fati 0 Posted April 26, 2003 love marriages r totally fine. some ppl say that they donot succeed. because b4 marriage they girl and guy both pose them selves and after marriage they r exposed. i mean they r totally different b4 and after. but i think that the people who do love marriage and it dosnt succeed , if they have done arranged one, it wouldnt have succeded even. so love marriages as well as arranged r ok. but marriage is a second name of love. without love whats the relationship then. success of a marriage only depends how compromising the girl and guy are. how much tolerance they have. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Waqas 48 Posted April 26, 2003 hey guys...... mairi century ho gae..... i mean 100 posts in just a month:D Congrats !! You made a century here You registered on Mar. 28 2003,05:43 so a month is not completed yet :) Waqas Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Waqas 48 Posted April 26, 2003 nahi sir abhi to main is feild main nahi aay abhi seekh rahi hoon! wud u plz help me!!!!! :inlove: :inlove: Na baba na toba karo abhi meri age hi kia hai ye kaam mujh se nahin ho sakta :D CrazyGuy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted April 26, 2003 hmmm thanks all for apprciating mah live work :P Mansoor Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Asim 0 Posted April 26, 2003 I have voted NO what I have observed is that there's very little LUV in LUV marriages. Most of the time the reason is attraction, crush, some Emotional Dialogues or just for the safe of love. Tomorrow I was with my friends, eating out before a movie arranged by the movie club of our college (guess which movie was it? Die another day oh boy not again). When we returned from there to college we decided to take the shortcut from model town park. It was around 2:00 noon and 41 degree centigrade. when we hardly walked 100 meters, one of my friend saw a couple behind a tree. He is an expert in scramming dates and scaring them away. He just told us and we wend towards that tree to see what he'll do with them. At first we were amazed to see what was happening there. The girl was hardly 18 with the buttons of her shirt open and the boy (or should I say a man) nearly 25 was fre**h kissing her and they were so bzy that they did not even knew we were at their heads. When we finally made them aware of our presence the girl suddenly buttoned her shirt and took her dupatta and the boy's face turned potato red in seconds. They were so confused and scared that they evacuated the park in micro seconds. This was not th ONLY couple to be found in this condition but there are many cases a day where the two hang out somewhere and they love each oher and they finally end up in worse conditions. my point is that now-a-days ther is no such thing a love between oposte genders so where the heck this love marriage came from????? the so called love marriages mostly end-up in seperation/divorce. you know them too. there might be a one in a million chance when the love marriage survives. Yes there is LOVE after marriage but its hard to believe a love b4 that. That was my opinion. waiting for yourz. Asim Zeeshan Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sania 0 Posted April 26, 2003 omg.. Asim is this really true.. i can not believe this happening in pakistan and in a park... omg.. kaisa zamaana aa gaya hai.. laanat hai aaisay logooon par Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Waqas 48 Posted April 26, 2003 Oh ji Asim bhai who says you to go in the parks like that? :D Nice post after a long Waqas Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabbia 0 Posted April 26, 2003 salam ! :P hmmmmmmmmm nice Post Asim ji! i have 2 write something indetail abt ur Post not now! after my exams! :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabbia 0 Posted April 26, 2003 Na baba na toba karo abhi meri age hi kia hai ye kaam mujh se nahin ho sakta :D :P aha! Toba Toba! bas theek :D: well main bhool gai k u r only 2 months and 13days old sorrrrrrryyyyyyyyy i dailed a wrong number Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabbia 0 Posted April 26, 2003 Sania congrats!!!!!!!!! 4 century ! hay look at me i m trying to make century from 9 months :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sania 0 Posted April 26, 2003 thanz rabia... you have 7 more posts to go.. good luck Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted April 27, 2003 asim is right. love b4 marriage doesnt have any meaning. but even if their exists a decent love then love marriage is not a harmful thing. if love marriages fail then arranged fails too.but the love ones r noted most becoz it was decision of kids. ppl have related useless superstitions to it. but ofcouse our parents can do it better. but its the islamic as well as legal right of a grownup that they can marry according to their will and none can deny that. