dukh kabhi share nahin kartay,,,, Q aesa kyun???? actually baat ye hai kay, Aik ladki jise aik ladka bohat pyar karta thaa, aik ladki jis k liye us ladkay ne bohat saray sapne sajaye thay...... 2 din baad uski engagement hai kisi aur se......... :( & yes woh ladka ather hi hai.... guys i really need your help yar..... mujh main bilkul bhi himmat nahin hai uski engagement main jaanya ki, woh ladki meri first cousin hai isliye jaan tou paray ga..... magar pata nahin kaise..... plz plz plz support me guys....... this time i really need you......... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emira 0 Posted November 11, 2005 Ather agar ap us sey itna pyar karte hain to phir ap nay ussey propose kyo nahi kiya..mera yeh matlab hargiz nahi hai k ap khud ussey propose karte hain lekin ap apne parents ko to is barey bata sakte the aur phir un sey request karte k wo ap k liye jate larki k ghar.. Wo ap ki cousin hai phir to aur bhi asaan tha ap k liye aik hona...ap nay koi qadam kyo nahi uthaya...kya koi problem thi? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted November 11, 2005 well ather aap bhi meri tarah lack of confidence ka shikar hain i think so. mere sath bhi kuch aesa hoa tha actually meri phophoo ne apne 2 beetoon ki shadi ki pakistan aa ker tu apne cousin ki wedding ceremony per ja ker i met another new cousin she was quite nice but i could not have a single word with her just bcoz of lack of confidence i am still repenting over that moments but nothing i can do bahar haal mujhe us waqt jab main wedding ceremony se ja raha tha tu rona aa gaya tha trust me meri ankhon main ansoo aa gaee thae i think it was due to love but phir waqt ne sab kuch bhula diya and now i have forgotten her rather i couldn't get the time to remember her. well ather so mera mashwara yeh hai ke aap us ki wedding ceremony [er zaroor jaeen aur be brave and be a man. just have patience and u eill get some thing better from ur lord (Allah). sab kuch Allah ke hath main hai na so sabar kareen aur us ki shadi per jaeen and enjoy ur best. that was all i can do for u ok Allah hafiz Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 11, 2005 thankx Emira & MAjid...... Emira> Maine apnay parents se baat ki thii magar us waqt tak bohat dair ho chuki thiii...... main late ho gaya ......... actually meri mom jaanti thii k i love her ..... mager unhon ne koi qadam hi nahin uthaya..... :( Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emira 0 Posted November 11, 2005 Well Ather bohat afsos howa yeh sun kar...Very sad k ap ki mother kuch kar nahi saki.....Lekin is mein bhi koi na koi..ufff mujhe wo alfaz yaad nahi araha..... :( Kheir chore mere kehne ka matlab hai k jo Allah ki marzi thi wohi howa hai...Abh ap ko sabar karna hoga aur mera mashwara bhi yehi hai k ap us ki engagement mein zaror jaey. Aur jis tara majid nay kaha hai..Agar ap ko wo nahi mili to zaror us sey behtar mile gi....Allah Talah farmatey hain k mujse mango main tumhe doon ga jo tum mango aur agar nahi diya to us sey behtar doon ga(I know k yeh Ahadees complete nahi hai lekin baqee ki mujhe yaad nahi) Isliye ap behtari ki umeed rakhe. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 12, 2005 allah karay k aesa hi ho....... mujhe kisi baat ka dukh nahin hai bas sirf is baat ka hai k meray apnon ne kyun kuch nahin kiya....... n e wayz thankx for your great support emira & majid thanks a lot.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted November 14, 2005 well mr ather i do like to say one thing that "Appearances are deceptives" ok mind it i repeat appearances are deceptive u can't predcit any one even ur own fellows or members can decieve u at any moment so all u have to do is just conquer urself and have a firm belief in urself don't hesitate to go for right ok. trsut me the self sonquest is the greatest victory among all. so i hope u understand what i wanna say so Allah Hafiz and have hearty life. :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 14, 2005 yaaaa u r 100% right majid... