Byezz :(

[cute_ooky 0]

Assalamualikum everyone,

Yeah well it's not surprising to see this topic.. I was actually hoping that I wud post a topic in Guftgu in a week celebrating my one year in cy :( instead I have to post this ... lolz.. yeah I do..

I m leaving..

I think I have caused too much trouble for cy.. probly made it a living hell for u eh? Everythins kool between me n Umair . Hence, I rest my case....

Allah Hafiz...

~coOkiE~

Edited February 27, 2004 by cute_ooky

[ariba 0]

:o ,Okee tum ne kuch kehne kay kabil hi nahin chora.yaaar bhigne se tou kuch nahin hoo ga.jiase tum wahan fight karti hoo yaha bhi karo.

Girlz bhi tou hain na cy main unn ko tou na chor kar jaoo :( .

Acha abhi na aoo jub tum cool ho jaoo gi tub a jana

[umair.zm 0]

cute yeh batain kisi aur ne mujhey kahien hoti to main us ka moo tor deta ... cy kie porie community ke samney main yeh tumhiain kehta hon tum izat ke laik nahien ho ... main janita hon is post k baad shayad mujhey banned lag jaye ... lakin maine ajj tak apni life sab kie izat kie hia lakin jab kisi ko izat ras na aye to mian kuch naihen kar sakta ...aur han pakistaniyon ke barey main jo kuch soch rakha hia tum ne woh tumhari gandi soch hia ....maine to tumhian acha dost samjha tha juss as all cy members r ma friends... lakin tum ne apni asaliyat dikhaney main der nahien ki is liye laat marita hon main tumhari jesi dost par ...tum aik larki ho yeh soch kar k maine tumhain guftughoo nahien kaha lakin yahan akar tum kya sabit kairna chah rahee ho k tum bari shareef ho aur main kitna gaya ghuzra hoon... tum jesi soch rakhiney wali se baat to kya samney se bhie main naihen ghuzarita .... main apney friends kie bohut kadar kairta hon... arey yehi friends to hotey hian jin ke sath hum apney sukh dukh share karitey hian.... is liye agar merey dost jaan bhie mangitey to deney se inkar nahien karita... maine kahien suna tha k 7 days ka dost agar naraz ho jaye to usey manana chahiyee some thing like dat.... well jesi izat tum ne meri rakhee hia koie aur hota to tumhian badduayein deta ... lakin main phir bhie tumhiani dil se dua deta hon ... jahan bhie raho jesi bhie raho khush raho abad raho ... GOD BLESS u ....

[Waqas 48]

I read this topic in the morning and was waiting for Umair's comments about himself, and Finally he Proved that she was right about him and about his belongings

Umair You cannot post directly here, all your posts will approved first from Admin or Moderator ... even if u continue we may take further action against u ...will not just ban U

Use this kinda language at ur daily routine, but you are supposed to talk politely when you are here.

PM me the explainations WITHIN TWO days or post here

Thanks a lot ooky for this topic and i hope you've changed your mind now.

Kindly tell inform us before these situations before talking any decision yourself.

Ooky Hope to see you around on 25 and even after.

Waqas

[Asim 0]

umair.zm> u guessed it right.... after this post you are put under moderator queue unless you send us your explaination

Waqas> u wrote it quite well....

ooky> u stay here or u decide to leave.. these are purely your own decision and we cannot interfere in that... If my request means anything to you thn I will request you to consider your decision again.

I am shocked that cute_ooky never tried to contacted us. she should have atleast given a clue. are we that bad to be contacted for problems related to this websites and to complain about something? :( :( :(

[fati 0]

admin.. nice decision.

and for aimon... i wont stop u from leaving.. but just wanna say onething..

cy community is always a friendly place.. but only because of one person.. this whole community shudnt b blamed.. leaving this community for one bad case.. will certainly put a blame on the whole community... .. if someone is offending u here.. there will b many at the same time to support u... and always supporting the right person in the right case...

so waiting to celebrate ur one year here....

hoping to b together!