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sweet23 0 Posted May 14, 2003 yes love marriages r not succesful if it is not also arnaged. but it together if arranged it is much better. bec parents knows whats better for her child. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted May 14, 2003 well i didnt read that park thing. but its true. thats happening in park, in cars, every where. yukkkk disgusting. butttt i do beleive in love marriages. the marriage totally depends upon the married ones.they r mature, dumb, fool, etcccc well its our legal right to decide things by ourselves. anddddd love marriage is also an arranged one. :d: ya parents know better sweet23 but if a person has already fallen in love and parents force him to marry some body else. it will b difficult , hard to imagine that he can make up with this forced decision. Conclusion: dont fall in love b4 marriageeee. (oh God ,somebody could tell me this b4) :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Waqas 48 Posted May 17, 2003 Sweet23 i agreed you if Love marriages are arranged then they can be successful Waqas Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Asim 0 Posted May 17, 2003 Loves marriages are nice if they are handle with care. ego and stuff like that does not have any room in it. That's what I think Asim Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fati 0 Posted May 17, 2003 asim u r right this time too. and waqas also. love marriages shud also b arranged. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabbia 0 Posted May 18, 2003 salam me back ! Hmm nice thought Asim & Waqas+ Fati! but Asim!! In u r 1st post in this topic u said sumthing else! :( jahan tak baat hai luv marriages ki woh main pahlay bhi kah chuki hoon k agar to aap apni marzi say karo gay to ilzam aap par right! aur yesss!!!!yaad aya i was'nt talking abt dating and all that stuff in this topic! i was asking abt luv marriages! the thing which u described was bad i admitt! but i think so k dating and all that is not included in luv marriage jahan tak main samajhty hoon ! ??? and those guys abt whom u wrote were in my view doing a sin...or a mistake[Dating] Zaroori to nahi k sab aisay hi luv marriage kartay hoon ???right! And simply they were flirting ! :( Aur abt luv in opposite gender i had written in ur post! waiting 4 ur views ! :;): Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sidd 0 Posted July 10, 2003 Dear friends Love marriages will b unsuccesfull in case if there is no love in my opinion now a days ppl thinks abt there liking as a love and they get emotional and marry after few year they understand that that wasn't love it was only emotionality and than other ppl say love marriages are unsuccessful.one more thing we should kill our ego,the most harmful thing in our life. One more thing most important thing in love is understanding. before love marriage u must decide is this a love ur emotionality.bcoz 90% couple r emotional rather than lover.so in my opinion if u r in love and really have understanding with that particular person than ur marriage never failed.bcoz there r so many ppl around us who has love marriage and live happily so wht do u think abt that? well it was my opinion may b it would against u ppl. In Love S I D D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Asim 0 Posted July 10, 2003 Salam sidd, you are right in saying that love is understanding. I agree that love is understanding between two lovers. But sometimes ppl do mix up love and crush together that leads to a love marraige where love never exist. Resulting in divorce. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mansoor 0 Posted July 10, 2003 Nice Stuff Sidd :) asim And Aimon i agree wid u pals .. i can agree blindly if there is somethin about luv :P Old topic new folks lets see what happens :D Mansoor Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sidd 0 Posted July 10, 2003 thx Asim and Mansoor well same thing said just decide before taking any step is this really a love or just attachment.Asim u r right some times ppl do mix up love so before marriage decision is v.v. important. Take care In Love S I D D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rabbia 0 Posted July 10, 2003 well nice comments going on Asim & sidd will write sumthing very soon ! :ph34r: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sidd 0 Posted July 10, 2003 (edited) rabbia thx for comments on my comments now we r waiting for ur comments In Love S I D D Edited July 11, 2003 by sidd Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