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kurios 0 Posted November 14, 2005 off course man i have got experiences like that and hte result that i have decduecd is that no one is trust worthy in this world Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 14, 2005 kaisa experience ???!!! :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cute_ooky 0 Posted November 21, 2005 hmm ab tuk aap kafi had tuk sanbhal gaye honge right.. balke aapki post se lagta hai keh aap ko is baat ka koi dukh nahi hua.. :) Im happy to see that.. No more comments!! Aur yeh low esteem.. ya low self confidence wali baat shayed kisi had tuk theek hai lekin i blv keh .. isi mai aapki behtari hai... this is what was written for u in ur kismat.. taqdeer and so this is what happened! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ibtisaam 0 Posted November 22, 2005 assalamu alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu..... i m sorry!!!! i m late....,very sorry...ATHER....tum jis situation se guzre ho woh bahut hi takleef deh hai....(jise kisi se baat karta dekhna bhi gawara nahi hota use saari zindagi kisi aur ke saath..dekhna....)....no never.... majid ne bilkul theek kaha...kisi ke bharose mat baitho...phir woh koi bhi ho.... ~jab kisi ki taraf dil jhukne lage baat aakar zubaan tak rukne lage.. boldo gar tumhein pyaar hone lage... isse pehle ke bahut der hojaye.... aaj ye ehsaas huaa hai ki hum akele nahi......... iss raah per...... kuch aur bhi log guzar chuke hain....yahaan se... kismat se sabko apni shikayat kyun hoti hai jo nahi mil sakta usi se mohabbat kyun hoti hai... ATHER....kyaa woh tumhe chahti thi....?kyaa tumne uss ki aankhon mein apne liye pyaaar dekha tha......?ather...do din baaqi the to kyaa huaa..tumhein uss ladki se baat karni chahiye thi....apni ammi se nahi....usse poochhna chahiye tha, woh haan kehti...phir tum apni ammi se baat karte....do din baaki the to kyaa huaa use propose karte.... ab bhi agar uss ki sirf mangni hui hai...to go and propose her...plz...shayad woh....ab bhi tumhein haan keh de... aur plz pray for me ather....pray for me.... allah hafiz... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbow 333 Posted November 22, 2005 So sorry that iam late ................ATHER MUJHAY BAHUT DUKH HUA ,,,,,,,,,,,,,i was just thinking about you that you are not that regular on COOLYAR .............. thats bit sad why you not tell that girl that you love her afterall she is your first cousin.............................and is ahe also in love with you aik aap aur majid you both people are really stupid AND LACK OF CONFIDENCE IS ALSO ANOTHER THING app log tu larkay hain itney himat honey chahiay aap logon mein................ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 22, 2005 himmat tou bohat hai Laraib....magar bardhasht nahin hai..... main usse bhi keh deta magar... jajb maine uski ankhon main itni khushi & kisi aur k liye itna pyar tou main kuch keh hi nahin saka... haan is rishtay se agar woh khush na hoti tou koi aesa insaan nahin jo mujhe us se milne se milne se rok sakta.... magar jab wohi saath nahi tou what can i do?!! n e wayz jo howa so howa..... ab tou bas tanhayee hai aur CY k members.... & unfortunately uska will be husband us se shadi kar k england lay jaye ga...... jabke Feb , march main main bhi wahin ja raha hun... for ever & ever..