FATIma

[rukh 25]

aimon app nai kaha app nahi chahtee kai app ko koi rokay ..lakin is kay bawjood main app ko kahoon gee plz dont go ...i know kay mere bat ki itnee ahmeat nahi ...kai app ruk jaoo

agree with fati kissi ik nai bura kia to das guna zayda log app ki support kay ley yahan mojood hain .....

koi insan na kissi kay kehnay say rukta hay na jata hai kerta to woh wohee hai jo woh chahay ga ...lakin ager hum koi kam dosroon ki khushee key ley ker lain .... to yaqeenan is main app ka zarf hai ...

[rukh 25]

story of behind this incident is here

http://www.coolyarforums.com/index.php?showtopic=1892&st=15

[ADD 0]

salam 2 all

hmm very sorry to read all

baat itni thi nahi jinti barh gaye hain emotions zada nazar aarahe hain

umair n cute_ooky i m unable to say anything

although cute_ooky se chat nahi hui magar aap ko sub logon k bare main comments nahi dene chahiye aur ye bhi theek hai k aur bhi log hain agar kisi se na bane tu sub ko nahi chorna chahiye

mere khayal mian ghusay k elawa kuch nazar nahi aaya baki misunderstanding hai

Regards

its me

AD

[umair.zm 0]

I read this topic in the morning and was waiting for Umair's comments about himself, and Finally he Proved that she was right about him and about his belongings

waqas>>> i know dis is fact dat dis kinda language mujhey use nahien karinee chaiyee thee... itna to app ko bhie mujh par yakeen ho gha k main aese language kabhie use nahien kairta na maine pehley kabhie kie hia....... main koiee muafie nahien mangh raha na hie yeh samjha jaye k main kise bhie baat se dar raha hon ... miane kuch galat nahien kya hia dats for sure i m .... app ne sari detail bataoon .. well app yahan k addmin ho app ko haq hia janiney ka main pm nahien kar raha sab ke samney keh raha hon .....

jesey k hamesha se hie meri nature rahee hia k main har kisi member ke sath mazak mastee karita rehta hon... well main aimon se kafie arsey se to nahien balkey kuch hie arsey se baat karta aa raha hon ... aur hamarey beech kafie hansi mazak huoti rehti thee... us din bhie jab sidd aur main mazak kar rahey the cuty ke sath to cuty ko maine mazak main kaha k app jesey hum gareebon se baat nahien karein ghee to aur koun karey ... it was juss kinda joke as we use to joking alwaz ... suddenly cuty ne apney jarihana andaz main reply kar diya k app pakistani aese ho koiee app se izat se bhie karey to sar par char jatey etc baki sab app guftughoo main aur yahan cute k posts main dekh lo .... guftugoo maine socha k woh naraz ho gayee hia chalo theek hia main muafie mangh lon gha lakin ab yahan pata chala k yeh bara issue bana kar mujhey pora galat sabit kar aur yahan se chali jaa rahee hia .... waqas bhaie koie bhie larka ya larki app ko aese kehta to naturally gusaa aye gha .... dan in showbiz main us ne reply kya k wat u think of ur self etc ab mujh se bardasht na ho saka to maine sari batain khul k sab k samney keh dein ... dat was all about wat had happen ..... aur main pochina chaon gha main warn 100% kis galatee se hua hoon??/

[umair.zm 0]

admin.. nice decision.

and for aimon... i wont stop u from leaving.. but just wanna say onething..

cy community is always a friendly place.. but only because of one person.. this whole community shudnt b blamed.. leaving this community for one bad case.. will certainly put a blame on the whole community... .. if someone is offending u here.. there will b many at the same time to support u... and always supporting the right person in the right case...

so waiting to celebrate ur one year here....

hoping to b together!

agree with fati kissi ik nai bura kia to das guna zayda log app ki support kay ley yahan mojood hain

very good fati n rukh bohut khushie app ke comments parh kar ...

