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love or arranged?

marriages.. love or arranged>?  

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  1. 1. marriages.. love or arranged>?

    • 1. sould be love marriage
      2
    • 2.should be arrange marriage
      0
    • 3.a mixture of both
      14


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asalamoalikum

ahh well here im again well seeing the polls .. it just hit ma mind that theres a fav question in our society so i presented this to u

take care

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guess what I voted 4 :D

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W/salam awaaiis

A mutual decision is ALWAYS best!!

Sx

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The best one i voted for...

why dont u!

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i vote for the best tooooooooooooooooooo

In Love

:wub::wub::wub:

S I D D

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third one!!

third one !!

third one!!

ghar walai khush to ap bhi khush Allah bhi khush hai to ghum aya kahan saii

likin aik doosrai ko janna is very important

urs admirer

amen arif

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i think it shud b a mixture but nowadays when the parents come to know that the boy and girl love each other, they just get determined not to let them married. strange psych.

but its better that parents shud also b included in the decision. coz they have a gr8 right on us.

the path in between is the best. thats the third one.a misture of both.

asim i wonder y there is one vote for love marriages.

lol

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ghar walai  khush to ap bhi khush Allah bhi khush hai to ghum aya kahan saii

likin aik doosrai ko janna is very important

right

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but nowadays when the parents come to know that the boy and girl love each other, they just get determined not to let them married. strange psych.

yes I have observed it too. I think the parents make it an issue of their ego. hence they refuse to accept what their children want even though thy don't find anything objectionable in it.

asim i wonder y there is one vote for love marriages.

congrats. you guessed it right. :D

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asim right. they do involve ego in it. but its of no use, becoz of such a behaviour of parents, most guys and girls r willing to do whats against the will of parents.

thnx for the congrats.i guessed a riddle. lol

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mixture is best aap bhi kush gher walay bhi kush ,parrents issue kion banatay kabhi eyah kisi nay socha ,kafee reason hai humaray terf beradri system hai tu parrenst ko aitraz hai keh sheikh ka beta jut ki beti say shadi nahee keray ga same goes for jutss n other beradrees,phir ameeri ghareebi bhi hai, or bohat kuch abhi timelugay ka lkein theek ho ajye ga sub i am optimistic abt it.

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hmmmm Good .... well agar kisi ko ghar mai pitwana ho to yeah channel baday kaam ka hai .... jis ko pitwana hai us kai parents ki is site ka address dai diya jay .... us kai baad to un kai baitay\baiti ka Allah hi hafiz hai .... well i think tht the marrieges of both the mixture of love and arrange marriegs r better and more success ful as compare to one sighted agreement ...... kion kai apni marzi se shadi karo gay to sari zindagi ghar walon ki baat manani paray gi kai itna bada step khud utha liya ab ghar waloon ki chalay gi ... aur agar arange marriege ho gi to woh bhi kisi tarha sahi hai magar phir wife\housband ko control karna mushkil hai kion kaik oi bhi aik dosaray ki nature mai ghul milnay kai liyay time lagay ga ... magar mixture se ye sab problems nahi hongi ....... phir is tarha dog ghar ka bhi ho jata hai aur ghaattt ka bhi .... aur love marriege kar kai to wohi wali kahani ho jati hai kai dog na ghar ka na ghaatttt ka ... m i ryte ??? :D

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who is the dog here i thought keh hum insanoo ki bat ker rahay thay ,waisay wajid bhai aap taqreeban sahee ho lekin dog walee bat sahee nahe hai .

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hehehe nice ..... i m with option 3..... plz mairay answer ko lock kar dain ... i m 100 % confident :D

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well bugs i think u take wajid's example seriously its only example yaar and i think it was a good example at that piont he is right . if man marry with arrange and love's mixture than he will b succeed in both rols .

In Love

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S I D D

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MUST b Arranged Love Marriage ;)

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oh bhai sid searious kon hua hai i was jokin yar .

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welll sidd mairi bat kar raha hai bug ... :D

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Bugs, Wajid Is Right Plz Wajid Don't Mind:D

In Love

:wub: :wub: :wub:

S I D D

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ya sure. .... we talk here friendly ....... :) ... mai illetrate frends ka bura nahi maanta :D ..... joking

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Zaiayda ghamand karna buri baat hothi hai Wajid.. be thankful for what Allah has gifted u so far.. what he has given he can easily take away from u... I'm NOT joking :P

Sx

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hain chukker ki ahai ? sumthin fishy fishy goin on under ma nose i can smeel it hmmmmmmmmmmmm,palay bacho b cool.

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