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbow 333 Posted November 22, 2005 OH YOU ARE COMMING TO ENGLAND .................. ;;;;;;;;;;;;THATS NICE Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Emira 0 Posted November 22, 2005 himmat tou bohat hai Laraib....magar bardhasht nahin hai.....main usse bhi keh deta magar... jajb maine uski ankhon main itni khushi & kisi aur k liye itna pyar tou main kuch keh hi nahin saka... haan is rishtay se agar woh khush na hoti tou koi aesa insaan nahin jo mujhe us se milne se milne se rok sakta.... magar jab wohi saath nahi tou what can i do?!! n e wayz jo howa so howa..... ab tou bas tanhayee hai aur CY k members.... & unfortunately uska will be husband us se shadi kar k england lay jaye ga...... jabke Feb , march main main bhi wahin ja raha hun... for ever & ever..... 160909[/snapback] I know Ather ke yeh dukh sab sey bara dukh hota hai,muhabbat ke badle mein muhabbat na mile...agar ap ko lagta hai k wo larki waqeya hi khush hai to I think ke uss ko disturb karna munasib nahi hai...abh ap uss sey koi baat mat kijye ga...lekin agar wo bhi ap sey muhabbat karti aur ap ka sath chahti to kuch kiya ja sakta tha... Abh yehi kaho gi ke ap Khuda ko yaad kiya karein aur jo kuch ap ki kismat mein tha ussey qabool karle.. Ibtisaam: I dont know about ur problem lekin dua hai ke Allah Talah ap ki har khawaish/khawab poora karein..Jo ap ko chahye wo ap ko mile. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 22, 2005 Aamennnnnnnn!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ibtisaam 0 Posted November 22, 2005 SUMMA AAAAMEEEEN! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ibtisaam 0 Posted November 22, 2005 I know Ather ke yeh dukh sab sey bara dukh hota hai,muhabbat ke badle mein muhabbat na mile...agar ap ko lagta hai k wo larki waqeya hi khush hai to I think ke uss ko disturb karna munasib nahi hai...abh ap uss sey koi baat mat kijye ga...lekin agar wo bhi ap sey muhabbat karti aur ap ka sath chahti to kuch kiya ja sakta tha...Abh yehi kaho gi ke ap Khuda ko yaad kiya karein aur jo kuch ap ki kismat mein tha ussey qabool karle.. Ibtisaam: I dont know about ur problem lekin dua hai ke Allah Talah ap ki har khawaish/khawab poora karein..Jo ap ko chahye wo ap ko mile. 160996[/snapback] SALAM..... bahut bahut shukryaa Emira... meri prob kuchh ATHeR se milti julti hai...par abhi waqt haath se gaya nahi hai...pray for me.....duaaon se taqdeer badal jaati hai... allah tumhari bhi har khuaahish poori kare...aaaameen!....(ya mujeebu) ATHER.... tumne jo faisla kye ho bilkul sahi hai....pyaar ki khushi mein hi hamari khushi hoti hai.... best of luck for ur future.... remember me in ur prayers.... allah hafiz... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted November 23, 2005 i'll surely remember ibtisaam..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ibtisaam 0 Posted November 25, 2005 i'll surely remember ibtisaam..... 161087[/snapback] salam.... athEr tumhein....insha allah....ek bahut achhi life partner milegi....(aaameen)... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Asim 0 Posted November 25, 2005 ahter> ye sub kuch parh ker mujhe bi afsoos hua per i pray to Allah ke aap ko acha life partner mille. try to engage urself in some activity, it will help heal faster Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Laiba Khan 0 Posted December 18, 2005 aTHER BAHI APP MUJHY ITNA TU NAHI JANTY LAKIN APP NY YA SAB SHARE KIA HAI TU ESS NATY SAY MAIN APP KO AIK ADVICE TU HER INSAN KAY SATH KHUCH NA KHUCH HOTA HAI AB HUM JEENA TU NAHI NA CHOR SAKTY... AUR PHIR UMEED PAY DUNYA KAYEM HAI APP ACHA SA LIFE PARTNER TALASH KARAIN ALLAH APP KAY SATH HAI AUR REFOCUS YOUR THINKING POSITIVE AUR HAAN APNY APP KO DIFFERENT ACTIVITIES MAIN INVOLVE RAKHAIN NA AUR ZIYDA NA HI SOCHAIN TU BETTER HAI Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
vertosis_ather 0 Posted December 21, 2005 yaa u r right laiba ham jeena tou nahin chor saktay..... but.... n e wayz thankx for your comments..... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