[Waqas 48]

Add you are right agar Umair yahan at least sooch samajh kar reply karta to things would be different from present but he lost his control and got over emotional but we give him a chance to explain ... Thanks Rukh for finding out the reason :)

Waqas

[umair.zm 0]

waqas bhaie maine apney views bata diyee hian

[a1b2c3 0]

cute_okay I am sorry to hear all this but Please do NOT say bad words for everyone when you have problem with one/few people. Say bad words for bad once only not fot for everyone.

[NaDaN 0]

Oh God!

wat is this!

well can't say much about it

But Aimon.. You.. i know You already warned us not to Stop You

But forgive me on this!! PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ Dont GO!...

wasay i think being elder i can order You to Stay!.. i know You r such a nice gal that You wont refuse me! but I OfCourse i want You to decide wat is best for You!

and how dare you think

" I think I have caused too much trouble for cy.. probly made it a living hell for u eh?"

all this! ... its IMpossible! YOu 'ev been so good n honest all the time!! and this is the best thing about YOU and such thing can never cause any trouble at alll!

Plz do comeBack!! a Humble Request!!!

[HamZaad 0]

All this is very astonishing to me....I have spent at least 1 hour to go through the all situation and related posts....i event read all the wordings very carefully....this situation starts with some words by umair...i dont know he used these words intentionaly or not but these were having some wrong meaning as aimon got...but if i use my observation about umair than i think he is not a guy to use these words with such bad meanings willingly.

Aimon,s response is considerable...no girl will like these words...but as she mentioned it with all pakistani guys..its not fair by her.....she should not think in sterio type way.

As concerned to her decesion to leave the CY.....it depends on her own will but i will request her to not leave the CY and be with us...being a guy I also sorry for the words used by umair.

Edited February 22, 2004 by HamZaad

[rythm 0]

yes Hamzaad u right

Mujeh bhi yehi laga ki umair ne jo bhi baat kahi baas mazak main.. beshak woh sab se mazak karta hai.. lakin usne jo baat kahi.. uss se uska koi bura matlab nahi thha..

I am sorry Aimon.. u r such a nice girl.. but apke saath thori missunderstanding hui hai..

and Admins and everyone!!! i dint find anything wrong in umairs saying.. everyone know that he jokes with everyone..

yes ager apne usko warn kiya to its fine.. k beshak jo kuch bhi hua.. lakin usko polite rehna chahiey thha..

but 100% warnings..

baat itni nahi thi.. jitna uska batangar bana hai....

.............................

RyThEm" :flower:

[cute_ooky 0]

Hi,

Emm I dunno where to start from..

Ok I have lots to say so I m gunna say it in point form and also try to reply to everyone:

1. I apologize for saying that all Pakistani guys are the same.. afcourse not!!! Actually at the time I was so angry that I couldn’t think properly and by attacking Umair there, I didn’t mean to attack the whole race.. I mean Pakistan is a sweet country.. sweet because it’s my homeland.. I was born there.. I know a lot of people in cy and out there in real world, Ya’ll are really nice. Well ok I m gunna be a hundred percent honest wid all of u… I dun really know a lot of Pakistani guys and those who I know (truly) are over the internet.. In Canada, the only Pakistani guy that I know is Ozair (aka Zoom) and blv me he is a very bad example of how Pakistani guys are and the worst representator of boys ever (sorry Zoom but u know its true!!!)… over the internet I have had guy friends but they are such jerks to me. Every second person who I meet over net uses it for other purposes... not good ones… So pehle se… lets just say that Pakistani guys have not had a very good impression on me…

The other thing is that whenever I talk to a Pak guy, they always think of me as a “BAD†Canadian chic who have totally forgot abt her culture and whatever and ends up bulcr*ping abt me… so it all kind of adds up.. and when I took it out, I sort of exaggerated by blaming all the guys. I m really sorry for that.

2. Umair: When I first started talking to him, I thought he was a very kool type of guy and I really liked him n I still do :) I have forgiven him because last night my grandma told me sumthing and also because our Prophet S.A.W yold us to forgive each other.. So, I say it openly I forgive u…

Tata..

~coOkiE~

Edited February 27, 2004 by cute_ooky

[ariba 0]

Welcome back!!!!!!.Story with a great moral tou yeh hai. :D

[fati 0]

well. i think problem is solved now...

when people dont mean any harm then they shud b forgiven...

as umair said and v all know umair has always been polite.. i mean i never felt he is insulting someone.. he is friendly and humorous guy.. but sometimes.. ur humour isnt appreciated by the other person... or perhaps when v arent talking face to face , emotions couldnt b presented. umair was joking and ooky took it seriously. but he meant no harm.

and as ooky is mentioning the language that umair has used..... he was angry okky.. like u were angry and u blamed all the pakistani boys for it... u were getting emotional. so he got also. thats y its always said not to b angry.. :)

u know ooky. u dont have to get serious in any case... ... u arent the only target.. :) u know such sentences arent only passed on u. these r being passed on everybody heree.. :) and nobody is serious about it.. these r only friendly remarks..

earlier a member got banned because of many misunderstandings.. here everyone tries to b friends.. there werent any hard feelings.. so forget about the whole thing...... cheer up and

SMILE :flower:

everyone of u give a smile. :)

[mansoor 0]

Aslmao laikum !

its really nice to seee every thing is back to nOrmal :D

Aimon :D itneee gusssaaaa :( ??? .... nahi bheee Pakistan is the best place in the world and Pakistani guys, although theY have some"special" steriotypes.. <_< .. and conservative thoughts ... but like every one said ... NOT every one is same ... i have met many nice and special ppl in actual and on net ..

if u met some ppl who were not good it does not mean .. every one is same

And welcome Back :D and i hope u will Pakistanise wid passege of time :D

Umair ..... as far as i could read the stufff .. from guftgu and here .. i Personally think U Never intended what Aimon may have thought ..

BUT yarrr the kinda language u used was;nt appropriate one ... if she thinks pakistani guys are not good .. by using the same TONE u were making her more firm ..... Guusa zaroor atta hai .. infact when i read the stuff baout pakistani guys .. i was screwed up tooo ... but u should have started ur post from the lines u used in the end .. when u gave her ur prayers ...

Achaaaaa Abbbb yaaaa bHut hoo chukkaaa UMAIR ... tumm SORRYYY karnay main pehall karooooo ....

And Aimon !!!! u should accept the applogy ... :)

Now lets Make this forum a FUN place gain ...

keep smiling and let the other smile as well :D

MansOor Shaker

[Asim 0]

welcome back ooky

it feels gr8 to have you back..

umair> the 100% warning level was temporary. U gave your explaination. Its all clear now and the warning levels have been reset.

[Asim 0]

mansoor> yes wmair.zm should appologies (although I don't say he should appologize in PUBLIC. He may PM her.) and cute_ooky should accept that.

Asim

[rukh 25]

ohhh so finnaly AIMON is back :D

welcome back AIMON , :flower:

[rukh 25]

very good fati n rukh bohut khushie app ke comments parh kar ...

umiar > bat khusee ya gum ki nahi hai ..bat asool ki hai

aimon ko bhi gusa tha or app ko bhi ..lakin app apni or aimon ki post ka comparison kero ?

aimon nai koi bad word app kay ley use nahi kia .. us ko jo problem tha us nai sub ka bata diya ...

app.. nai direct personal attack kia hai ..IZAT dainay wala ALLAH hai app nahi ...

moon tor dayta ..main laat marta hoon etc yeh kis qissam kai words hain ?

aimon nai apni post main tmam pakistnai guyz ko bura kaha lakin phir apni ghaltee accept ker kay sorry bhi ker diya ..

to asoolan to app ko bhi ab apni is ghaltee per sorry kehna cheye ..

bherhal mera maqsad kissi ko hurt kerna nahi hey ...

or ik bat main sub key ley kehna chaoon gee ..jub app kissi say mazak kerain ..to phir apnay ander itna hosla zaroor paida kerain kai us kai mazak ko bhi berdasht kerain ....or plz plz mazak main bhi apny alfaz ko control main rakhain ..

Edited February 23, 2004 by rukh